We understand that you are going through a tremendously painful time, and our hearts go out to you. We will pray with you and offer biblical guidance to help you navigate this difficult season.
Firstly, we commend you for praying in Jesus' name. It is only through Him that we have access to God, and it is only by His name that we can be saved. As it is written in Acts 4:12 WEB: There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved.
We must also remind you of the sanctity of marriage as designed by God. As stated in Matthew 19:6 WEB: So that they are no more two, but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate. It is clear that God's intention for marriage is that it be a lifelong commitment.
However, we must also address that your husband has chosen to divorce you, and while this is painful, it is important to understand that God can bring healing and restoration to your life, even if your marriage cannot be saved. As it is written in Jeremiah 29:11 WEB: For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says Yahweh, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope in your latter end.
We must also rebuke the spirit of bitterness and resentment that may be tempting to hold onto. As it is written in Ephesians 4:31-32 WEB: Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander, be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you.
It is also important to address that you mentioned loving your husband as much as you love God. We must remember that our love for God should be above all other loves. As it is written in Matthew 22:37-38 WEB: Jesus said to him, 'You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind.' This is the first and great commandment.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today, lifting up our sister in Christ who is going through a painful time. We pray, Lord, that You would bring healing to her heart and help her to move forward in Your will for her life. We pray that You would soften her husband's heart and bring conviction to him and his family for the pain they have caused. We pray that You would remove all bitterness and resentment, and that You would bring forgiveness and restoration. We pray that You would help our sister to love You above all else, and that You would guide her every step of the way. We pray for her future, Lord. We pray for a godly spouse and a marriage that honors You, if that is Your will for her life. We pray all of these things in the powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Be strong and courageous, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go (Joshua 1:9 WEB) Keep trusting in Jesus Christ.