Hmoruimore
Disciple of Prayer
Bohot jagraa hota hai
Always fight and quarrel
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We understand that you are experiencing constant conflict and quarreling in your home or relationships, and this must be weighing heavily on your heart. The strife you describe—*jagraa*—is not God’s will for His children, for He calls us to peace, love, and unity. The Bible warns us that where there is envy, strife, and confusion, there is every evil work (James 3:16). Such discord often stems from pride, selfishness, unchecked anger, or even unresolved sin in our lives. It may also be the work of the enemy, who seeks to destroy relationships and bring chaos where God desires harmony.
Let us first examine what Scripture says about such strife. Proverbs 15:18 tells us, *"A wrathful man stirs up contention, but one who is slow to anger appeases strife."* Similarly, Proverbs 17:14 warns, *"The beginning of strife is like breaching a dam, therefore stop contention before quarreling breaks out."* If this conflict is within a marriage or family, we must remember that God hates division and calls husbands and wives to love one another as Christ loved the church (Ephesians 5:25-33). For families, Colossians 3:13-14 commands, *"bearing with one another, and forgiving each other, if any man has a complaint against any; even as Christ forgave you, so you also do. Above all these things, walk in love, which is the bond of perfection."*
If this strife is between friends, neighbors, or others, we are still called to be peacemakers (Matthew 5:9) and to *"pursue the things which make for peace, and the things by which we may build one another up"* (Romans 14:19). Bitterness and unresolved anger give the devil a foothold (Ephesians 4:26-27), so we must address these issues with humility and repentance.
Now, we must also ask: Is there unconfessed sin contributing to this strife? Are there harsh words, unforgiveness, or even actions that do not honor God? If so, repentance is the first step. 1 John 1:9 assures us, *"If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness."* Additionally, if this conflict involves a marriage where one or both spouses are not walking in obedience to God—perhaps through unforgiveness, adultery, or even abandonment—we urge you to seek reconciliation and restoration through biblical counsel and prayer.
If the quarreling is between a husband and wife, we strongly encourage you to remember that marriage is a covenant before God, and He desires for it to reflect His love and holiness. Ephesians 4:2-3 says, *"with all lowliness and humility, with patience, bearing with one another in love; being eager to keep the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace."* If there is unforgiveness, pride, or bitterness, it must be surrendered to God. If there is sin such as adultery, abuse, or abandonment, it must be addressed with truth and repentance, seeking godly counsel from a pastor or biblical counselor.
For those who are not married but are in a relationship, we must ask: Is this relationship honoring to God? Are you and the other person both believers, committed to purity and to the goal of a Christ-centered marriage? If there is fornication (sex outside of marriage), this is sin and must be repented of, for 1 Corinthians 6:18 tells us to *"flee sexual immorality!"* Every sin—including anger, strife, and sexual immorality—must be brought before the Lord in repentance.
Lastly, we notice that your request does not invoke the name of Jesus. This is vital, for there is no other name by which we can approach God or find true peace. Jesus said in John 14:6, *"I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me."* It is only through faith in Christ that we have access to the Father and the power to overcome sin and strife. If you have not yet surrendered your life to Jesus, we urge you to do so today. Believe in Him as your Lord and Savior, repent of your sins, and you will be saved (Acts 16:31). Without Christ, there is no lasting peace—only temporary fixes.
Now, let us pray together for you and this situation:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up this dear one who is burdened by constant strife and quarreling. Lord, You are the God of peace, and You desire for Your children to walk in unity and love. We ask that You would intervene in this situation and bring an end to the conflict. Softens hearts, Lord—remove pride, anger, and bitterness, and replace them with Your love and humility.
If there is sin contributing to this strife, we pray for conviction and repentance. Expose any hidden sins, Lord, and bring them into the light so that they may be confessed and forsaken. If this strife is within a marriage, we pray for restoration and a renewed commitment to Your covenant. Help this husband and wife to love one another as Christ loves the church, to forgive as You have forgiven them, and to seek peace above all else. If this conflict is between others, we pray for reconciliation and wisdom to walk in love.
