We hear the deep pain and cry of your heart, and we stand with you in this time of great trial, lifting your burdens before the Lord. Your plea for justice, protection, and provision is one that God hears, for He is a Father to the fatherless, a defender of widows, and a God who sees the oppression of His children. We grieve with you over the betrayal, deception, and emotional abandonment you have endured in your marriage. A husband is called to love his wife as Christ loved the church—sacrificially, faithfully, and with transparency (Ephesians 5:25-29). Instead, you have faced hidden agendas, financial manipulation, and the crushing weight of loneliness. This is not God’s design for marriage, and we rebuke the spirit of deceit, control, and injustice that has taken root in your home. The Lord declares in Proverbs 6:16-19, *"There are six things which Yahweh hates; yes, seven which are an abomination to him: arrogant eyes, a lying tongue, hands that shed innocent blood, a heart that devises wicked schemes, feet that are swift in running to mischief, a false witness who utters lies, and he who sows discord among brothers."* Lies and hidden schemes are an abomination to God, and He will not ignore the cries of the oppressed.
Your desire for financial independence and a home of your own is understandable, especially as you seek stability for yourself and your children. However, we must gently but firmly address something critical: your prayer does not invoke the name of Jesus Christ, through whom *alone* we have access to the Father. Jesus Himself said, *"I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me"* (John 14:6). There is no other name under heaven by which we are saved or through which our prayers are heard (Acts 4:12). If you have not yet surrendered your life to Christ as your Lord and Savior, we urge you to do so now. Confess your sins, believe in His death and resurrection for your salvation, and invite Him to reign in your heart. Without this foundation, even our most heartfelt prayers lack the power and authority granted to us through His name.
As for your marriage, we pray for God’s intervention. If your husband is a believer, we plead with the Lord to convict his heart and bring him to repentance. If he is not, we pray that God would draw him to salvation, for *"the unbelieving husband is sanctified in the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified in the husband"* (1 Corinthians 7:14). However, sanctification does not mean enduring abuse or injustice indefinitely. Scripture permits separation in cases of abandonment or unrepentant sin (1 Corinthians 7:15), though reconciliation should always remain the hope if he turns from his ways. You are not obligated to remain in a marriage where deceit and control reign, especially when your children’s well-being is at stake. Proverbs 22:10 tells us to *"drive out the mocker, and strife will go out; yes, quarrels and insults will stop."* Sometimes, boundaries must be established for the sake of peace and safety.
We also pray for your children, that the Lord would shield their hearts from the pain of this broken home and raise up godly influences in their lives. May He be their Father when earthly fatherhood has failed them. *"Leave your fatherless children to me,"* the Lord declares. *"I will keep them alive. Your widows can trust in me"* (Jeremiah 49:11).
Now, let us pray together over your life, your marriage, and your future:
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Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our sister who is broken, weary, and crying out for justice. Lord, You see the depths of her pain—the betrayal, the loneliness, the financial bondage, and the manipulation she has endured. You are a God who *sees* (Genesis 16:13), and You do not turn away from the afflicted. We ask You to rise up as her Defender, her Provider, and her Shield.
Father, we rebuke the spirit of deceit and control operating in her husband’s life. If he is Your child, convict him deeply of his sin and bring him to true repentance. Softens his heart, Lord, and expose every hidden thing (Luke 12:2). If he is not Yours, we pray You would pursue him relentlessly until he surrenders to Christ. But Lord, we also ask for wisdom and discernment for our sister. Show her whether this marriage can be redeemed or if she must take steps to protect herself and her children from further harm. Give her the courage to seek godly counsel—pastors, biblical counselors, or legal advocates who can help her navigate this season with integrity and strength.
We pray for financial breakthrough. You own the cattle on a thousand hills (Psalm 50:10), and You are able to open doors no man can shut (Revelation 3:8). Provide her with a job that not only meets her needs but restores her dignity. If homeownership is Your will, make a way where there seems to be no way. Let her testify of Your faithfulness, that You are a God who restores what the locusts have eaten (Joel 2:25).
Lord, heal her heart. The rejection and loneliness she has carried are not Your design for her life. Surround her with a community of believers who will love her, support her, and remind her of her worth in Christ. Let her find her identity in You alone, not in her marriage, her finances, or her circumstances. You call her *beloved* (1 John 3:1), and we pray she would walk in that truth every day.
Protect her children, Father. Be their ever-present Help in trouble (Psalm 46:1). Raise up godly mentors and father figures in their lives if their earthly father continues to fail them. Let them know Your love in tangible ways.
Finally, Lord, we ask for justice. You are a God who *loves* justice (Psalm 33:5), and You will not allow the wicked to triumph forever (Psalm 94:3-4). Bring to light every hidden deed. Vindicate her, Lord, in a way that leaves no doubt of Your hand at work. Let her story be a testimony of Your redemption, Your provision, and Your unfailing love.
We trust You, Lord, even when the path is unclear. Strengthen her faith. Remind her that You are working all things together for her good (Romans 8:28), even when it feels impossible. Fill her with Your peace that surpasses understanding (Philippians 4:7), and let her rest in the assurance that You are fighting for her (Exodus 14:14).
In the precious and powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Savior and Redeemer, we pray. Amen.
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Sister, we urge you to take practical steps alongside your prayers. Seek godly, biblical counseling to help you process this pain and gain clarity on your next steps. If you are not already part of a church family, we strongly encourage you to find one where you can be supported and discipled. If legal action is necessary to protect your rights or your children’s well-being, pray for wisdom and seek Christian legal counsel.
Remember, the Lord is near to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18). He has not forgotten you. Cling to Him, and let Him be your strength in this storm. We are standing with you in prayer. Do not lose heart. *"Let us not grow weary in doing good, for in due season we will reap, if we don’t give up"* (Galatians 6:9).
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
