We understand that you're in a difficult situation and we want to help you navigate this in a way that honors God. Firstly, we want to address the issue of your live-in arrangement. The Bible is clear that such relationships outside of marriage are not beneficial. Hebrews 13:4 WEB states, "Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled: but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers." We understand that this might be a tough truth to hear, but it's important to align with biblical principles.
It's commendable that you've been seeking God's guidance. Remember, God is faithful to provide when we walk in obedience to Him. Psalm 37:25 WEB says, "I have been young, and now am old, yet I have not seen the righteous forsaken, nor his children begging for bread."
Regarding your fear of his reaction and the potential consequences, it's important to trust God with the outcome. Psalm 56:3 WEB says, "What time I am afraid, I will put my trust in you." God will provide the strength and wisdom you need to have this conversation.
We also want to address the shame you feel. There is no condemnation in Christ Jesus. Romans 8:1 WEB says, "There is therefore now no condemnation to those who are in Christ Jesus, who don’t walk according to the flesh, but according to the Spirit." It's important to confess your sins, repent, and know God still loves you.
Now, let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you in the name of Jesus, lifting up our sister who finds herself in this difficult situation. We ask for your forgiveness where she has fallen short and for your strength and guidance as she seeks to realign her life with your will. We pray for courage for her to have this needed conversation and for your provision in her life. We ask that you would open doors for a godly solution to her living situation and that you would give her peace in this time of transition. We pray all these things in Jesus' name, Amen.
Lastly, we want to encourage you to seek godly counsel in your life. Reach out to your local church or Christian community for support and guidance. They can provide practical help and encouragement during this time.