Father, we rebuke the spirit of strife and division in the name of Jesus. We declare that no weapon formed against this home or relationship shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17). Fill each person involved with Your Holy Spirit, that they may bear the fruit of patience, kindness, and self-control (Galatians 5:22-23).
We also pray for this dear one who has brought this request. If they do not know You, Jesus, we ask that You would reveal Yourself to them today. Open their eyes to their need for a Savior, and draw them to Yourself. For those who do know You, strengthen their faith and help them to walk in obedience, trusting You to bring peace where there is chaos.
Lord, we ask for Your supernatural intervention. Bring healing, restoration, and Your perfect peace, which surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7). May Your will be done in this situation, and may Your name be glorified.
In the powerful and holy name of Jesus we pray, Amen.
We encourage you to seek godly counsel if this strife persists, whether from a pastor, biblical counselor, or mature believer who can help guide you through this. Read and meditate on Scripture daily, especially verses about peace, love, and forgiveness. If you are married, we urge you to prioritize your marriage and seek the Lord together. If you are in a relationship that is not honoring to God, we pray you will repent and align it with His Word.
May the Lord grant you His peace and wisdom as you seek Him. Stand firm in faith, knowing that He is able to do exceedingly abundantly above all that we ask or think (Ephesians 3:20).
Let us first examine what Scripture says about such strife. Proverbs 15:18 tells us, *"A wrathful man stirs up contention, but one who is slow to anger appeases strife."* Similarly, Proverbs 17:14 warns, *"The beginning of strife is like breaching a dam, therefore stop contention before quarreling breaks out."* If this conflict is within a marriage or family, we must remember that God hates division and calls husbands and wives to love one another as Christ loved the church (Ephesians 5:25-33). For families, Colossians 3:13-14 commands, *"bearing with one another, and forgiving each other, if any man has a complaint against any; even as Christ forgave you, so you also do. Above all these things, walk in love, which is the bond of perfection."*
If this strife is between friends, neighbors, or others, we are still called to be peacemakers (Matthew 5:9) and to *"pursue the things which make for peace, and the things by which we may build one another up"* (Romans 14:19). Bitterness and unresolved anger give the devil a foothold (Ephesians 4:26-27), so we must address these issues with humility and repentance.
Now, we must also ask: Is there unconfessed sin contributing to this strife? Are there harsh words, unforgiveness, or even actions that do not honor God? If so, repentance is the first step. 1 John 1:9 assures us, *"If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness."* Additionally, if this conflict involves a marriage where one or both spouses are not walking in obedience to God—perhaps through unforgiveness, adultery, or even abandonment—we urge you to seek reconciliation and restoration through biblical counsel and prayer.
If the quarreling is between a husband and wife, we strongly encourage you to remember that marriage is a covenant before God, and He desires for it to reflect His love and holiness. Ephesians 4:2-3 says, *"with all lowliness and humility, with patience, bearing with one another in love; being eager to keep the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace."* If there is unforgiveness, pride, or bitterness, it must be surrendered to God. If there is sin such as adultery, abuse, or abandonment, it must be addressed with truth and repentance, seeking godly counsel from a pastor or biblical counselor.
For those who are not married but are in a relationship, we must ask: Is this relationship honoring to God? Are you and the other person both believers, committed to purity and to the goal of a Christ-centered marriage? If there is fornication (sex outside of marriage), this is sin and must be repented of, for 1 Corinthians 6:18 tells us to *"flee sexual immorality!"* Every sin—including anger, strife, and sexual immorality—must be brought before the Lord in repentance.
Lastly, we notice that your request does not invoke the name of Jesus. This is vital, for there is no other name by which we can approach God or find true peace. Jesus said in John 14:6, *"I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me."* It is only through faith in Christ that we have access to the Father and the power to overcome sin and strife. If you have not yet surrendered your life to Jesus, we urge you to do so today. Believe in Him as your Lord and Savior, repent of your sins, and you will be saved (Acts 16:31). Without Christ, there is no lasting peace—only temporary fixes.
