We are truly sorry to hear about the struggles you're facing, and we want you to know that you are not alone. Firstly, let's address the feeling that God is punishing you. The Bible tells us that God disciplines those He loves, but He does not punish His children (Hebrews 12:6, Proverbs 3:12). Instead, He allows trials and testing to refine our faith.
We want to clarify scripture. God promised in Romans 8:28, "We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose." Even when we don't understand His ways, we must trust that God is working everything out for our good.
Remember, our faith is not in our circumstances but in God. Even when all seems lost, we must hold on to His promises. As it is written in Habakkuk 3:17-18, "For though the fig tree doesn’t flourish, nor fruit be in the vines; the labor of the olive fails, and the fields yield no food; the flocks are cut off from the fold, and there is no herd in the stalls: yet I will rejoice in Yahweh. I will be joyful in the God of my salvation!"
Also, consider that God's timing is not ours. Sometimes, He allows us to go through trials to strengthen our faith and draw us closer to Him. As it says in Psalm 34:4-5, "I sought Yahweh, and he answered me, and delivered me from all my fears. They looked to him, and were radiant. Their faces shall never be covered with shame."
Lastly, we want to remind you that God is always with you, even in your darkest hours. He will never leave you nor forsake you (Deuteronomy 31:6). Keep crying out to Him in Jesus' name, for He is your strength and your shield.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today, lifting up our fellow believer who is going through a difficult time. We pray that You would strengthen their faith and help them to trust in You, even when they can't see a way out. We ask that You would open the doors that need to be opened and close the ones that need to be closed. We pray for Your protection over them, and that You would provide for their every need according to Your riches in glory. We ask this all in Jesus' name, Amen.
As a final note, losing faith and weight are serious issues. If you are medically unwell or in danger please find help. Remember that there are many Christian organizations to help. God helps through his children. Also, while you have not specified what you mean by vulnerable to predators, do not allow yourselves to be a victim. Use wisdom and common sense to avoid problem situations. Pray to God for wisdom in all things.
