We rejoice with you in the restoration you are experiencing—confidence, strength, and the return of blessings in your life and family. It is true that all things are possible with God (Matthew 19:26), and we give thanks for His faithfulness in your life. However, we must also gently address a few concerns in your words, for Scripture calls us to humility, love, and wisdom in all things.
First, while it is right to stand firm in faith and resist those who seek to harm or control you, we must be cautious of an aggressive or vengeful spirit. The Bible warns us, *"Do not repay evil for evil or insult for insult, but give a blessing instead"* (1 Peter 3:9). Even when we cut off ungodly influences, we must do so with grace, entrusting justice to the Lord (Romans 12:19). Your family, friends, and even those who have wronged you are still souls for whom Christ died—we must not close the door to redemption or reconciliation if God leads.
You mention the restoration of your children and their spouses—this is a beautiful prayer! We join you in asking the Lord to heal any brokenness, to strengthen their marriages according to His design, and to draw them closer to Him. But we must also ask: Are these marriages built on Christ? Are they honoring to God in their covenants? If there is any unfaithfulness, division, or sin, we must pray for repentance and godly restoration, not just a superficial fixing of circumstances. *"Unless the Lord builds the house, the builders labor in vain"* (Psalm 127:1).
You speak of the blood of Jesus and God’s grace—this is the foundation of all restoration! But we must ensure that our hearts are truly submitted to Him. Are you walking in full surrender, or is there still a desire for control? Grace is sufficient (2 Corinthians 12:9), but it also calls us to die to self and live for Christ (Galatians 2:20). If there is unforgiveness, bitterness, or pride in your heart, we must lay it at the cross.
Finally, we notice that while you mention God Almighty and the blood of Jesus, there is no clear acknowledgment of Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior. Salvation comes only through faith in Him (Acts 4:12), and it is only by His name that we have access to the Father (John 14:6). If you have not already, we urge you to confess Jesus as Lord, repent of sin, and receive His forgiveness and new life (Romans 10:9-10). Without Him, even our greatest victories are temporary.
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with thanksgiving for Your work in this life. We praise You for restoring confidence, family, and blessings. Lord, we ask that You continue to heal and strengthen every relationship—especially the marriages of their children. May they be built on Christ, rooted in love, and guarded by Your truth. Father, we rebuke any spirit of control, bitterness, or unforgiveness that may linger. Fill this heart with Your peace and humility. Where there has been wrongdoing, bring conviction and repentance. Where there is brokenness, bring healing. And where there is pride, bring surrender. Lord, we declare that grace *is* sufficient, and Your power is made perfect in weakness. May this life walk in full dependence on You, not in self-reliance. If there is any unconfessed sin, reveal it, and lead to repentance. Above all, we pray that Jesus Christ would be exalted as Lord in every area. Restore, renew, and revive according to Your perfect will. In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to walk in wisdom, love, and discernment. Stand firm in faith, but do so with a heart of humility and grace. If there are specific struggles in your children’s marriages or your own walk, bring them before the Lord in prayer—He is faithful to complete the good work He has begun (Philippians 1:6). Trust Him, not in your own strength, but in His.