We hear the deep pain and exhaustion in your words, and our hearts ache with you. Betrayal in a relationship is a heavy burden to carry, especially when it is repeated and compounded by loneliness, physical weakness, and financial strain. You are not invisible to God, even when it feels like you are invisible to everyone else. The Lord sees your suffering, your tears, and your weary heart, and He collects every one of them (Psalm 56:8). You are precious in His sight, and He has not abandoned you, even when it feels like the world has.
First, we must address the relationship you are in. Scripture is clear that love is patient, kind, and does not seek its own way (1 Corinthians 13:4-5). The pattern of rejection, scolding, and neglect you describe is not a reflection of God’s design for love or marriage. A godly spouse should cherish, honor, and care for their partner, not leave them to navigate hardship alone (Ephesians 5:25, 28-29). The absence of concern for your well-being, especially during your illness and hospital visits, is a serious matter. We must rebuke this behavior in the name of Jesus, for it does not align with the selfless love Christ calls us to.
If this relationship is not a marriage, we must also speak plainly: God’s design for intimacy and commitment is within the covenant of marriage between a man and a woman (Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:4-6). If you are in a relationship outside of marriage, we urge you to seek God’s will for your future. His best for you is not found in a partnership that brings pain, neglect, or sin. If this is a marriage, we pray for repentance, healing, and restoration—but only if both parties are willing to submit to God’s standards of love and faithfulness. If not, we must trust God to lead you out of this bondage, for He does not desire for you to remain in a place where you are unseen and unloved (Psalm 34:18-19).
Your physical suffering is also deeply concerning. The weakness, fatigue, and inability to care for yourself are not signs of God’s abandonment but of a body and spirit under immense strain. We pray for your healing, both physically and emotionally. The Lord is your strength when you are weak (Isaiah 41:10), and He promises to sustain you (Psalm 55:22). We rebuke the spirit of weariness and despair in Jesus’ name and declare that you will rise again in His power. Seek medical help if you haven’t already—your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit (1 Corinthians 6:19-20), and it is right to care for it.
Your financial and housing situation is also heavy on our hearts. The Lord knows your needs before you even ask (Matthew 6:8), and He has promised to provide for His children (Philippians 4:19). We pray for divine provision—whether through a job, unexpected help, or a breakthrough in your housing situation. We also encourage you to reach out to local churches or Christian organizations for practical support. The body of Christ is called to bear one another’s burdens (Galatians 6:2), and it grieves us to hear that you have not found this support yet. We rebuke the spirit of isolation and declare that God will surround you with people who will love and help you.
Most importantly, we must address the foundation of your faith. If you have not placed your trust in Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, we urge you to do so now. Salvation is found in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given to mankind by which we must be saved (Acts 4:12). Jesus is the only way to the Father (John 14:6), and it is only through Him that we find true peace, purpose, and eternal security. If you have already given your life to Christ, we encourage you to cling to Him now more than ever. He is your refuge and strength (Psalm 46:1), and He will never leave you nor forsake you (Hebrews 13:5).
Let us pray for you now:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts for our sister who is suffering. Lord, You see her pain, her exhaustion, and her loneliness. You know every tear she has cried and every burden she carries. We ask that You would be her comfort and her strength in this season. Father, we rebuke the spirit of betrayal and neglect that has weighed her down. We declare that she is seen, loved, and valued by You. Lord, we pray for her physical healing. Touch her body and restore her strength. Give her the energy to care for herself and the wisdom to seek the help she needs.
Father, we also pray for her financial and housing situation. You are the God who provides, and we ask that You would open doors for her—whether through employment, assistance, or divine intervention. Surround her with people who will support and uplift her, for she should not have to walk this path alone. Lord, if this relationship is not aligned with Your will, we ask that You would give her the courage and clarity to walk away. If it is a marriage, we pray for repentance, restoration, and a renewed commitment to love as You have called us to love.
Above all, Lord, we pray that she would draw near to You. May she find her identity, worth, and hope in Christ alone. Remind her that she is never invisible to You and that You are working all things together for her good (Romans 8:28). Strengthen her faith, deepen her trust in You, and fill her with Your peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7).
We ask all these things in the mighty name of Jesus, the One who heals, restores, and saves. Amen.
You are not alone, dear sister. The Lord is with you, and we stand with you in prayer. Take one step at a time, trusting that God will guide your path. If you are able, reach out to a local church or Christian community for support. You are not forgotten, and your life has great value in the eyes of God.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
