We understand the deep pain and frustration that comes from repeatedly encountering abusive individuals, and we join you in lifting this burden before the Lord. The Bible speaks clearly about the nature of such people and the protection God provides for His children. Scripture warns us in **Proverbs 22:24-25 (WEB)**, *"Don’t befriend a hot-tempered man, and don’t associate with one who harbors anger: lest you learn his ways, and ensnare your soul."* Abusive personalities often exhibit traits of anger, manipulation, pride, and a lack of repentance—qualities that grieve the heart of God. Yet we are also reminded in **Psalm 37:12-15 (WEB)** that *"The wicked plots against the just, and gnashes at him with his teeth. The Lord will laugh at him, for he sees that his day is coming. The wicked have drawn out the sword, and have bent their bow, to cast down the poor and needy, to kill those who are upright in the way. Their sword shall enter into their own heart. Their bows shall be broken."*
First, we must address the spiritual reality: the behavior you describe is rooted in sin, and without repentance, such individuals remain under the influence of the enemy. **Ephesians 6:12 (WEB)** tells us, *"For our wrestling is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world’s rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places."* This is not a battle you face alone—it is a spiritual war, and the Lord fights on behalf of His people. We must pray not only for protection but for the exposure and defeat of these evil works. **James 4:7 (WEB)** commands us, *"Be subject therefore to God. But resist the devil, and he will flee from you."*
We also urge you to examine your own heart in this season. Have you inadvertently opened doors to these encounters through unforgiveness, fear, or a lack of boundaries? **2 Corinthians 2:10-11 (WEB)** warns, *"Now I also forgive whomever you forgive anything. For if indeed I have forgiven anything, I have forgiven that one for your sakes in Christ’s presence, that no advantage may be gained over us by Satan; for we are not ignorant of his schemes."* Forgiveness does not mean tolerating abuse—it means releasing the offense to God and trusting Him to execute justice. Set firm, biblical boundaries, and do not engage with those who refuse to honor them. **Proverbs 26:4-5 (WEB)** offers wisdom: *"Don’t answer a fool according to his folly, lest you also be like him. Answer a fool according to his folly, lest he be wise in his own eyes."* There is a time to disengage entirely for your own protection.
For those who are trapped under the influence of such abusive personalities, we pray for their deliverance and healing. **Psalm 10:17-18 (WEB)** declares, *"Yahweh, you have heard the desire of the humble. You will prepare their heart. You will cause your ear to hear, to judge the fatherless and the oppressed, that man who is of the earth may terrify no more."* God sees the afflicted, and He will act. We also pray that these abusers would either be brought to genuine repentance or that their influence would be utterly neutralized. **Proverbs 11:21 (WEB)** assures us, *"Most certainly, the evil man will not be unpunished, but the offspring of the righteous will be delivered."*
Now, let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. We lift up this situation where Your child has repeatedly encountered abusive and harmful personalities. Lord, You are a God of justice, and You have promised to defend the oppressed and break the arm of the wicked. We ask that You expose every hidden scheme of the enemy in these encounters. Let the light of Your truth shine so brightly that these abusive individuals are either brought to their knees in repentance or removed from positions where they can cause harm.
Father, we pray for divine protection over those who have been targeted by such people. Surround them with Your angels, as You have promised in **Psalm 91:11 (WEB)**, *"For he will put his angels in charge of you, to guard you in all your ways."* Give them wisdom to recognize danger, courage to set godly boundaries, and the strength to walk away when necessary. Heal their hearts from any wounds inflicted by these encounters, and fill them with Your peace that surpasses all understanding.
We rebuke the spirit of abuse, manipulation, and pride that operates through these individuals. By the authority of Jesus Christ, we bind these spirits and command them to be silenced and cast out. **Luke 10:19 (WEB)** reminds us, *"Behold, I give you authority to tread on serpents and scorpions, and over all the power of the enemy. Nothing will in any way hurt you."* We declare that no weapon formed against Your people shall prosper, and every tongue that rises against them in judgment shall be condemned (**Isaiah 54:17**).
Lord, if there are any open doors in the lives of those praying—unforgiveness, fear, or ungodly soul ties—we ask that You reveal them and provide the grace to close them permanently. Let Your Holy Spirit fill every void, and let Your truth be the foundation upon which they stand. We pray for a hedge of protection around them, that no harmful person would be able to cross into their lives without Your permission, and that You would grant them discernment to recognize wolves in sheep’s clothing.
Finally, Father, we ask that You bring these abusive individuals to a place of conviction. Soften their hearts of stone and grant them repentance leading to a knowledge of the truth (**2 Timothy 2:25**). If they refuse to repent, we pray that their influence would be cut off and their schemes thwarted. Let them reap what they have sown, unless they turn to You in genuine sorrow for their sins.
We thank You, Lord, for hearing our prayers. We trust in Your justice, Your protection, and Your timing. May Your will be done in this situation, and may Your name be glorified. In the precious and powerful name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.