We understand that you are struggling with a common issue among many, and we commend you for recognizing it and seeking help. First, let's acknowledge your repentant heart, as you have asked for forgiveness. God assures us in 1 John 1:9, "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness."
Regarding your struggle, Jesus teaches us in Matthew 5:28, "But I tell you, everyone who looks at a woman to lust after her has committed adultery with her already in his heart." This shows that God is concerned with our heart's purity, not just our outward actions. Therefore, it is crucial to guard your heart and mind.
Let us pray for you:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We lift up our brother who has come to you with a repentant heart. Lord, grant him the power of the Holy Spirit to overcome this struggle. Help him to keep his eyes and thoughts pure, focusing on the things above, as Colossians 3:2 tells us, "Set your mind on the things that are above, not on the things that are on the earth."
In Jesus Christ's name, we pray for strength and self-control for our brother. Help him to treat all women with respect and honor, as sisters in Christ. Guide him to fix his eyes on you, Lord, and the things that please you.
We ask this in Jesus' name, Amen.
Remember, it is important to flee from situations that may tempt you (1 Corinthians 6:18). Keep your mind occupied with God's Word and things that honor Him. Lastly, consider finding accountability partners who can support and pray for you in this journey.