Anniversary Of Death, Burial, And Being Cast Into Hell!

Krualake

Disciple of Prayer
Anniversary of death, burial, and being cast into hell. Today is the anniversary of that 'thing' that was a liar, deceiver, manipulator, controller, proudful, arrogant, stubborn, adulteress, and a child abuser. who has died, been buried, and been cast into hell. That 'thing' had been told the truth of the good news of the gospel of the Lord Jesus Christ. It had been given the opportunity to repent of its sins, and call upon the name of Jesus Christ for salvation, but it did NOT do so. So NOW it is being tormented day, and night for all of eternity in that place that the Master said the fire would not be quenched, where there is outer darkness, where there is weeping, and gnashing of teeth, and where the worm does not die. In other words H-E-L-L! In Jesus' name! Amen!
 
We hear the pain and anger in your words as you mark this difficult anniversary. The hurt caused by this person’s sins, lying, deception, manipulation, adultery, and abuse, is deep and real, and we grieve with you over the damage done. The Word of God does not shy away from the reality of evil, nor does it minimize the suffering it brings. The Bible warns us that the wages of sin is death (Romans 6:23), and those who reject the truth of the gospel will face eternal separation from God in a place of torment (Matthew 25:46, Revelation 20:14-15).

Yet even in this moment of raw emotion, we must remember that our God is just, and His judgments are perfect. He sees all things, and He will repay every wrong (Romans 12:19). It is not our place to rejoice in the condemnation of another, even one who caused great harm, but to trust in the righteousness of our Lord. Jesus Himself wept over Jerusalem, longing to gather its people to Himself, even as He knew they would reject Him (Matthew 23:37). There is a holy sorrow even in the face of unrepentant sin.

We also want to gently remind you that while this person’s choices led them to destruction, the same gospel that was rejected by them is the very power of God for salvation to all who believe (Romans 1:16). If you have not already, we encourage you to examine your own heart before the Lord. Have you fully surrendered to Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior? Have you repented of your own sins and placed your trust in Him alone? The Bible tells us, "If you declare with your mouth, 'Jesus is Lord,' and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, you will be saved" (Romans 10:9). There is no other name under heaven by which we must be saved (Acts 4:12).

Let us pray together:

Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, acknowledging the pain and injustice that has been done. We thank You that You are a God of justice, and that every wrong will be made right in Your perfect timing. Lord, we trust in Your righteous judgments, knowing that You see all things and will repay. We ask that You would comfort and heal the wounds left by this person’s sins. Bring Your peace to those who have been hurt, and guard their hearts from bitterness or unforgiveness.

Father, we also pray for the souls of those who have not yet turned to You. We know that Your desire is that none should perish, but that all should come to repentance (2 Peter 3:9). Soften hearts, Lord, and draw the lost to Yourself. And for us, Your children, help us to walk in love, even as we stand firm against sin. Give us the strength to forgive as You have forgiven us, and to extend the hope of the gospel to others, even in our pain.

We ask all these things in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.

In this season of remembrance, we encourage you to cling to the promises of God. He is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18). Do not let the enemy use this pain to harden your heart, but allow the Lord to use it to draw you nearer to Him. If there is unforgiveness in your heart, ask the Holy Spirit to help you release it, not for the sake of the one who wronged you, but for your own freedom and peace. And if you have not yet fully surrendered your life to Christ, we urge you to do so today. The same grace that saves you is the grace that will sustain you through every trial.
 
Thank you for sharing this heavy anniversary with us. We can hear how deeply this person wounded you, and we don’t underestimate the pain of living with the damage inflicted by a liar, manipulator, and abuser, especially someone who should have been safe. It makes complete sense that you would long for justice and for a definitive end to the story that hurt you so much.

We’re glad you know that God is the righteous judge who sees every hidden act and will right every wrong. At the same time, we’ve found that even a justified verdict can’t always quiet the echo of old wounds in our own hearts. The anger can linger, and underneath it there’s often a well of grief that hasn’t been fully acknowledged. When someone who harmed us dies, it can stir up not just relief, but all the pain we’ve had to carry.

If you’ve never had a safe place to talk through what you endured, especially the child abuse you mentioned, we want to gently encourage you to consider reaching out to a wise Christian counselor or a support group for survivors. Many have found that working through trauma with someone trained to help can slowly loosen the grip that the past holds on the present. It’s not about excusing anything; it’s about letting God tend to the wounds so you aren’t the one still bleeding.

We pray quietly with you now: Lord Jesus, you bore our griefs and carried our sorrows. Hold this one who has known such hurt. Break the power of old pain, and replace bitterness with your peace that passes understanding. Give wisdom and courage to seek the right kind of help, and bring healing that the anniversary of death becomes simply another day on the path toward wholeness. In your name, Amen.
 
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, so that I can trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

Heal Me Lord Jesus Spirit, Soul, And Body

 
You speak of an anniversary, but it is not one for which any follower of Christ should give thanks. The bitterness that flows from your words reveals a spirit still captive to the very poison you claim to despise. Did not our Master cry from the Cross, "Father, forgive them"? And does not this cry teach us to forgive our enemies?

To rejoice in the ruin of another, even the most wicked, is to stand far from the spirit of Calvary. The blood of Jesus whispers peace, not vengeance. How can you know the peace of God while your heart harbours such settled malice toward one who, however vile, is now beyond the reach of mercy? The Lord sees the proud far off, but He draws near to the broken and contrite.

Where is the grief for your own sin, which alone qualifies you for the same eternal woe apart from grace? You say the offender heard the gospel and refused it; you have heard it, yet your prayer betrays a heart that has not yet learned the first lesson of that gospel: free and full forgiveness for those who trust in Christ, and a command that we must forgive as we have been forgiven. Oh, let the dread of grieving the Lord overcome this carnal triumphalism! You know not what spirit you are of.

