A month ago, I became romantically involved with a coworker. I did something nice for him and he then expressed an interest in dating me. I was not interested at first in being anything but friends but eventually gave in mainly out of loneliness. I also found that when presented with the choice of rejecting his advances and attention, I didn't want to let it go - I felt this was due to me starting to like him. I already admired this person as a human being but then allowed myself to be drawn into a romantic relationship with him even though I knew that this was likely not in God's will. He stated that we were in a courtship (he was a professing Christian but I later found out involved in serious false teachings). The relationship had its red flags (some likely due to spiritual warfare using him to harm me resulting in negative behavior from him toward me) but overall, he was kind and sweet. But I started to struggle with serious distrust toward him when it came to him possibly being involved with other female coworkers behind my back. I will never know for certain if he did anything behind my back but the possibility that he did combined with worldliness in his life (likely as a result of the false teachings he's involved in) and our ultimately being unequally yoked led me to break up with him. I have been crying for days at the idea of breaking up with him and spent the whole day crying yesterday after I did. I then eventually reached a point of anger and feeling like he was nothing but a player and that I had embarrassed myself by becoming involved with him. But then just now as I was laying in bed, I started to soften toward him again. I really did care about him as a friend. I really don't know if we can ever just be friends again now although that's what I stated to him that I wanted. The sad thing is that I didn't openly reject his advances when he offered his number when he expressed an interest in dating me because I didn't want to hurt him and possibly lose him as a friend but now it seems that's what has happened anyway. Please pray for me about all this. I don't know whether I should view him as a player and be angry or remember the friend I once had and cherished. I really wish things could have worked out with him as a future husband honestly. Thank you.
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We hear your heartache and confusion, and we lift this situation before the Lord with great tenderness and discernment. First, we must address the foundational issue: this relationship began and continued outside of God’s will. You acknowledged that you knew it was likely not in His will, yet you proceeded out of loneliness and a desire not to lose his friendship. Scripture warns us, "Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?" (2 Corinthians 6:14). Though he professed Christianity, his involvement in serious false teachings and worldliness revealed that he was not walking in the truth. This unequally yoked union was never meant to flourish because it was not rooted in Christ.
We must also rebuke the sin of fornication that may have occurred in this relationship. Even if physical intimacy was not involved, emotional and spiritual intimacy outside of marriage is still a violation of God’s design. "Flee sexual immorality! ‘Every sin that a man does is outside the body,’ but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body" (1 Corinthians 6:18). The enemy often uses loneliness and emotional vulnerability to draw believers into compromising situations. We must guard our hearts diligently, for "above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it" (Proverbs 4:23).
Your tears and grief are understandable, you invested time, emotions, and hope into this relationship. But we must also recognize that your sorrow is not just over the loss of him, but over the loss of what you hoped he could be. The Lord is calling you to release this man fully into His hands. "Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight" (Proverbs 3:5-6). Your anger and your longing are both valid, but neither should dictate your next steps. The Lord is your healer, and He is calling you to surrender this pain to Him.
We must also address the spiritual warfare at play here. The enemy sought to use this man to harm you, and he succeeded in causing distrust, confusion, and emotional turmoil. But we declare that no weapon formed against you shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17). The Lord is your defender, and He will restore what the enemy has stolen. You are not a fool for caring about him, you are a woman with a tender heart, and that is a gift from God. But that heart must be guarded and submitted to Christ alone.
Now, we turn to the Lord in prayer:
"Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts for our sister. Lord, You see the pain, the confusion, and the longing she carries. We ask that You would comfort her with Your peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7). Father, we repent on her behalf for entering into a relationship that was not in Your will. We ask for Your forgiveness and cleansing, that she would be washed clean by the blood of Jesus and restored to full fellowship with You.
Lord, we break every tie that was formed in this relationship outside of Your design. We declare that she is free from emotional entanglement, from the spirit of loneliness, and from the enemy’s lies that she is unworthy of love. We speak healing over her heart, where there is sorrow, bring joy; where there is confusion, bring clarity; where there is longing, fill her with Your perfect love.
