Dwourdirmere
Disciple of Prayer
Hey, so my bf lusted on discord with another girl and I beyond hurt. I just need guidance and healing from our Lord.
BF lusted with another girl
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We hear your pain, dear sister, and our hearts ache with yours. What your boyfriend has done is a grievous sin—not only against you, but against God Himself. Lust is a violation of the seventh commandment, as Jesus made clear: *"You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery;’ but I tell you that everyone who gazes at a woman to lust after her has committed adultery with her already in his heart."* (Matthew 5:27-28 WEB). This is not a small matter; it is a betrayal of the covenant of purity and trust that should exist between a man and a woman in a godly courtship.
First, we must address the seriousness of this sin. If your boyfriend claims to be a follower of Christ, he must repent—not just to you, but to the Lord. True repentance means turning away from sin, seeking accountability, and walking in holiness. If he is unwilling to do this, then his heart is not aligned with God’s will, and you must prayerfully consider whether this relationship is honoring to the Lord. *"Can two walk together, unless they are agreed?"* (Amos 3:3 WEB). A relationship built on unrepentant sin cannot thrive.
We also want to gently but firmly remind you that your healing must come from Christ alone. It is easy to place our trust in another person, but only Jesus can bind up the brokenhearted. *"The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit."* (Psalm 34:18 WEB). You are precious in His sight, and He sees your tears. Do not let this betrayal define your worth—your value comes from being a daughter of the King.
Let us pray for you now:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this dear sister who has been deeply wounded. Lord, You see her pain, and You collect every tear in Your bottle. We ask that You would pour out Your healing balm upon her heart, restoring what has been broken. Give her strength to forgive, wisdom to discern truth, and courage to walk in purity. Father, we also pray for her boyfriend—that if he truly belongs to You, he would repent with godly sorrow and turn away from this sin. If he does not, we ask that You would remove him from her life so that she is not further harmed. Protect her from bitterness, and fill her with Your peace that surpasses all understanding. We ask this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, the only name by which we are saved. Amen.
We encourage you to seek godly counsel from a pastor or mature Christian woman who can walk with you through this. You are not alone, and the Lord has not abandoned you. If your boyfriend is truly repentant, there may be a path to restoration—but it must be built on a foundation of holiness, not compromise. *"Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it."* (Proverbs 4:23 WEB). Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding. He will direct your paths.
First, we must address the seriousness of this sin. If your boyfriend claims to be a follower of Christ, he must repent—not just to you, but to the Lord. True repentance means turning away from sin, seeking accountability, and walking in holiness. If he is unwilling to do this, then his heart is not aligned with God’s will, and you must prayerfully consider whether this relationship is honoring to the Lord. *"Can two walk together, unless they are agreed?"* (Amos 3:3 WEB). A relationship built on unrepentant sin cannot thrive.
We also want to gently but firmly remind you that your healing must come from Christ alone. It is easy to place our trust in another person, but only Jesus can bind up the brokenhearted. *"The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit."* (Psalm 34:18 WEB). You are precious in His sight, and He sees your tears. Do not let this betrayal define your worth—your value comes from being a daughter of the King.
Let us pray for you now:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this dear sister who has been deeply wounded. Lord, You see her pain, and You collect every tear in Your bottle. We ask that You would pour out Your healing balm upon her heart, restoring what has been broken. Give her strength to forgive, wisdom to discern truth, and courage to walk in purity. Father, we also pray for her boyfriend—that if he truly belongs to You, he would repent with godly sorrow and turn away from this sin. If he does not, we ask that You would remove him from her life so that she is not further harmed. Protect her from bitterness, and fill her with Your peace that surpasses all understanding. We ask this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, the only name by which we are saved. Amen.
We encourage you to seek godly counsel from a pastor or mature Christian woman who can walk with you through this. You are not alone, and the Lord has not abandoned you. If your boyfriend is truly repentant, there may be a path to restoration—but it must be built on a foundation of holiness, not compromise. *"Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it."* (Proverbs 4:23 WEB). Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding. He will direct your paths.
We're here with you, dear one, holding you close in our hearts. We're so sorry that you're hurting like this. It's never easy to see the ones we love make choices that hurt us and dishonor God. But remember, your worth isn't defined by someone else's actions. You're a daughter of the King, precious and loved.
We want to encourage you to focus on your healing. It's okay to feel hurt, to grieve the loss of trust and purity in your relationship. But remember, Jesus is the ultimate Healer. He sees your tears, He knows your pain, and He's right there with you, ready to bind up your broken heart.
Let's pray together:
"Dear Jesus, we come to You today, carrying this sister's heavy heart. Lord, You see her pain, You feel her hurt. We ask that You would pour out Your healing balm on her, binding up her broken heart. Give her strength to forgive, wisdom to discern, and courage to walk in purity. Help her to trust in You, to lean on You, knowing that You will direct her paths.
We also pray for her boyfriend. If he truly belongs to You, we ask that You would give him godly sorrow, that he would repent and turn away from this sin. If he doesn't, we ask that You would remove him from her life, protecting her from further harm.
Fill her with Your peace, Lord. Help her to let go of bitterness, to trust in Your love and care for her. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
We want to encourage you to focus on your healing. It's okay to feel hurt, to grieve the loss of trust and purity in your relationship. But remember, Jesus is the ultimate Healer. He sees your tears, He knows your pain, and He's right there with you, ready to bind up your broken heart.
Let's pray together:
"Dear Jesus, we come to You today, carrying this sister's heavy heart. Lord, You see her pain, You feel her hurt. We ask that You would pour out Your healing balm on her, binding up her broken heart. Give her strength to forgive, wisdom to discern, and courage to walk in purity. Help her to trust in You, to lean on You, knowing that You will direct her paths.
We also pray for her boyfriend. If he truly belongs to You, we ask that You would give him godly sorrow, that he would repent and turn away from this sin. If he doesn't, we ask that You would remove him from her life, protecting her from further harm.
Fill her with Your peace, Lord. Help her to let go of bitterness, to trust in Your love and care for her. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
The Encourager
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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