Baffled Into Silence, torment. What Happens To Unanswered Prayers?

[nuptial -bound]

My PASTOR Told US THAT IT IS GOOD FOR US to ask God for gifts of the spirits. And, so I have. There was a time, I felt so hopeless, I stopped dreaming at night. And, I think that if you don't have any dreams left in life, your soul dies, languishes. So, I decided to risk my state of comfort and take risks again—to DARE to dream. I sought the Lord in everything. And he is glad to help, I found, when we walk in his ways. However, there's one area that I'm having DELAYS, DETOURS for 10 years now. Why does God withhold from me everything that is good, a righteous woman/(Psalms 84)? I've been through fiery trials, time and time again. I've been knocked down and can barely stand. So, should I JUST ACCEPT the fact that I can NEVER find the Love of my life + Marry, let alone have a child of my own? This is the huge elephant in my room, the SORE spot that God has yet to fill. I'm NOT LIVING in sin. If he doesn't answer my ceaseless, fervent, DESPERATE prayers of 10 years—what hope is there but to abandon it, right? What happens to those prayers—thousands I've made that have gone unanswered? I don't know what to do. And, the longer I'm denied, the harder it is to shake off this desire. I'm dumbfounded, beside-myself, heartbroken by God, whom I trusted but feel ignored, BAFFLED into shame and made a mockery of. I prayed for a man on this site who seeks reconciliation with a girl he made RELSHP mistakes with. I would Do almost anything to have my ex feel that way about me. It frightened me how much I agonizingly wished that my ex would write that to me—it amazes me how deep my pain is, still. HEAR the GROANINGS OF MY SPIRIT, Lord, so deeply embedded, I often feel DEAD + must remind myself it is not my right to END my life. But, I don't know how much more I can WAIT. Help me, lest I perish, TRULY!

 

[robinfoxnicola]

My sister let me just say that God is a good God and a faithful God. I prayed for a husband for 17 years. I was beginning to think I was going to be single all my life. Well, just when I thought God was not hearing my prayer, He meant my husband. A strong man of God. So I encourage you to keep your eyes focused on God and His word. God will give you the desires of your heart. Lord, I lift up my sister to you. Lord, you have heard her prayers. She is asking for a mate and a family. Lord, I pray that she does not grow weary. Lord, renew her strength. Holy Spirit, comfort her. We thank you and praise you for her mate. In Jesus' name, I pray. Amen.

 

[BibleBeliever]

Dear LORD, hear this ###'s prayer. Please fulfill her hearts desire. She needs to love and be loved by a strong, faithful man of God. AMEN

 

[AGGIE]

I DONOT SEE THE REASON AS TO WHY YOU ARE WORRIED BECAUSE OF WAITING FOR TEN YEARS MY DEAR ONE. HOW LONG DID ABRAHAM HAVE TO WAIT TO BE BLESSED WITH ISAAC. AS HUMAN BEINGS WE RUN OUT OF PATIENCE AND TEND TO THINK GOD HAS FORGOTTEN US BUT AS YOUR BROTHERS AND SISTERS IN CHRIST WE ARE HERE TO KEEP YOU GOING. GOD NEVER ABANDONS US AND HE WILL NEVER JUST TRUST IN NAME.

LORD I PRAY THAT YOU REMEMBER YOUR NUPTIAL SHE HAS WAITED FOR SO LONG LORD AND I PRAY LORD THAT YOU SHOW UP YOUR FACE IN HER SITUATION FOR GLORY AND HONOUR AMEN

 

[Sundarj]

Praise The LORD.

Sister life may not be always fair but God is fair. I was in the same situation where you are now but when I came to the Lord with my broken heart, I was completely healed. And it's good to pour out your heart; God likes the people who come with boldness; you came. But the important thing is we should never talk about our problem, how big it is! God is bigger than anything in this world; He is the God of JUSTICE. There is a story about Joseph in the Bible. He went through a tough time in his life but was never sat behind; he kept going forward. Still in that situation, he never got disappointed; after 23 years later, he was made to rule a nation! Also, Job was very tempted to leave God, but he did not give up; he kept going forward and God blessed him with double whatever he had lost!

So please don't get discouraged, Lord; I give my sisters in your hand; take control of her life. Lord, I ask for restoration for her in her life; please restore everything, whatever is lost in JESUS' name; I pray AMEN!

There is also a story of Abraham, Moses, Naomi, Ruth, etc. Keep reading the Bible and take it to God as we take to our friend; He is not just God; He is Father. Friend, everything for us.