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We hear your pain and frustration, and we stand with you before the Lord, seeking His justice, mercy, and wisdom in this difficult situation. It is never easy to endure unfair treatment, especially from family, and we understand the deep hurt that comes when someone you love—or are connected to by blood—acts in ways that feel unjust or even cruel. But we must remember that our battle is not against flesh and blood, but against spiritual forces of wickedness (Ephesians 6:12). Even when others act out of evil, our response must be rooted in Christ’s love and truth.
First, we must address the weight of calling someone "evil." While it is true that the world is fallen and people can act in sinful ways, Scripture warns us against labeling others in this way. Jesus Himself said, *"Do not judge, so that you won’t be judged"* (Matthew 7:1), and He also taught us to pray for those who persecute us (Matthew 5:44). This does not mean excusing sin or pretending injustice does not exist—it means entrusting judgment to God, who sees all and will repay (Romans 12:19). Your aunt may not know Christ, and her actions may stem from a heart that does not yet understand God’s love or His ways. This is all the more reason to pray for her, that the Lord would soften her heart and draw her to Himself.
We also want to gently remind you that while you have every right to ask God to defend you, we must be careful not to assume that God’s defense will look the way we expect. Sometimes His justice comes through deliverance, other times through endurance, and always through His perfect timing. The psalmist cried out, *"Vindicate me, Lord, for I have walked in my integrity. I have trusted also in the Lord without wavering"* (Psalm 26:1). Like David, we can bring our case before the Lord, trusting that He sees and knows all. But we must also be willing to wait on Him, even when the waiting is painful.
Let us pray together now:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this situation to You. Lord, You see the unfairness and the pain that has been caused, and we ask that You would be a shield and defender for Your child. You are a God of justice, and we trust that You will make all things right in Your time. We pray for wisdom—wisdom to respond in a way that honors You, wisdom to know when to speak and when to remain silent, and wisdom to extend grace even when it is not deserved.
Father, we also pray for this aunt. We do not know her heart, but You do. We ask that You would soften her, open her eyes to Your truth, and draw her to Yourself. If there is hardness in her heart, we ask that You would break it with Your love. Help her to see the error of her ways, not through our words alone, but through the conviction of Your Holy Spirit.
Lord, we ask for healing in this relationship. If there is a way for reconciliation that honors You, we pray that You would make it possible. If not, we ask for peace and the strength to forgive, just as Christ has forgiven us. Help us to see this situation through Your eyes, not our own. Guard our hearts from bitterness, resentment, and anger, and fill us instead with Your love, patience, and kindness.
We declare that no weapon formed against us shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17), and we trust that You are working all things together for our good (Romans 8:28). Give us the courage to walk in integrity, even when others do not. And above all, help us to keep our eyes fixed on You, knowing that You are our ultimate defender and redeemer.
In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.
Now, let us encourage you with Scripture and practical steps. First, remember that God calls us to live at peace with everyone as far as it depends on us (Romans 12:18). This does not mean allowing yourself to be mistreated, but it does mean responding in a way that reflects Christ. If your aunt is treating you unfairly, it may be necessary to set boundaries—lovingly but firmly. Proverbs 25:17 says, *"Let your foot be seldom in your neighbor’s house, lest he have his fill of you, and hate you."* This is not a call to cut off all contact, but to be wise in how much access you give to someone who may not have your best interests at heart.
Second, pray for a heart of forgiveness. This is not for her sake alone, but for yours. Unforgiveness is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die. It only harms you. Colossians 3:13 says, *"Bear with one another, and forgive each other, if any man has a complaint against any; even as Christ forgave you, so you also do."* Forgiveness does not mean what she did was okay—it means you are releasing the burden of anger and bitterness to God.