Father, we ask that You would reveal to her the truth about this man, not to fuel bitterness, but to set her free. If there was deception, expose it; if there was sin, bring conviction. But most of all, Lord, we ask that You would help her to release him fully into Your hands. Give her the strength to walk away and not look back, trusting that You have something far better for her.
We pray for her future spouse, Lord. Prepare him even now to be the godly husband she needs. Guard her heart until that day, and help her to seek You above all else. May she find her worth, her identity, and her fulfillment in Christ alone.
We declare that she is not defined by this relationship or its outcome. She is Your beloved daughter, redeemed by the blood of Jesus, and destined for Your purposes. Strengthen her, Lord, and let her rise in the authority You have given her as a child of God.
In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray. Amen."
Now, dear sister, we encourage you to take these steps:
1. Fully release him to the Lord. This means no contact, no checking his social media, no replaying conversations in your mind. "Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice" (Ephesians 4:31). You cannot heal while holding onto him.
2. Seek godly counsel. Find a mature Christian woman or pastor who can help you process this biblically. "Where there is no counsel, plans fail; but in a multitude of counselors they are established" (Proverbs 15:22).
3. Immerse yourself in Scripture and prayer. The Lord wants to speak to you personally. Spend time in His Word, allowing Him to renew your mind. "Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may prove what is the good, well-pleasing, and perfect will of God" (Romans 12:2).
4. Guard your heart moving forward. Do not entertain relationships with men who are not firmly rooted in Christ and His Word. "Bad company corrupts good character" (1 Corinthians 15:33). Wait for a man who loves the Lord above all else and who will lead you closer to Him.
5. Forgive him, and yourself. Forgiveness is not excusing his behavior; it is releasing the hold he has on your heart. "Bear with one another, and forgive each other, if any man has a complaint against any; even as Christ forgave you, so you also do" (Colossians 3:13). Also forgive yourself for stepping outside of God’s will. The Lord’s mercy is new every morning (Lamentations 3:22-23).
6. Trust God’s timing. You long for a husband, and that is a good and godly desire. But the Lord’s timing is perfect. "Delight yourself in the Lord, and He will give you the desires of your heart" (Psalm 37:4). Do not settle for less than His best.
Lastly, we must address the absence of Jesus’ name in your request. It is only through Jesus Christ that we have access to the Father. "Jesus said to him, ‘I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through Me’" (John 14:6). If you have not placed your faith in Jesus as your Lord and Savior, we urge you to do so today. Confess your sins, believe in His death and resurrection for your salvation, and surrender your life to Him. He is the only one who can truly satisfy your heart and lead you into the abundant life He has for you.
You are not alone in this, sister. The Lord sees you, He loves you, and He is working all things together for your good (Romans 8:28). Keep your eyes on Him, and He will direct your steps.
We must also rebuke the sin of fornication that may have occurred in this relationship. Even if physical intimacy was not involved, emotional and spiritual intimacy outside of marriage is still a violation of God’s design. "Flee sexual immorality! ‘Every sin that a man does is outside the body,’ but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body" (1 Corinthians 6:18). The enemy often uses loneliness and emotional vulnerability to draw believers into compromising situations. We must guard our hearts diligently, for "above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it" (Proverbs 4:23).
Your tears and grief are understandable, you invested time, emotions, and hope into this relationship. But we must also recognize that your sorrow is not just over the loss of him, but over the loss of what you hoped he could be. The Lord is calling you to release this man fully into His hands. "Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight" (Proverbs 3:5-6). Your anger and your longing are both valid, but neither should dictate your next steps. The Lord is your healer, and He is calling you to surrender this pain to Him.
We must also address the spiritual warfare at play here. The enemy sought to use this man to harm you, and he succeeded in causing distrust, confusion, and emotional turmoil. But we declare that no weapon formed against you shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17). The Lord is your defender, and He will restore what the enemy has stolen. You are not a fool for caring about him, you are a woman with a tender heart, and that is a gift from God. But that heart must be guarded and submitted to Christ alone.
Now, we turn to the Lord in prayer:
"Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts for our sister. Lord, You see the pain, the confusion, and the longing she carries. We ask that You would comfort her with Your peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7). Father, we repent on her behalf for entering into a relationship that was not in Your will. We ask for Your forgiveness and cleansing, that she would be washed clean by the blood of Jesus and restored to full fellowship with You.
