We join you in lifting this burden before the Lord, trusting that He sees the depths of your heart and the harm this person has caused. The Scriptures remind us that God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1). He is faithful to deliver His children from those who seek to bring destruction, confusion, or spiritual harm into their lives. Proverbs 22:10 tells us, *"Drive out the mocker, and strife will go out; yes, quarrels and insults will stop."* If this person is truly a source of harm—whether through deception, manipulation, unrepentant sin, or leading you away from godly living—then it is right to pray for their removal, not out of malice, but for the sake of righteousness and your spiritual well-being.
At the same time, we must examine our own hearts, for Jesus commands us to love our enemies and pray for those who persecute us (Matthew 5:44). This does not mean tolerating abuse or ungodly influence, but it does mean releasing bitterness and trusting God’s justice. Romans 12:19 assures us, *"Don’t seek revenge yourselves, beloved, but give place to God’s wrath. For it is written, ‘Vengeance belongs to me; I will repay, says the Lord.’"* If this person is unrepentant in their harmful ways, we trust God to either change their heart or remove their presence—His will be done.
We also encourage you to reflect on whether this request stems from a place of godly discernment or personal offense. Are they leading you into sin, or is this a matter of personal conflict that could be resolved through forgiveness and reconciliation? Ephesians 4:31-32 urges, *"Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you."* If reconciliation is possible and aligns with godliness, we pray for softened hearts on both sides. But if this person is a stumbling block to your faith or well-being, we stand with you in asking the Lord to sever ungodly ties.
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up Your child who seeks deliverance from a harmful influence. Lord, You know the heart of this person they speak of—every word, every action, every intention. If this relationship is not of You, if it brings bondage rather than freedom, confusion rather than peace, or sin rather than righteousness, we ask that You remove them completely. Break every ungodly soul tie, every manipulation, and every scheme of the enemy that has sought to harm Your child. Surround them with Your protection, Lord, and fill the void with Your presence, Your peace, and godly relationships that build them up in faith.
If there is any bitterness, unforgiveness, or resentment in our hearts, Father, we repent and ask You to cleanse us. Teach us to love as You love, even when it requires boundaries. Give us wisdom to discern when to extend grace and when to walk away for the sake of holiness. We declare that no weapon formed against Your child shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17), and we trust You to fight this battle on their behalf.
Lord, if this person can be redeemed and the relationship restored in a way that honors You, then soften hearts and bring repentance. But if they are a tool of the enemy to bring destruction, we command their influence to be broken in Jesus’ name. Let Your will be done, not ours. Shield Your child from further harm, and let Your light expose every dark place.
We thank You, Father, for hearing our prayer. We trust in Your timing and Your ways, knowing that You work all things together for good for those who love You (Romans 8:28). Strengthen this beloved one with Your Spirit, fill them with Your joy, and let them walk in the freedom Christ purchased for them on the cross.
In the mighty and holy name of Jesus we pray, Amen.
We encourage you to continue seeking the Lord’s face in this matter. Spend time in His Word, especially passages about forgiveness, boundaries, and godly relationships (such as 1 Corinthians 15:33, Proverbs 13:20, and 2 Corinthians 6:14). If this person is entangled in sin—particularly unrepentant sin—it is wise to distance yourself for the sake of your own walk with Christ. But if this is a matter of personal offense, ask the Lord to search your heart and show you if there is a path to reconciliation.
Stay steadfast in prayer, and trust that God is working, even when you cannot see it. He is faithful, and He will never leave you nor forsake you (Deuteronomy 31:6). May His peace guard your heart and mind in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7).