We come before the Lord with heavy hearts, lifting you up in prayer for both the physical suffering you are enduring and the struggles within your marriage. First, we want to acknowledge that you did not invoke the name of Jesus in your request, and we gently remind you that it is only through Him that we have access to the Father. As Scripture declares, *"There is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus"* (1 Timothy 2:5, WEB). Jesus Himself said, *"I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me"* (John 14:6, WEB). If you have not yet placed your faith in Christ alone for salvation, we urge you to do so, for *"whoever will call on the name of the Lord will be saved"* (Romans 10:13, WEB). There is no other name under heaven by which we can be saved, and it is in His name that we boldly approach the throne of grace.
Your suffering with bleeding is deeply concerning, and we pray earnestly for your healing. Our God is Jehovah-Rapha, the Lord who heals, and we trust in His power to restore your body. The psalmist declares, *"Bless Yahweh, my soul, and don’t forget all his benefits; who forgives all your sins; who heals all your diseases"* (Psalm 103:2-3, WEB). We claim this promise over you and ask the Lord to bring complete healing to your body, to stop the bleeding, and to strengthen you physically, emotionally, and spiritually. May He grant the doctors wisdom if medical treatment is needed, and may His peace, which surpasses all understanding, guard your heart and mind in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7).
Regarding the issues and misunderstandings between you and your husband, we are grieved to hear of the strain in your marriage, for we know how deeply God cares about the covenant of marriage. Marriage is a sacred institution established by God, meant to reflect the relationship between Christ and His Church (Ephesians 5:22-33). It is a lifelong commitment that requires love, patience, forgiveness, and selflessness. Scripture reminds us, *"Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you"* (Ephesians 4:32, WEB). We urge both of you to seek the Lord individually and together, asking Him to soften your hearts and to fill you with His love and wisdom.
Misunderstandings often arise from pride, unmet expectations, or a lack of communication. We encourage you to examine your own heart first, asking the Lord to reveal any areas where you may need to repent or extend grace. *"Why do you see the speck that is in your brother’s eye, but don’t consider the beam that is in your own eye?"* (Matthew 7:3, WEB). At the same time, we pray that your husband would also seek the Lord with humility, that both of you would be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to become angry (James 1:19). Let your words be seasoned with grace, and let love cover a multitude of sins (1 Peter 4:8).
If there is unforgiveness, bitterness, or resentment in either of your hearts, we strongly urge you to release it to the Lord. Unforgiveness is a heavy burden that hinders your relationship with God and with one another. Jesus warned, *"If you don’t forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses"* (Matthew 6:15, WEB). Forgiveness is not optional for the believer—it is a command and a reflection of the grace we ourselves have received. We pray that the Lord would help you both to forgive as He has forgiven you, and that He would restore trust, unity, and joy to your marriage.
We also encourage you to seek godly counsel if the issues persist. Sometimes, an outside perspective from a mature believer or pastor can provide clarity and biblical guidance. *"Where no counsel is, plans fail; but in a multitude of counselors they are established"* (Proverbs 15:22, WEB). Do not let pride keep you from seeking help, for the enemy seeks to destroy marriages, but God desires to redeem and restore them.
Finally, we remind you that marriage is not merely about happiness but about holiness. God uses the challenges in marriage to refine us, to teach us to love sacrificially, and to conform us to the image of Christ. *"We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose"* (Romans 8:28, WEB). Even in this difficult season, trust that the Lord is at work in both of your lives, drawing you closer to Himself and to one another.
Now, let us pray together for you and your husband:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up our sister who is suffering physically and emotionally. Lord, You are the Great Physician, and we ask that You would touch her body and stop the bleeding that is causing her distress. Bring healing and restoration to every part of her, and grant her strength and peace as she waits on You. Remind her that You are near to the brokenhearted and that You collect all her tears in Your bottle (Psalm 56:8). Comfort her with Your presence and fill her with hope.
Lord, we also lift up her marriage, which is under strain. We pray that You would soften both her heart and her husband’s heart, removing any bitterness, pride, or unforgiveness that may be hindering their relationship. Help them to communicate with love and patience, to listen with understanding, and to speak words that build one another up. Teach them to forgive as You have forgiven them, and to extend grace even when it is difficult.
Father, we ask that You would restore unity and joy to their marriage. Help them to remember the vows they made before You and to commit anew to loving and cherishing one another as Christ loves the Church. Give them wisdom to navigate their differences, and grant them a spirit of humility and repentance where needed. Protect their marriage from the schemes of the enemy, and let Your love be the foundation that holds them together.
We pray that You would draw both of them closer to You, that they would seek Your face individually and as a couple. May their marriage be a testimony of Your faithfulness and redemption. Strengthen them to persevere through this trial, knowing that You are working all things together for their good and Your glory.
In the precious name of Jesus, we pray, Amen.
We will continue to pray for you, trusting that the Lord will bring healing to your body and restoration to your marriage. Hold fast to His promises, and do not lose heart. *"Let us not be weary in doing good, for we will reap in due season, if we don’t give up"* (Galatians 6:9, WEB). May the Lord bless you and keep you, and may His face shine upon you and give you peace.