We hear the deep weariness and despair in your heart, and we want you to know that you are not alone in this battle. The weight of debt, the betrayal of those who should have been a refuge, and the exhaustion from relentless struggle can make even the strongest among us feel crushed. But take heart, beloved—our God is the God of the impossible, the One who parts seas, raises the dead, and turns ashes into beauty. He has not forgotten you, nor has He abandoned you in this pit. In fact, He is near to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18). You have done well to cry out to Him in the name of Jesus, for that is where your help comes from.
The enemy would love for you to believe that this is the end, that there is no way out, and that your strength has run dry. But we rebuke that lie in the name of Jesus! The truth is, your strength was never meant to sustain you—it is *His* strength that carries you. The Apostle Paul wrote, "I can do all things through Christ, who strengthens me" (Philippians 4:13). Notice he didn’t say, "I can do all things *when I feel strong*," but rather, his confidence was in Christ alone. Even when you feel you cannot take another step, He is your ever-present help (Psalm 46:1). You are not required to have the answers or the energy—you are only required to trust Him.
We understand your frustration with the church. It is a painful reality that wolves in sheep’s clothing exist, and their actions can wound deeply. But do not let the failures of man turn you away from the body of Christ entirely. Jesus Himself warned that false prophets would come (Matthew 7:15), but He also said, "I will build my assembly, and the gates of Hades will not prevail against it" (Matthew 16:18). There *are* faithful believers and churches that walk in truth and love. Ask the Lord to lead you to a body of believers who will stand with you, pray with you, and support you in practical ways. Isolation is a tool of the enemy—do not let it take root in your life.
As for work, we acknowledge your pain. The trauma of being overloaded and mistreated in a job can make the thought of returning to work feel unbearable. But we gently urge you to consider this: leaving every job at the first sign of difficulty may not be the path to breakthrough. The Bible tells us that "whatever your hand finds to do, do it with all your might" (Ecclesiastes 9:10), and that we are to work "heartily, as for the Lord, and not for men" (Colossians 3:23). This doesn’t mean you should endure abuse or bullying—those are never acceptable—but it does mean that perfection in a job or workplace is not the standard. Sometimes, the Lord uses our obedience in difficult circumstances to refine us, provide for us, and open doors we couldn’t see before.
That said, we also recognize that your current season may require rest and healing before stepping into new work. If that is the case, trust that the Lord will provide for you even in this time. He fed Elijah by ravens (1 Kings 17:4-6) and provided manna in the wilderness (Exodus 16:4). He is not limited by your circumstances. Keep seeking Him first, and He will add what you need (Matthew 6:33). If you are able, consider volunteering or serving in some capacity while you wait. It can be a way to steward your time, build relationships, and position yourself for God’s next step.
Regarding your debt, we encourage you to seek godly counsel on stewardship. Proverbs 22:7 says, "The rich rule over the poor. The borrower is servant to the lender." While this may feel overwhelming, the Lord can provide wisdom and strategies to overcome it. Have you sought advice from a financial counselor or a trusted believer who can help you create a plan? Sometimes, the way out begins with small, faithful steps. The Lord honors diligence, and He can multiply your efforts as you trust in Him.
Lastly, we want to address the "all or nothing" mindset that seems to be weighing on you. This kind of thinking can lead to despair when things don’t change immediately. But the Kingdom of God often works in increments—small obediences, daily trust, and gradual growth. Jesus compared the Kingdom to a mustard seed, which starts tiny but grows into something great (Matthew 13:31-32). Do not despise the day of small beginnings (Zechariah 4:10). Your breakthrough may not come all at once, but it *is* coming as you hold fast to Him.
Now, let us pray for you:
Heavenly Father, we lift up our brother/sister to You, knowing that You are the God who sees their affliction and hears their cries. Lord, they are weary—bone-weary—and their heart is heavy with the weight of debt, disappointment, and the betrayal of those who should have been a refuge. But You, O Lord, are their true refuge and strength. We ask that You would renew their strength like the eagle’s (Isaiah 40:31). When they feel they cannot take another step, remind them that Your grace is sufficient, and Your power is made perfect in weakness (2 Corinthians 12:9).
Father, we rebuke the spirit of despair and hopelessness that has tried to take root in their heart. We declare that You are making a way where there seems to be no way. Open doors of provision that no man can shut (Revelation 3:8). If there is a job You have for them, reveal it clearly. Give them discernment to recognize Your leading and the courage to step forward in faith. If this is a season of rest and healing, provide for them supernaturally. Let them see Your hand at work in ways they cannot deny.
Lord, we ask for godly wisdom regarding their finances. Show them the path to freedom from debt. Bring the right people into their life to offer counsel, support, and practical help. Help them to be a good steward of what You have given them, no matter how small it may seem.
Father, heal the wounds caused by the church. Lead them to a body of believers who will love them well, pray for them faithfully, and walk with them through this season. Restore their trust in Your people, even as they remain discerning.
We pray for their heart, Lord. Replace their disappointment with hope, their fear with faith, and their weariness with Your peace. Remind them that You are not done writing their story. The pit they are in is not their final destination—it is a place where You are refining them, preparing them, and drawing them closer to Yourself.
Finally, Father, we thank You that You are their Provider, their Healer, and their Deliverer. We declare that they will testify of Your goodness in this season. Let them see Your hand move mightily on their behalf. In the name of Jesus, we pray, Amen.
Beloved, hold on. The night may be dark, but joy comes in the morning (Psalm 30:5). Keep your eyes on Jesus, the author and finisher of your faith (Hebrews 12:2). He is with you, and He will never leave you nor forsake you (Deuteronomy 31:6). Walk in obedience one day at a time, and trust that He is working all things together for your good (Romans 8:28). We are standing with you in prayer. Do not give up. Your breakthrough is coming.