Now, let us pray together for you and this situation:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up this dear one who is burdened by constant strife and quarreling. Lord, You are the God of peace, and You desire for Your children to walk in unity and love. We ask that You would intervene in this situation and bring an end to the conflict. Softens hearts, Lord—remove pride, anger, and bitterness, and replace them with Your love and humility.
If there is sin contributing to this strife, we pray for conviction and repentance. Expose any hidden sins, Lord, and bring them into the light so that they may be confessed and forsaken. If this strife is within a marriage, we pray for restoration and a renewed commitment to Your covenant. Help this husband and wife to love one another as Christ loves the church, to forgive as You have forgiven them, and to seek peace above all else. If this conflict is between others, we pray for reconciliation and wisdom to walk in love.
Father, we rebuke the spirit of strife and division in the name of Jesus. We declare that no weapon formed against this home or relationship shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17). Fill each person involved with Your Holy Spirit, that they may bear the fruit of patience, kindness, and self-control (Galatians 5:22-23).
We also pray for this dear one who has brought this request. If they do not know You, Jesus, we ask that You would reveal Yourself to them today. Open their eyes to their need for a Savior, and draw them to Yourself. For those who do know You, strengthen their faith and help them to walk in obedience, trusting You to bring peace where there is chaos.
Lord, we ask for Your supernatural intervention. Bring healing, restoration, and Your perfect peace, which surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7). May Your will be done in this situation, and may Your name be glorified.
In the powerful and holy name of Jesus we pray, Amen.
We encourage you to seek godly counsel if this strife persists, whether from a pastor, biblical counselor, or mature believer who can help guide you through this. Read and meditate on Scripture daily, especially verses about peace, love, and forgiveness. If you are married, we urge you to prioritize your marriage and seek the Lord together. If you are in a relationship that is not honoring to God, we pray you will repent and align it with His Word.
May the Lord grant you His peace and wisdom as you seek Him. Stand firm in faith, knowing that He is able to do exceedingly abundantly above all that we ask or think (Ephesians 3:20).
We're here with you, dear one, feeling the weight of the constant strife and quarreling you're facing. It's like a heavy storm that just won't let up, isn't it? But remember, even the darkest nights give way to the sun. We want to encourage you with these words from the Lord in Isaiah 43:2, "When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and through the rivers, they shall not overwhelm you; when you walk through fire, you shall not be burned, and the flame shall not consume you."
First, let's ask the Lord to open our hearts to see the root of this strife. Is there unforgiveness, pride, or unresolved sin that needs to be addressed? Let's pray together, "Lord, search our hearts and reveal any hidden sin. Help us to confess it and turn away from it, trusting in Your forgiveness and cleansing power (1 John 1:9)."
Next, let's ask the Lord to fill us with His love and humility. We need His strength to forgive, to let go of bitterness, and to choose peace over conflict. Let's pray, "Lord, fill us with Your Holy Spirit. Help us to bear the fruit of patience, kindness, and self-control (Galatians 5:22-23)."
Lastly, let's claim the promise of Philippians 4:7, "And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus." Let's declare this peace over our homes and relationships, in Jesus' name.
We're here to pray with you, to encourage you, and to remind you that you're not alone in this. Keep trusting in the Lord, and let's watch as He brings healing and restoration to your situation.
First, let's ask the Lord to open our hearts to see the root of this strife. Is there unforgiveness, pride, or unresolved sin that needs to be addressed? Let's pray together, "Lord, search our hearts and reveal any hidden sin. Help us to confess it and turn away from it, trusting in Your forgiveness and cleansing power (1 John 1:9)."
Next, let's ask the Lord to fill us with His love and humility. We need His strength to forgive, to let go of bitterness, and to choose peace over conflict. Let's pray, "Lord, fill us with Your Holy Spirit. Help us to bear the fruit of patience, kindness, and self-control (Galatians 5:22-23)."
Lastly, let's claim the promise of Philippians 4:7, "And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus." Let's declare this peace over our homes and relationships, in Jesus' name.
We're here to pray with you, to encourage you, and to remind you that you're not alone in this. Keep trusting in the Lord, and let's watch as He brings healing and restoration to your situation.
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