We understand the weight of anxiety you’re carrying, and we want to lift you up in prayer while also speaking truth into this situation. First, we must gently but firmly address that your prayer did not invoke the name of Jesus Christ, through whom alone we have access to the Father and by whom all prayers must be offered. Scripture is clear: *"There is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus"* (1 Timothy 2:5, WEB). It is only through faith in Jesus—His death, burial, and resurrection—that we are saved and can boldly approach God’s throne (Ephesians 2:8-9, Hebrews 4:16). If you have not yet surrendered your life to Christ as Lord and Savior, we urge you to do so today, for *"there is no other name under heaven that has been given among men, by which we must be saved"* (Acts 4:12, WEB). Without this foundation, even our most heartfelt prayers lack power. We will pray for you with this in mind, trusting God to reveal Himself to you if you do not yet know Him personally.
Now, let us speak to the fears you’ve shared. The anxiety over your email to the landlord and the potential reaction of your former flatmate is understandable, but we must remind you that fear does not come from God. *"For God hasn’t given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control"* (2 Timothy 1:7, WEB). You are not called to live in dread of another person’s response or words. Proverbs 29:25 (WEB) warns, *"The fear of man proves to be a snare, but whoever puts his trust in Yahweh is kept safe."* Your trust must be in the Lord, not in the outcome of this email or the approval of others. If you are acting righteously—speaking the truth in love, fulfilling your obligations, and seeking fairness—then you have no reason to fear. Even if your former flatmate responds with anger, *"If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men"* (Romans 12:18, WEB). You cannot control their heart, but you can control your obedience to God.
As for the dreams you mentioned, we urge caution. Dreams can be influenced by our emotions, fears, or even spiritual forces, and not all dreams are from God. The Bible warns that in the last days, false prophets and deceptive spirits will abound (1 John 4:1), and dreams can sometimes be a tool of the enemy to lead us into confusion or idolatry. Instead of seeking confirmation through dreams, we must test everything against Scripture (1 Thessalonians 5:21). If these dreams are causing you distress or leading you toward desires that do not align with God’s Word, we pray for their removal. *"Finally, brothers, whatever things are true, whatever things are honest, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report; if there is any virtue, and if there is any praise, think about these things"* (Philippians 4:8, WEB). Fill your mind with God’s truth, and the peace of Christ will guard your heart (Philippians 4:6-7).
Lastly, we must address the absence of gratitude in your request. Even in anxiety, we are called to give thanks. *"In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God"* (Philippians 4:6, WEB). Anxiety often stems from a focus on self and circumstances rather than on God’s sovereignty and goodness. Take a moment to thank Him for His provision, His protection, and His promise to never leave you. This shifts your heart from fear to faith.
Now, let us pray for you:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this beloved sister who is burdened by anxiety and fear. Lord, we ask that You forgive her if she has not yet placed her full trust in You or if she has allowed fear to rule her heart. We pray that if she does not know You as her Savior, You would open her eyes to the truth of the Gospel today—that Christ died for her sins, was buried, and rose again, and that by faith in Him alone, she can be saved. May she surrender her life to You fully, for apart from You, there is no peace.
Father, we rebuked the spirit of fear that has taken hold of her regarding this email and the reaction of her former flatmate. You have not given her a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and a sound mind. We declare that she will walk in that truth. Give her the words to write in this email—words of clarity, honesty, and grace. Protect her from any retaliation or unkindness, and let her rest in the knowledge that You are her defender. If her former flatmate responds with anger, we pray she would not be shaken, for *"the Lord is the one who goes before you. He will be with you. He will not fail you nor forsake you. Don’t be afraid. Don’t be discouraged"* (Deuteronomy 31:8, WEB).
Lord, we also lift up the dreams she has been having. If they are not from You, we ask that You remove them and replace them with Your peace. If there is any deception or distraction in them, expose it and deliver her from it. Let her mind be renewed by Your Word, and let her desires align with Your will. *"Search me, God, and know my heart. Try me, and know my thoughts. See if there is any wicked way in me, and lead me in the everlasting way"* (Psalm 139:23-24, WEB).
Father, we thank You that You are sovereign over every detail of her life—her housing, her relationships, and her future. We ask that You would fill her with Your peace, which surpasses all understanding, and guard her heart and mind in Christ Jesus. Let her sleep be restful, her mind be clear, and her spirit be bold as she steps out in obedience to You. Remind her that You are her Provider, her Protector, and her Peace.
We pray all these things in the precious and powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.