Third, seek godly counsel. If this situation is causing you significant distress, it may be helpful to talk to a pastor, mentor, or Christian counselor who can offer biblical guidance. Proverbs 11:14 says, *"Where there is no counsel, the people fall; but in the multitude of counselors there is safety."*
Lastly, we want to gently address the tone of your request. While your pain is valid, calling your aunt "evil" is a strong accusation. Scripture tells us that all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God (Romans 3:23), and none of us are without fault. Even if she is acting in sin, she is still someone for whom Christ died (Romans 5:8). Our role is not to condemn, but to point others to the hope and redemption found in Jesus. If she does not know Christ, the greatest defense you can have is not just God’s justice, but His love working through you to draw her to Himself.
We will continue to stand with you in prayer, trusting that God will work in this situation for His glory and your good. Hold fast to His promises, and remember that He is close to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18). You are not alone.
First, we must address the weight of calling someone "evil." While it is true that the world is fallen and people can act in sinful ways, Scripture warns us against labeling others in this way. Jesus Himself said, *"Do not judge, so that you won’t be judged"* (Matthew 7:1), and He also taught us to pray for those who persecute us (Matthew 5:44). This does not mean excusing sin or pretending injustice does not exist—it means entrusting judgment to God, who sees all and will repay (Romans 12:19). Your aunt may not know Christ, and her actions may stem from a heart that does not yet understand God’s love or His ways. This is all the more reason to pray for her, that the Lord would soften her heart and draw her to Himself.
We also want to gently remind you that while you have every right to ask God to defend you, we must be careful not to assume that God’s defense will look the way we expect. Sometimes His justice comes through deliverance, other times through endurance, and always through His perfect timing. The psalmist cried out, *"Vindicate me, Lord, for I have walked in my integrity. I have trusted also in the Lord without wavering"* (Psalm 26:1). Like David, we can bring our case before the Lord, trusting that He sees and knows all. But we must also be willing to wait on Him, even when the waiting is painful.
Let us pray together now:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this situation to You. Lord, You see the unfairness and the pain that has been caused, and we ask that You would be a shield and defender for Your child. You are a God of justice, and we trust that You will make all things right in Your time. We pray for wisdom—wisdom to respond in a way that honors You, wisdom to know when to speak and when to remain silent, and wisdom to extend grace even when it is not deserved.
Father, we also pray for this aunt. We do not know her heart, but You do. We ask that You would soften her, open her eyes to Your truth, and draw her to Yourself. If there is hardness in her heart, we ask that You would break it with Your love. Help her to see the error of her ways, not through our words alone, but through the conviction of Your Holy Spirit.
Lord, we ask for healing in this relationship. If there is a way for reconciliation that honors You, we pray that You would make it possible. If not, we ask for peace and the strength to forgive, just as Christ has forgiven us. Help us to see this situation through Your eyes, not our own. Guard our hearts from bitterness, resentment, and anger, and fill us instead with Your love, patience, and kindness.
We declare that no weapon formed against us shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17), and we trust that You are working all things together for our good (Romans 8:28). Give us the courage to walk in integrity, even when others do not. And above all, help us to keep our eyes fixed on You, knowing that You are our ultimate defender and redeemer.
In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.
Now, let us encourage you with Scripture and practical steps. First, remember that God calls us to live at peace with everyone as far as it depends on us (Romans 12:18). This does not mean allowing yourself to be mistreated, but it does mean responding in a way that reflects Christ. If your aunt is treating you unfairly, it may be necessary to set boundaries—lovingly but firmly. Proverbs 25:17 says, *"Let your foot be seldom in your neighbor’s house, lest he have his fill of you, and hate you."* This is not a call to cut off all contact, but to be wise in how much access you give to someone who may not have your best interests at heart.
Second, pray for a heart of forgiveness. This is not for her sake alone, but for yours. Unforgiveness is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die. It only harms you. Colossians 3:13 says, *"Bear with one another, and forgive each other, if any man has a complaint against any; even as Christ forgave you, so you also do."* Forgiveness does not mean what she did was okay—it means you are releasing the burden of anger and bitterness to God.
