Am I being selfish

[Brokennlost2]

My grandson ### will be graduating from high school this year and going on to college in our area for ### years before transferring to university. I’m so proud of him. He had planned to keep living with me for the ### years before he goes off to university. But now he found out the college by us has apartment housing on campus and wants to stay there; he says he has to because he has to help people and living with me he’s limited, but he won’t say what he means by that. All I know is that he hasn’t been hanging around with good friends and some he feels he has to help or that they need him, but the thing is that I also need him. I’m disabled and need help with some things or tasks that I can’t do; I can’t walk, but God and he help me so much. I don’t want to be selfish and tell him not to go, but I feel he’s going for the wrong reasons because he says he doesn’t want to go but that he has to. It’s hard for me to talk to him because I’m very emotional. My other grandkids also live with me, his siblings, but he is the one that most helps me and the only one that actually shows he cares about me. Other than the time he wasn’t talking to me for a misunderstanding, but we worked through that. I am so hurt he is leaving in a few months; I can’t imagine him not being here. I worry, and the campus dorms don’t have a good reputation. I pray to God to please tell me what to do, but in my heart, something about him leaving seems wrong. He has to wait to see if he’s approved for on-campus housing, and I, being selfish or wrong to hope he changes his mind or hopes he doesn’t get approved? I need guidance because I love him so much that I want him to be happy, but I really wish he’d stay at home for his ### years in college before he goes away as planned. My heart is in pain, but I have faith God will look into my grandson’s heart and reveal the truth. Please pray for me and my grandson ###. I pray he stays with me while going to college. Me and his siblings need him more than he knows.

 

[fulloffaith]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name.

 

[Articles]

Let us begin by lifting up your concerns in prayer.

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up ### and their grandson ###. Lord, we know that You have a perfect plan for both of their lives, and we trust in Your wisdom and guidance. We ask for Your peace and comfort to fill ###'s heart as they navigate this challenging time. We also pray for ### who is at the crossroads of life. Please help him make decisions that align with Your will. Please intervene in his affairs and the desires of his heart so that they align with yours and his decisions are made by You and not himself. We ask this in Jesus Christ's name.

###, it is natural to feel concerned and emotional about ###'s decision, especially given your close bond and your need for his help. However, let us remember what the Scriptures tell us: Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and He will make your paths straight. Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB. It is essential to trust that God is in control and has a plan for both you and ###.

It is commendable that you want ### to be happy, but let us consider whether his reasons for moving out are aligned with biblical principles. It is important to discuss with ### the importance of honoring and caring for family, as emphasized in 1 Timothy 5:8 WEB: But if anyone does not provide for his own, and especially his own household, he has denied the faith, and is worse than an unbeliever. If ### feels compelled to help others, remind him that charity begins at home, and that by caring for you, he is fulfilling a biblical responsibility.

Moreover, if ### is considering moving out to be able to help and minister to others, then it is important to discuss with ### that he does not need to live on campus to minister to others. Encourage him to be involved in a church and campus ministries where he can help and minister to others. It is important to stress to ### that he should not feel that he has to do anything. But he should follow what God has called him to do.

Let us also remember that it is God who directs our paths.

A man's heart plans his course, but Yahweh directs his steps.

Proverbs 16:9 WEB

If it is God's will for ### to stay with you, then trust that God will intervene and change ###'s heart. It is also important for you and his siblings to express to ### how much you all need and depend on him.

However, it is also important to consider ###'s feelings and the possibility that God may be calling him to a different path. Pray together and seek God's will for ###'s life.

If ### decides to move out, let us encourage him to be the light of the world as Jesus encourages us in Matthew 5:14-16 WEB:

You are the light of the world. A city located on a hill cannot be hidden. Neither do you light a lamp, and put it under a measuring basket, but on a stand; and it shines to all who are in the house. Even so, let your light shine before men; that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father who is in heaven.

Remind ### that wherever he goes, he should shine the light of Jesus and be a positive influence on those around him.

Lastly, let us address the concern that the prayer request did not mention the name of Jesus Christ. It is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. And there is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved! Acts 4:12 WEB.

We encourage you to believe in the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved Acts 16:21 WEB. This means to believe Jesus came to earth as both man and God, died on a cross because of our sins, was buried, rose again from the dead on the third day, and is coming again.

Let us continue to pray for you and ###, trusting that God will guide both of your hearts and steps. May God's will be done, and may His peace and comfort fill your hearts. We pray that you will be able to discuss with ### the concerns you have.

 

[hostadmin]

Dear ###,

We're here with you, feeling the weight of this decision. We understand the love and concern you have for ###, and it's natural to feel hurt and worried. But remember, God is in control, and He has a plan for both of you.

We've been praying for you, asking God to give you peace and wisdom. We're also praying for ###, that God would guide his heart and help him make decisions that align with God's will. We believe that God can intervene and change ###'s heart if it's His will for him to stay with you.

We want to encourage you to have an open and honest conversation with ###. Share your feelings and needs with him, but also listen to his perspective. Remind him of the biblical principle of honoring and caring for family (1 Timothy 5:8), and that charity begins at home. If he feels compelled to help others, encourage him to do so within the context of his family responsibilities.

Let's also trust that God will direct ###'s paths (Proverbs 16:9). If it's God's will for ### to stay with you, then trust that God will intervene and change ###'s heart. But if God is calling ### to a different path, let's be open to that possibility and support him in his decision.

No matter what happens, let's encourage ### to be the light of the world, shining Jesus' love wherever he goes (Matthew 5:14-16).

We're here for you, ###. Let's continue to pray together, trusting that God will guide both of your hearts and steps. May God's peace and comfort fill your heart, and may His will be done.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

 

[Robert Pearson]

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[usha rani]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

New Year's Prayer 2025

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[hostadmin]

We continue to lift you and your grandson ### up in prayer, trusting that God is working in your situation for the good of all involved. We are grateful that you have allowed us to stand in agreement with you, interceding on your behalf regarding ###'s living arrangements during his college years.

If God has already provided an answer or a sense of peace regarding this matter, we would love for you to share a praise report with our community. Your testimony could encourage others who are also waiting on God's guidance.

If you feel that your request has not yet been answered, or if new developments have occurred, we invite you to post an update. We are eager to continue praying for you, your grandson, and your family. Remember, God knows your heart and ###'s, and He will direct your paths according to His perfect will.

As we wait on the Lord together, may you feel His comforting presence in your life. May God grant you discernment, strength, and an ever-deepening faith in His promises. We declare God's blessings over you and your family as you continue to seek Him through His son, Jesus Christ.