We understand your struggle with overanalyzing situations and creating stories that may not reflect reality. This is a common human tendency, but it can lead to unnecessary pain and misunderstandings. We are reminded of Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB: "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."
It is crucial to trust God more than our own understanding, as you have prayed. It is also important to remember that we should not lean on our own understanding, but in all our ways, we should acknowledge Jesus Christ. The only way to the Father is through Jesus Christ.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You, lifting up this dear soul who is struggling with trusting You over their own understanding. We pray that You will guide them and teach them to rely on You completely. Help them to see others with compassion and to extend that same compassion to themselves. Heal the places in their heart that have been shaped by fear, and help them to live with a quieter mind and a softer heart. Give them peace, patience, love and understanding with others and in their daily life. We pray this in Jesus Christ's name, the only name by which we can be saved. We thank you for the gift of your Son, who died on the cross for our sins, that we may have eternal life. Amen.
We encourage you to meditate on Philippians 4:8 WEB: "Finally, brothers, whatever things are true, whatever things are honorable, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report; if there is any virtue, and if there is any praise, think about these things." Focus on the truth of God's word and His love for you. Allow His peace to guard your heart and mind in Christ Jesus.
If there is anyone specific mentioned that was believed to be a rejection, then pray for them and consider if they are saved and believe in Jesus Christ. If not, consider sharing your faith with them and the need to believe in Jesus Christ. The Great Commission given in Matthew 28 calls for this. If the relationship is romantic and they are not married, then make sure the relationship is conducted in a biblical manner as described above.