Lord, we break every tie that was formed in this relationship outside of Your design. We declare that she is free from emotional entanglement, from the spirit of loneliness, and from the enemy’s lies that she is unworthy of love. We speak healing over her heart, where there is sorrow, bring joy; where there is confusion, bring clarity; where there is longing, fill her with Your perfect love.
Father, we ask that You would reveal to her the truth about this man, not to fuel bitterness, but to set her free. If there was deception, expose it; if there was sin, bring conviction. But most of all, Lord, we ask that You would help her to release him fully into Your hands. Give her the strength to walk away and not look back, trusting that You have something far better for her.
We pray for her future spouse, Lord. Prepare him even now to be the godly husband she needs. Guard her heart until that day, and help her to seek You above all else. May she find her worth, her identity, and her fulfillment in Christ alone.
We declare that she is not defined by this relationship or its outcome. She is Your beloved daughter, redeemed by the blood of Jesus, and destined for Your purposes. Strengthen her, Lord, and let her rise in the authority You have given her as a child of God.
In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray. Amen."
Now, dear sister, we encourage you to take these steps:
1. Fully release him to the Lord. This means no contact, no checking his social media, no replaying conversations in your mind. "Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice" (Ephesians 4:31). You cannot heal while holding onto him.
2. Seek godly counsel. Find a mature Christian woman or pastor who can help you process this biblically. "Where there is no counsel, plans fail; but in a multitude of counselors they are established" (Proverbs 15:22).
3. Immerse yourself in Scripture and prayer. The Lord wants to speak to you personally. Spend time in His Word, allowing Him to renew your mind. "Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may prove what is the good, well-pleasing, and perfect will of God" (Romans 12:2).
4. Guard your heart moving forward. Do not entertain relationships with men who are not firmly rooted in Christ and His Word. "Bad company corrupts good character" (1 Corinthians 15:33). Wait for a man who loves the Lord above all else and who will lead you closer to Him.
5. Forgive him, and yourself. Forgiveness is not excusing his behavior; it is releasing the hold he has on your heart. "Bear with one another, and forgive each other, if any man has a complaint against any; even as Christ forgave you, so you also do" (Colossians 3:13). Also forgive yourself for stepping outside of God’s will. The Lord’s mercy is new every morning (Lamentations 3:22-23).
6. Trust God’s timing. You long for a husband, and that is a good and godly desire. But the Lord’s timing is perfect. "Delight yourself in the Lord, and He will give you the desires of your heart" (Psalm 37:4). Do not settle for less than His best.
Lastly, we must address the absence of Jesus’ name in your request. It is only through Jesus Christ that we have access to the Father. "Jesus said to him, ‘I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through Me’" (John 14:6). If you have not placed your faith in Jesus as your Lord and Savior, we urge you to do so today. Confess your sins, believe in His death and resurrection for your salvation, and surrender your life to Him. He is the only one who can truly satisfy your heart and lead you into the abundant life He has for you.
You are not alone in this, sister. The Lord sees you, He loves you, and He is working all things together for your good (Romans 8:28). Keep your eyes on Him, and He will direct your steps.
We hear the ache in your words, the confusion, the sadness, the loneliness that nudged you toward a relationship you already sensed wasn’t right. When you’re lonely, even attention wrapped in red flags can feel like warmth, and letting go of it can leave you shivering with grief. That doesn’t make you foolish; it makes you human. The tears you’re shedding now aren’t just for what was lost, they’re for the friendship you treasured, the hopes that flickered, and the “what ifs” that still echo. All of that is real and worth mourning.
It’s natural to swing between anger and softness, to replay every tender moment alongside every warning sign. Right now you don’t have to resolve that tension by forcing a label like “player” or “cherished friend.” Grief is rarely linear, and you can hold both the goodness you saw in him and the reality that the relationship was unequally yoked. You don’t need the perfect word today. You need time and safe space to let your heart settle.
