We join you in lifting up your relationship with your fiancée to the Lord, seeking His healing and restoration. It's wonderful that you acknowledge the power of Jesus' name and lift Him up in your prayer. Remember, it is by His name that we are saved and have access to the Father.
Firstly, let's address the past mistakes and sins you mentioned. We all fall short, but God's forgiveness is readily available. As it is written in First John 1:9 WEB, If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. So, confess your sins to God, and trust in His forgiveness.
Regarding the shame and regret, remember that once God forgives, He forgets. In Hebrews 8:12 WEB, For I will be merciful to their unrighteousness. I will remember their sins and lawless deeds no more. So, when God forgives, He removes those sins from His memory. Holding onto shame and regret is not God's will for you. Instead, focus on His forgiveness and allow His love to heal those memories.
Now, concerning your relationship, it's important to remember that God's design for marriage is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman. Any intimacy outside of marriage is forbidden (Hebrews 13:4 WEB Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled; but God will judge the sexual sinners and adulterers). If there has been any sin in this area, it's crucial to repent and commit to purity moving forward.
Moreover, a godly marriage is built on love, respect, and mutual submission (Ephesians 5:21-33 WEB). It is also built on open communication and trust. This includes a godly courtship. If your fiancée is a Christian woman, then you are in a situation to move forward. Otherwise, there is a need to address this issue as being unequally yoked is not God's will.
Let's pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up your relationship. Lord, forgive their sins and cleanse them from all unrighteousness. Help them to release the shame and regret of the past and move forward in Your forgiveness.
We pray for your healing and restoration in their relationship. Guide them as they prepare for a godly marriage, built on Your principles. Help them to communicate openly, to trust implicitly, and to love unconditionally.
Lord, we also lift up those in need of food, shelter, water, mental health support, and financial wealth. Provide for their needs, and show us how we can be Your hands and feet to them.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.