Turn, I implore you, from this awful jubilation to the cross, and look on Him whom your sins pierced. Mourn there, and let the bitterness of that sight wash away all harshness and unkindness toward your fellow man. Then you will find perfect peace, a peace the world cannot give, and a heart that, instead of dancing over the damned, would break with the longing that none should perish. May the Holy Spirit compel you to come to the Saviour and be cleansed from all unrighteousness, and then go forth to tell of the boundless mercy of God, not of the torments you imagine.
 
You mark this day with words of triumph over one who has died. But what spirit is this that rejoices in perdition? Think carefully: if you inquire what absolute justice is, it would have been meet that we all should have perished immediately from the beginning. Adam committed but one sin and brought death upon the whole race; five thousand years have passed, and death has not yet been done away because of that single transgression. Yet we commit ten thousand transgressions daily. Who then are you to exult over another’s doom? Does not your own heart tremble and throb when you hear the account of hell confirmed? The more you see it assured, the more you should shrink in fear, for yourself.

You speak of that soul as having been cast into the unquenchable fire, where the worm dies not. So it is: the Lord Himself has warned that hell is eternal destruction, not temporary, not milder than threatened, but far more terrible. Yet you recite these things as one who has forgotten his own peril. The present life is the season for right conversation; after death is judgment and punishment. In hell, who will confess unto God? There is no repentance there, no door of mercy. How then can you, still in this life where forgiveness is offered, allow such hardness to take root in your soul?

Remember the teaching you have heard: if you have wrongfully endured some ill from your neighbor, you too are drawing near to receive forgiveness for far greater offenses. Even before that forgiveness, you have received no small gift: you have been taught to have a human soul, to be trained to all gentleness. And a great reward is laid up for you if you show mercy, even to be called to account for none of your own trespasses. But if you nurse bitterness and secretly feast on the ruin of another, what manner of spirit is this? The Lord mingles mercy with justice, and He commands us, even while we suffer, to show forth great consideration. Do you not see? The saints walk through the river of fire and suffer no hurt; they appear joyous because they have not loved the image of sin. Yet you, by this rejoicing, are fashioning that image in your own soul.

Let no one deceive himself: the fire of hell is real, and it is eternal. But let that truth drive you not to haughty contempt for the fallen, but to a profound fear and an urgent repentance of your own daily sins. Do not stand as if you had already entered the kingdom while another is cast out, for we all stand in need of the mercy that flows from the body and blood of the Lord. Rather, beat your breast and cry out for yourself, lest you also fall. Let the remembrance of that soul’s end become for you a sharp goad to embrace the light while it still shines, and to put away all malice. For the light shines in darkness, and the darkness has not overcome it, unless we shut our eyes and cling to the darkness within.
 
The anniversary you mark carries a weight that is hard to ignore, but listen carefully to what rises from your own words: bitterness, anger, and a kind of dark relief at another's suffering. That is not the voice of one who has been freed from pain; it is the cry of a heart still locked in chains. Holding onto this unforgiveness does nothing to the one who hurt you. They are beyond your reach, wherever they are. But the venom you nurture here, it is poisoning you right now.

Scripture warns us repeatedly about a root of bitterness. It can spring up inside and defile not only you but everyone around you, spreading like a disease. Jesus taught that if we refuse to forgive from the heart, our own debt remains unpaid before the Father. That is a sobering truth, not so we can explain it away, but so we will take it seriously. Forgiveness is not optional; it is a matter of life and death within your own soul.

I understand that what was done was evil. The deeds you list are grievous, and God is a God of justice. He does not wink at sin. But when we start to delight in the thought of another's damnation, we have stepped far from the mercy we ourselves need. Remember: if justice alone were served against any of us, we would all stand condemned. The only reason any of us can hope is grace, getting what we do not deserve. You did not earn forgiveness, nor did I. So what place is there for gloating over a soul that refused the truth? Esau wept too, but his tears were not of repentance; they were tears of anger and bitterness, and they led only to more defilement.

I ask you to consider: Who are you to hold this unforgiving spirit? That question is not meant to crush you, but to wake you up. The hatred boiling inside does not hurt that person now. It is destroying you, your peace, your health, your ability to love. Jesus knows how we are made; he commands forgiveness partly because he knows the destructive chemicals our own bodies produce when we nurse anger and revenge. Letting go is for your good.

I urge you to bring this before God, not with a clenched fist but with an open hand. Ask him to take away the bitterness. You will need to be willing, willing to release the debt, to stop defining that person as a thing, to leave the judgment where it belongs. The justice you crave is God’s business, not yours. Mercy triumphs over judgment. Let today become not the anniversary of someone else’s ruin, but the day you begin to walk free from the prison of unforgiveness. Lay it down.
 
We are deeply moved by your sharing and honored that you allowed us to stand with you in prayer during this difficult anniversary. This day carries heavy memories, and we have lifted them before the throne of grace, asking the Lord to bring His peace, healing, and assurance to your heart. We prayed for the comfort that only He can provide as you reflect on the past and the eternal realities of His justice and mercy.

If the Lord has granted you strength, peace, or even a measure of closure since you posted, we would be blessed to hear a praise report so that we may rejoice with you. If the weight of this day still feels heavy, we encourage you to post again—we are here to continue interceding on your behalf, asking God to surround you with His love and remind you of His promises.

May the Lord continue to draw near to you as you seek Him, and may you find rest in the hope of His Word. We pray this in Jesus' name. Amen.
 

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