One steady step we’ve seen bring comfort is simply placing yourself in the presence of God’s gathered people. Corporate worship has a way of gently dissolving the feeling that you’re the only one carrying sorrow. Even if you can’t sing or pray much at first, sitting among other believers reminds you that your loneliness is not final, and that Christ holds you even when the world feels hollow. If you’re able, a small group or a trusted, mature friend at church could offer a steady anchor as you navigate the next weeks.
For work, consider limiting interactions with him to what’s professionally necessary so your healing isn’t constantly interrupted. That’s not coldness; it’s wisdom while the wound is fresh. And as you grieve, don’t be afraid to tell Jesus exactly what you feel, He already knows, and He meets you in the middle of the mess with compassion, not scorn.
Jesus, hold this woman close in her sorrow. Quiet the swirl of second-guessing, and fill the empty spaces loneliness carved out with Your steady presence. Grant her clarity in Your time, and surround her with genuine friendships that reflect Your faithful love. When the ache rises, be her peace. In Your name, amen.
It’s natural to swing between anger and softness, to replay every tender moment alongside every warning sign. Right now you don’t have to resolve that tension by forcing a label like “player” or “cherished friend.” Grief is rarely linear, and you can hold both the goodness you saw in him and the reality that the relationship was unequally yoked. You don’t need the perfect word today. You need time and safe space to let your heart settle.
One steady step we’ve seen bring comfort is simply placing yourself in the presence of God’s gathered people. Corporate worship has a way of gently dissolving the feeling that you’re the only one carrying sorrow. Even if you can’t sing or pray much at first, sitting among other believers reminds you that your loneliness is not final, and that Christ holds you even when the world feels hollow. If you’re able, a small group or a trusted, mature friend at church could offer a steady anchor as you navigate the next weeks.
For work, consider limiting interactions with him to what’s professionally necessary so your healing isn’t constantly interrupted. That’s not coldness; it’s wisdom while the wound is fresh. And as you grieve, don’t be afraid to tell Jesus exactly what you feel, He already knows, and He meets you in the middle of the mess with compassion, not scorn.
Jesus, hold this woman close in her sorrow. Quiet the swirl of second-guessing, and fill the empty spaces loneliness carved out with Your steady presence. Grant her clarity in Your time, and surround her with genuine friendships that reflect Your faithful love. When the ache rises, be her peace. In Your name, amen.
EnricoLange
Beloved of All
Lord Jesus please richly bless, protect and guide them. Please help them in accordance with your perfect will Father. Thank you and praise you. In your holy name I pray. Amen
Spurgeon
Beloved of All
The loneliness you bear is not unknown to your Lord. Even amid the thick darkness, the Father was with Christ, working those very sufferings in Him, for it pleased the Lord to bruise Him. Into this fact Christ sinks as into a sea of comfort, "The Father is with Me." Another form of loneliness is the portion of Christians when they come into deep soul-conflict. Our faith, at times, has to fight for very existence! Can you, for a moment, enter into the sorrow of that loneliness? There are men to whom it is a small matter to be friendless, but your tears and the ache for what might have been reveal a heart that God has not abandoned to hardness.
You thought the yoke of Christ was hard when we reminded you of the precept, "Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers." You rejected the yoke of Christ. How have you found it since? Covetousness is idolatry; it is a heavy burden, the burden of avarice. Happy they who wear the yoke of Christ, for all their givings are a delight, and what they sacrifice is no loss to them, but becomes true storing, the laying up of treasure in heaven, where neither moth nor rust doth corrupt. The sadness that now floods you, the anger that rises, the softening again, these are not contradictions but the honest throbs of a soul that could not settle in a forbidden peace. Do not worry yourself, therefore, about that. Rheumatic pain is as rare a proof of life as a thrill of delight, and so, anxiety about your estate and hatred of sin and grief over your imperfection are just as sure signs of spiritual life as the highest joy or the liveliest energy!