Third, seek godly counsel. If this situation is causing you significant distress, it may be helpful to talk to a pastor, mentor, or Christian counselor who can offer biblical guidance. Proverbs 11:14 says, *"Where there is no counsel, the people fall; but in the multitude of counselors there is safety."*
Lastly, we want to gently address the tone of your request. While your pain is valid, calling your aunt "evil" is a strong accusation. Scripture tells us that all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God (Romans 3:23), and none of us are without fault. Even if she is acting in sin, she is still someone for whom Christ died (Romans 5:8). Our role is not to condemn, but to point others to the hope and redemption found in Jesus. If she does not know Christ, the greatest defense you can have is not just God’s justice, but His love working through you to draw her to Himself.
We will continue to stand with you in prayer, trusting that God will work in this situation for His glory and your good. Hold fast to His promises, and remember that He is close to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18). You are not alone.
Dear friend, we're here with you, lifting this burden to the Lord. We understand the hurt and frustration you're feeling, and we want you to know that God sees and cares about what you're going through. Let's bring this to Him together.
Lord, we come before You today, asking for justice and fairness in this situation. We ask that You would defend Your child, that You would make a way for truth and righteousness to prevail. We trust that You are a God of justice, and we believe that You will make all things right in Your perfect timing.
We also lift up your aunt to You, Lord. We don't know her heart, but You do. We ask that You would soften her heart, open her eyes to Your truth, and draw her to Yourself. If there's hardness in her heart, we ask that You would break it with Your love. Help her to see the error of her ways, not through our words alone, but through the conviction of Your Holy Spirit.
Lord, we ask for healing in this relationship. If there's a way for reconciliation that honors You, we pray that You would make it possible. If not, we ask for peace and the strength to forgive, just as Christ has forgiven us. Help us to see this situation through Your eyes, not our own. Guard our hearts from bitterness, resentment, and anger, and fill us instead with Your love, patience, and kindness.
In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.
Now, let's encourage you with a verse from Romans 12:18, "If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone." This doesn't mean allowing yourself to be mistreated, but it does mean responding in a way that reflects Christ. If your aunt is treating you unfairly, it might be necessary to set boundaries - lovingly but firmly. Remember, forgiveness is not for her sake alone, but for yours. It's like letting go of a heavy burden. And always seek godly counsel when you're going through tough times.
We'll continue to stand with you in prayer, trusting that God will work in this situation for His glory and your good. You are not alone. Hold fast to His promises, and remember that He is close to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18).
Lord, we come before You today, asking for justice and fairness in this situation. We ask that You would defend Your child, that You would make a way for truth and righteousness to prevail. We trust that You are a God of justice, and we believe that You will make all things right in Your perfect timing.
We also lift up your aunt to You, Lord. We don't know her heart, but You do. We ask that You would soften her heart, open her eyes to Your truth, and draw her to Yourself. If there's hardness in her heart, we ask that You would break it with Your love. Help her to see the error of her ways, not through our words alone, but through the conviction of Your Holy Spirit.
Lord, we ask for healing in this relationship. If there's a way for reconciliation that honors You, we pray that You would make it possible. If not, we ask for peace and the strength to forgive, just as Christ has forgiven us. Help us to see this situation through Your eyes, not our own. Guard our hearts from bitterness, resentment, and anger, and fill us instead with Your love, patience, and kindness.
In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.
Now, let's encourage you with a verse from Romans 12:18, "If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone." This doesn't mean allowing yourself to be mistreated, but it does mean responding in a way that reflects Christ. If your aunt is treating you unfairly, it might be necessary to set boundaries - lovingly but firmly. Remember, forgiveness is not for her sake alone, but for yours. It's like letting go of a heavy burden. And always seek godly counsel when you're going through tough times.
We'll continue to stand with you in prayer, trusting that God will work in this situation for His glory and your good. You are not alone. Hold fast to His promises, and remember that He is close to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18).
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May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy.
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Finding Life and Salvation in Christ: A Roadmap
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Finding Life and Salvation in Christ: A Roadmap
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
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