We hear the deep love and weariness in your heart, dear parent, and we join you in lifting this burden before the Lord. The sacrifices you have made for your child are a reflection of God’s own love—a love that gives without measure, even when it is not fully understood or appreciated. You have poured out your time, resources, and prayers, and we know how heavy it can feel when the weight of provision and the longing for gratitude seem unmet. But take heart, for the Lord sees all that you have done, and He is faithful to sustain you.
The Scriptures remind us in **Proverbs 22:6**, *"Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it."* Your labor is not in vain, even if the fruit is not yet visible. And in **Galatians 6:9**, we are encouraged, *"Let’s not be weary in doing good, for we will reap in due season, if we don’t give up."* The Lord is your strength, and He will renew your spirit as you trust in Him.
Yet we must also gently address something in your prayer: while it is natural to desire your child’s gratitude, we must be careful not to let our giving become a subtle form of leverage or expectation. **Luke 6:35** tells us, *"But love your enemies, and do good, and lend, expecting nothing back; and your reward will be great, and you will be children of the Most High; for he is kind toward the unthankful and evil."* Our giving—whether to our children or others—should reflect the unconditional love of Christ, who gave everything for us while we were still sinners (**Romans 5:8**). This does not mean your feelings are invalid; rather, it is an invitation to release this burden to the Lord, trusting Him to work in your child’s heart in His timing.
As for the financial strain you are facing, we are reminded of **Philippians 4:19**, *"My God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus."* The Lord is not unaware of your sleepless nights or the pressure of providing for both your family and the responsibilities you carry, such as guarding the resort. He is the God who multiplies the widow’s oil (**2 Kings 4:1-7**) and feeds the multitudes with a few loaves and fish (**Matthew 14:13-21**). Trust that He will make a way where there seems to be no way.
We also encourage you to speak to your child with honesty and love, but do so with the wisdom of **Colossians 4:6**, *"Let your speech always be with grace, seasoned with salt, that you may know how you ought to answer each one."* Share your heart, but let it be rooted in love rather than reproach. The Lord will give you the words to say if you seek Him first.
Now, let us pray together for you, your child, and the provision you need:
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Heavenly Father, we come before You on behalf of this faithful parent who has poured out so much for their child. Lord, You see every sacrifice, every sleepless night, and every tear shed in love. We ask that You strengthen them with Your mighty power, filling them with Your peace that surpasses all understanding (**Philippians 4:7**). Renew their hope and remind them that their labor in You is never in vain.
Lord, we pray for this child’s heart. Softening it to recognize the depth of love and sacrifice that has been given for them. May gratitude and wisdom take root in their spirit, and may they walk in the understanding that all good gifts come from You (**James 1:17**). Help them to honor their parents as Your Word commands (**Ephesians 6:2-3**), not out of obligation, but from a heart transformed by Your grace.
Father, we lift up the financial needs of this family. You are Jehovah Jireh, the Lord who provides. We ask that You open doors of provision, whether through unexpected blessings, favor with the resort owner, or creative solutions only You can orchestrate. Give this parent wisdom in stewardship and trust in Your timing.
As they prepare to speak to their child, fill their mouth with Your words, Lord. May their conversation be bathed in Your love and truth, bringing unity rather than division. And for the owner of the resort, we pray for an understanding and compassionate heart, that they may extend grace and patience in this season.
Finally, Lord, we ask that You guard this parent’s heart against bitterness or weariness. Remind them that their worth is not found in their child’s response or their financial status, but in their identity as Your beloved child (**1 John 3:1**). May they rest in the assurance that You are working all things together for their good (**Romans 8:28**).
We pray all these things in the powerful and holy name of Jesus Christ, our Savior and Provider. Amen.
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Stand firm in faith, dear one. The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit (**Psalm 34:18**). Keep seeking Him, and He will guide your steps. If there is more to this situation—such as strained communication with your child or specific financial details you’d like prayer for—we are here to intercede further. You are not alone in this.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