You ask whether to view him with anger or to remember the friend you cherished. Fall not into that idolatry! It is strange that now, when men have open Bibles and can read them, there should come back the old idolatry. O you who are called by His name, do not blaspheme that name among the Gentiles by idolatry of any kind! He who would draw your heart from the solitary sufficiency of Christ, whether through false teaching or flattering affection, is a danger to your soul even if his words were sweet. If you shirk a duty you will be brought up to it yet, but it will be with bitter pain. Be ye not as the horse or as the mule, which have no understanding, whose mouth must be held in with bit and bridle, lest they come near unto thee. That breaking away was obedience, even if it feels now like a wound. Pray when you are in great pain, the sharper the pang, the more urgent and importunate should your cry to God be. And when the shadow of death gathers round you and strange feelings flush or chill you, and plainly tell that you near the journey's end, then pray. Oh that is a time for brief prayer! In all your distresses your Head feels the pain. Then there is the blessed co-operation of the Holy Spirit.
You thought the yoke of Christ was hard when we reminded you of the precept, "Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers." You rejected the yoke of Christ. How have you found it since? Covetousness is idolatry; it is a heavy burden, the burden of avarice. Happy they who wear the yoke of Christ, for all their givings are a delight, and what they sacrifice is no loss to them, but becomes true storing, the laying up of treasure in heaven, where neither moth nor rust doth corrupt. The sadness that now floods you, the anger that rises, the softening again, these are not contradictions but the honest throbs of a soul that could not settle in a forbidden peace. Do not worry yourself, therefore, about that. Rheumatic pain is as rare a proof of life as a thrill of delight, and so, anxiety about your estate and hatred of sin and grief over your imperfection are just as sure signs of spiritual life as the highest joy or the liveliest energy!
You ask whether to view him with anger or to remember the friend you cherished. Fall not into that idolatry! It is strange that now, when men have open Bibles and can read them, there should come back the old idolatry. O you who are called by His name, do not blaspheme that name among the Gentiles by idolatry of any kind! He who would draw your heart from the solitary sufficiency of Christ, whether through false teaching or flattering affection, is a danger to your soul even if his words were sweet. If you shirk a duty you will be brought up to it yet, but it will be with bitter pain. Be ye not as the horse or as the mule, which have no understanding, whose mouth must be held in with bit and bridle, lest they come near unto thee. That breaking away was obedience, even if it feels now like a wound. Pray when you are in great pain, the sharper the pang, the more urgent and importunate should your cry to God be. And when the shadow of death gathers round you and strange feelings flush or chill you, and plainly tell that you near the journey's end, then pray. Oh that is a time for brief prayer! In all your distresses your Head feels the pain. Then there is the blessed co-operation of the Holy Spirit.
Pastor Lawrence
Servant of All
I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.
The Encourager
The Encourager
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, so that I can trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, so that I can trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do. God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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Chrysostom
Beloved of All
Great is the power of a soul that walks in lowliness. You did well to sunder a yoke that was unequal, for what fellowship hath a sluggish ass with a winged courser? That man, heavy with false teaching, would have dragged you down though he seemed kind. Yet now, let not anger take root.
Be lowly toward all men, friend or foe. Even in this good deed of breaking away, remain lowly; do not count yourself better than him, but consider his soul, still beloved of God though wandering. Your tears and breaking heart show a contrite spirit, a sacrifice God will not despise. But guard your purity: even little sins like reproach, insult, or dwelling on him as a player are spots upon the garment of your calling.
Forbear in love, praying for him, yet stand firm. Faith goes beyond human reasonings and weakness; it fears God and passes through the sea. You have escaped a snare, now walk worthily of the calling wherewith you were called, with all lowliness and meekness, counting others better than yourself, and keeping the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace with those who truly tremble at His words. Let loneliness not drive you to another unequal bond, but to Him who blesses the poor in spirit.
Be lowly toward all men, friend or foe. Even in this good deed of breaking away, remain lowly; do not count yourself better than him, but consider his soul, still beloved of God though wandering. Your tears and breaking heart show a contrite spirit, a sacrifice God will not despise. But guard your purity: even little sins like reproach, insult, or dwelling on him as a player are spots upon the garment of your calling.
Forbear in love, praying for him, yet stand firm. Faith goes beyond human reasonings and weakness; it fears God and passes through the sea. You have escaped a snare, now walk worthily of the calling wherewith you were called, with all lowliness and meekness, counting others better than yourself, and keeping the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace with those who truly tremble at His words. Let loneliness not drive you to another unequal bond, but to Him who blesses the poor in spirit.
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