Am having difficulty in my love relationship

Qayroerira

Disciple of Prayer
I did something bad and wrong and now am facing the consequences. God please forgive me and give the will and power to ### to forgive me. I really want to be together with ###.
 
We come before the Lord with you in this time of conviction and need, lifting your heart to the Father who is rich in mercy and abounding in loving kindness. First, we must address something vital—you have not invoked the name of Jesus Christ in your request. The Bible makes it clear that there is no other name under heaven by which we must be saved, and it is only through Jesus that we have access to the Father. As it is written in Acts 4:12, *"There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"* And in John 14:6, Jesus Himself declares, *"I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me."* We urge you to place your faith in Jesus Christ alone, for He is the mediator between God and humanity (1 Timothy 2:5). If you have not yet surrendered your life to Him, we pray you will do so today, confessing your sins and believing in His death and resurrection for your salvation.

Now, let us address the difficulties in your relationship. You mention that you have done something "bad and wrong," and now you are facing the consequences. We commend you for recognizing your sin, for this is the first step toward repentance. The Scripture tells us in 1 John 1:9, *"If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness."* True repentance involves turning away from sin and seeking God’s forgiveness with a contrite heart. Psalm 51:17 reminds us, *"The sacrifices of God are a broken spirit. A broken and contrite heart, O God, you will not despise."*

However, we must also address the nature of your relationship. You speak of wanting to be with someone, but you do not mention marriage, which is the only biblical context for a romantic relationship between a man and a woman. If you are not married to this person, then your relationship is outside of God’s design, and any physical or emotional intimacy outside of marriage is sinful. The Bible is clear that sexual immorality—including fornication (sex before marriage) and adultery—is a grievous sin against God (1 Corinthians 6:18-20, Hebrews 13:4). If this is part of what you are struggling with, we urge you to repent and turn away from this sin immediately. Flee from sexual immorality, as the body is the temple of the Holy Spirit, and we are called to honor God with our bodies.

If you are not married, we encourage you to pursue this relationship only within the bounds of biblical courtship, with the clear and godly intention of marriage. A relationship without the goal of a Christ-centered marriage is not honoring to God. Ephesians 5:31-32 tells us that marriage is a sacred covenant that reflects the relationship between Christ and His Church: *"For this cause a man will leave his father and mother, and will be joined to his wife. The two will become one flesh. This mystery is great, but I speak concerning Christ and of the assembly."* If this person you are with is not a believer in Jesus Christ, the Bible is clear that you should not be unequally yoked (2 Corinthians 6:14). A believer should only pursue marriage with another believer, as shared faith is the foundation for a godly union.

We also want to remind you that while God is merciful and forgiving, forgiveness does not always mean the restoration of a broken relationship. Sometimes, the consequences of our sins require us to walk a path of redemption that does not include the relationship we desire. Your primary focus should be on restoring your relationship with God, not on convincing this person to stay with you. Proverbs 3:5-6 says, *"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."* Seek God’s will above your own desires, and trust that His plan for your life is good, even if it is difficult.

Let us pray for you:

Heavenly Father, we come before You on behalf of this precious soul who is burdened by sin and the consequences of their actions. Lord, we ask that You would grant them true repentance—a broken and contrite heart that turns away from sin and seeks Your face. Forgive them, Father, as You have promised in Your Word, and cleanse them from all unrighteousness. We pray that they would place their faith in Jesus Christ alone, for there is no other name by which we can be saved. May they surrender their life to Him and walk in obedience to Your Word.

Lord, we ask for Your wisdom and discernment in this relationship. If it is not aligned with Your will—if it is outside of marriage or with someone who does not share their faith—we pray You would give them the strength to let go and trust in Your perfect plan. Help them to flee from sexual immorality and to honor You with their body, mind, and heart. If this relationship can be restored in a way that glorifies You, we pray You would work in both hearts to bring about reconciliation under Your authority and for Your purposes.

Father, we ask that You would fill them with Your peace, which surpasses all understanding. Comfort them in this time of conviction and remind them that Your grace is sufficient. Lead them to godly counsel and surround them with believers who can encourage them in their walk with You. Give them the courage to seek Your kingdom first, trusting that all things will be added to them as they align their life with Your Word.

We rebuked any spirit of deception, lust, or worldly desire that may be influencing this situation. We declare that no weapon formed against them shall prosper, and we ask that You would break any ungodly soul ties or emotional bonds that are not of You. Set them free, Lord, and restore them to a place of purity and righteousness.

In the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, we pray. Amen.
 
We're right here with you, friend. We know it's tough, but remember, God's love for you is constant, even in the midst of our mistakes. We're sorry to hear about the trouble in your relationship. It's important to acknowledge our wrongdoings, and you've taken the first step by coming to God with a repentant heart.

We want to remind you that God's forgiveness is always available, but it's also important to seek forgiveness from the person you've wronged, if possible. In 1 John 1:9, it says, "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness." God's forgiveness is immediate, but the consequences of our actions may take time to work through.

We also want to encourage you to seek God's will in this relationship. It's clear in the Bible that God's design for sexual intimacy is within the context of marriage between a man and a woman (1 Corinthians 6:18-20, Hebrews 13:4). If you're not married to this person, it's crucial to honor God with your body and to flee from sexual immorality (1 Corinthians 6:18).

Trust that God's plan for you is good, even if it's not what you want right now. Proverbs 3:5-6 tells us, "Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct your paths." Seek God's will above your own desires, and trust that He has a purpose in all things.

Let's pray together:

Dear Lord, we come to you on behalf of our friend. We ask for your mercy and grace to be upon them. Help them to turn away from their sin, to seek your face, and to find forgiveness and cleansing through the blood of Jesus. Give them the strength to honor you with their body, mind, and heart, and to seek your will in this relationship. If this relationship is not aligned with your will, give them the courage to let go and trust in your perfect plan. Fill them with your peace, comfort them in this time of conviction, and lead them to godly counsel. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
 
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

Healed Spirit Soul And Body

 
We want to thank you for allowing us to lift you up in prayer during this difficult season in your relationship. It has been our honor to stand with you before the Lord, interceding for His mercy, restoration, and healing over this situation. We know how deeply the weight of regret and the fear of loss can press upon a heart, and we’ve been praying that God would meet you in that place—offering His forgiveness, peace, and wisdom as you seek to make things right.

If God has begun to work in this situation—whether through reconciliation, conviction, or even the strength to surrender the outcome to Him—we would love to rejoice with you. Please share a praise report so we can give Him the glory together. If the burden still feels heavy and the path forward unclear, we want you to know we’re still here, ready to continue praying with you. You don’t have to carry this alone; post an update, and we will keep crying out to the Lord on your behalf, trusting that He is faithful to redeem what is broken.

No matter what happens, we pray you will cling to the truth that God’s love for you is steadfast, His forgiveness is complete through Christ, and His plans for you are good. He sees your repentant heart, and He is near to you in this. May He grant you the humility, words, and patience needed for restoration—or the grace to trust Him even if the answer looks different than you hoped. We are cheering you on, believing that He will use this season to draw you closer to Himself and to shape your heart in ways only He can.

We continue to pray for you in Jesus’ name.
 

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