Bad coaching
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We understand the frustration that comes from dealing with poor leadership or coaching, whether in sports, work, or any area of life. The Bible speaks to the importance of wise, just, and encouraging leadership, as well as how to respond when those in authority fail in their roles. Poor coaching can feel discouraging, demoralizing, or even unjust, but Scripture reminds us to trust in God’s sovereignty and seek His wisdom in how we respond.
One of the key verses that addresses poor leadership is **Proverbs 29:2 (WEB):**
*"When the righteous thrive, the people rejoice; but when the wicked rule, the people groan."*
This verse acknowledges the real impact that bad leadership can have on those under its authority. It’s natural to feel the weight of this, but we must also remember that God calls us to respond with integrity, patience, and trust in Him.
Another important passage is **1 Peter 2:18-20 (WEB):**
*"Servants, be in subjection to your masters with all fear; not only to the good and gentle, but also to the wicked. For it is commendable if someone endures pain, suffering unjustly, because of conscience toward God. For what glory is it if, when you sin, you patiently endure beating? But if, when you do well, you patiently endure suffering, this is commendable with God."*
While this passage specifically addresses servants and masters, the principle applies to how we respond to authority figures—even when they are unfair or ineffective. Our focus should remain on honoring God in our actions, attitudes, and responses, trusting that He sees and will justify the righteous.
If the coaching is not just poor but *unjust* or *abusive*, we are also called to seek wisdom and, if necessary, address the issue with humility and truth. **Matthew 18:15-17 (WEB)** provides a model for addressing conflict:
*"If your brother sins against you, go, show him his fault between you and him alone. If he listens to you, you have gained back your brother. But if he doesn’t listen, take one or two more with you, that at the mouth of two or three witnesses every word may be established. If he refuses to listen to them, tell it to the assembly. If he refuses to hear the assembly also, let him be to you as a Gentile or a tax collector."*
If the situation allows, this principle can be applied to addressing concerns with a coach or leader—first privately, then with witnesses if necessary, and finally bringing it to higher authority if the issue persists.
We also encourage you to reflect on **Romans 12:17-21 (WEB):**
*"Repay no one evil for evil. Respect what is honorable in the sight of all men. If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men. Don’t seek revenge yourselves, beloved, but give place to God’s wrath. For it is written, 'Vengeance belongs to me; I will repay, says the Lord.' Therefore 'If your enemy is hungry, feed him. If he is thirsty, give him a drink; for in doing so, you will heap coals of fire on his head.' Don’t be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good."*
This reminds us that our response should not be driven by bitterness or retaliation but by trust in God’s justice and a commitment to doing what is right.
Finally, we urge you to bring this situation before the Lord in prayer, asking for His wisdom, patience, and guidance. If this coaching is part of a team or organization, pray also for the coach—that God would convict, correct, or replace them as He sees fit. Remember that even in difficult circumstances, God is working for the good of those who love Him (**Romans 8:28**).
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Let us pray together for this situation:
Heavenly Father, we lift up this concern about poor coaching before Your throne, asking for Your wisdom and intervention. Lord, You see the hearts of all people, and You know the frustration and discouragement that comes from leadership that falls short. We ask that You would give strength and patience to those affected, helping them to respond with integrity and trust in You.
If this coaching is merely ineffective, we pray for improvement—grant the coach wisdom, humility, and a heart to lead well. If there is injustice or abuse, Lord, expose it and bring correction. Give those under this authority the courage to address the issue biblically, with grace and truth.
We also pray for protection over the hearts of those who are struggling, that they would not grow bitter or lose hope. Remind them that their ultimate worth and calling come from You, not from earthly leaders. Help them to overcome evil with good, trusting in Your justice and timing.
May Your will be done in this situation, and may Your name be glorified. We ask all this in the precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
One of the key verses that addresses poor leadership is **Proverbs 29:2 (WEB):**
*"When the righteous thrive, the people rejoice; but when the wicked rule, the people groan."*
This verse acknowledges the real impact that bad leadership can have on those under its authority. It’s natural to feel the weight of this, but we must also remember that God calls us to respond with integrity, patience, and trust in Him.
Another important passage is **1 Peter 2:18-20 (WEB):**
*"Servants, be in subjection to your masters with all fear; not only to the good and gentle, but also to the wicked. For it is commendable if someone endures pain, suffering unjustly, because of conscience toward God. For what glory is it if, when you sin, you patiently endure beating? But if, when you do well, you patiently endure suffering, this is commendable with God."*
While this passage specifically addresses servants and masters, the principle applies to how we respond to authority figures—even when they are unfair or ineffective. Our focus should remain on honoring God in our actions, attitudes, and responses, trusting that He sees and will justify the righteous.
If the coaching is not just poor but *unjust* or *abusive*, we are also called to seek wisdom and, if necessary, address the issue with humility and truth. **Matthew 18:15-17 (WEB)** provides a model for addressing conflict:
*"If your brother sins against you, go, show him his fault between you and him alone. If he listens to you, you have gained back your brother. But if he doesn’t listen, take one or two more with you, that at the mouth of two or three witnesses every word may be established. If he refuses to listen to them, tell it to the assembly. If he refuses to hear the assembly also, let him be to you as a Gentile or a tax collector."*
If the situation allows, this principle can be applied to addressing concerns with a coach or leader—first privately, then with witnesses if necessary, and finally bringing it to higher authority if the issue persists.
We also encourage you to reflect on **Romans 12:17-21 (WEB):**
*"Repay no one evil for evil. Respect what is honorable in the sight of all men. If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men. Don’t seek revenge yourselves, beloved, but give place to God’s wrath. For it is written, 'Vengeance belongs to me; I will repay, says the Lord.' Therefore 'If your enemy is hungry, feed him. If he is thirsty, give him a drink; for in doing so, you will heap coals of fire on his head.' Don’t be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good."*
This reminds us that our response should not be driven by bitterness or retaliation but by trust in God’s justice and a commitment to doing what is right.
Finally, we urge you to bring this situation before the Lord in prayer, asking for His wisdom, patience, and guidance. If this coaching is part of a team or organization, pray also for the coach—that God would convict, correct, or replace them as He sees fit. Remember that even in difficult circumstances, God is working for the good of those who love Him (**Romans 8:28**).
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Let us pray together for this situation:
Heavenly Father, we lift up this concern about poor coaching before Your throne, asking for Your wisdom and intervention. Lord, You see the hearts of all people, and You know the frustration and discouragement that comes from leadership that falls short. We ask that You would give strength and patience to those affected, helping them to respond with integrity and trust in You.
If this coaching is merely ineffective, we pray for improvement—grant the coach wisdom, humility, and a heart to lead well. If there is injustice or abuse, Lord, expose it and bring correction. Give those under this authority the courage to address the issue biblically, with grace and truth.
We also pray for protection over the hearts of those who are struggling, that they would not grow bitter or lose hope. Remind them that their ultimate worth and calling come from You, not from earthly leaders. Help them to overcome evil with good, trusting in Your justice and timing.
May Your will be done in this situation, and may Your name be glorified. We ask all this in the precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
We're right there with you, feeling the weight of bad coaching. It's tough when those in charge aren't leading effectively, but remember, God sees and cares about every situation. Let's cling to Psalm 147:3, "He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds." Let's trust Him to heal and guide us through this.
The Encourager
The Encourager
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
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