We grieve with you over the relentless torment you have endured for far too long at the hands of this wicked man. The Lord sees every tear you have cried, every lie spoken against you, and every act of cruelty inflicted upon you. The Scriptures declare in **Exodus 22:22-24 (WEB)**, *"You shall not afflict any widow or fatherless child. If you afflict them in any way—and if they cry at all to me, I will surely hear their cry—and my wrath will grow hot, and I will kill you with the sword; and your wives shall be widows, and your children fatherless."* Though you may not be a widow or orphan, this passage reveals God’s heart for the oppressed—He hears their cries, and His justice is certain. The Lord does not ignore the suffering of His children, nor does He tolerate unrepentant wickedness forever.
The evil you describe—stalking, harassment, and gaslighting—is an abomination before God. **Proverbs 6:16-19 (WEB)** lists seven things the Lord hates, including *"hands that shed innocent blood, a heart that devises wicked schemes, feet that are swift in running to mischief, a false witness who utters lies, and he who sows discord among brothers."* This man’s actions align with these detestable sins, and the Lord will hold him accountable. You are not powerless, though it may feel that way. The battle you face is not merely against flesh and blood but against spiritual forces of evil. **Ephesians 6:12 (WEB)** reminds us, *"For our wrestling is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world’s rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places."*
We must first address the cry of your heart for "severe punishment." While your pain is understandable, we urge you to surrender this desire for vengeance to the Lord. **Romans 12:19 (WEB)** commands, *"Don’t seek revenge yourselves, beloved, but give place to God’s wrath. For it is written, 'Vengeance belongs to me; I will repay, says the Lord.'"* God’s justice is perfect, and His timing is flawless. Your role is not to demand punishment but to trust that the Lord will act righteously on your behalf. Instead, pray for God’s will to be done—whether that includes his repentance or his removal from your life. Pray that the Lord would expose his deeds, silence his lies, and break the power he has wrongfully wielded over you. Ask God to bind the spiritual forces fueling this man’s evil and to place a hedge of protection around you so that no weapon formed against you shall prosper (**Isaiah 54:17**).
We also encourage you to take practical steps to protect yourself. If you have not already, document every instance of harassment, stalking, or abuse. Seek legal protection through restraining orders or other means available in your country or state. The Lord often works through the authorities He has established (**Romans 13:1-4**), and you have every right to use the legal system to shield yourself from this man’s wickedness. Additionally, surround yourself with a community of believers who can support you, pray with you, and stand as witnesses if needed. Isolation only empowers abusers, but light exposes darkness (**Ephesians 5:11**).
You mentioned that this man is *"not your brother, not your father, not your husband,"* yet he has wrongfully asserted some form of spiritual authority over you. This is a grave injustice. **Matthew 23:8-12 (WEB)** warns against those who exalt themselves as spiritual authorities when they have no right to do so: *"But don’t you be called ‘Rabbi,’ for one is your teacher, the Christ, and all of you are brothers. Call no man on the earth your father, for one is your Father, he who is in heaven. Neither be called masters, for one is your master, the Christ."* This man’s attempts to control or manipulate you spiritually are an affront to God’s order. We rebuke this false authority in the name of Jesus Christ and declare that no weapon formed against you shall prosper. The Lord is your true Father, your Protector, and your Deliverer (**Psalm 18:2**).
Lastly, we must address the absence of the name of Jesus in your request. There is no other name under heaven by which we can approach the throne of God or find salvation (**Acts 4:12**). It is only through Jesus Christ that we have access to the Father (**John 14:6**), and it is in His name that we pray and find victory. If you have not already surrendered your life to Jesus as your Lord and Savior, we urge you to do so now. He alone can break the chains of oppression, heal your wounds, and grant you eternal peace. **1 John 5:4-5 (WEB)** promises, *"For whatever is born of God overcomes the world. This is the victory that has overcome the world: your faith. Who is he who overcomes the world, but he who believes that Jesus is the Son of God?"* Place your trust in Him, and He will fight for you.
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**Let us pray together:**
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our sister who has endured unspeakable torment for far too long. Lord, You see the depths of her suffering—the stalking, the harassment, the gaslighting, and the relentless evil inflicted upon her by this wicked man. You are a God of justice, and Your Word declares that You will not allow the afflicted to be oppressed forever (**Psalm 10:17-18**).
We ask You, Lord, to intervene mightily in this situation. Expose every dark deed, silence every lie, and break the power of this man’s harassment. Bind the spiritual forces of evil that are fueling his wickedness and render him powerless to continue his abuse. Place a hedge of protection around our sister so that no weapon formed against her shall prosper. Let Your angels encamp around her (**Psalm 34:7**) and grant her peace that surpasses all understanding (**Philippians 4:7**).
Father, we surrender any desire for vengeance into Your hands. Your justice is perfect, and we trust You to repay this man for the evil he has done. If it is Your will, bring him to repentance so that he may turn from his wicked ways. But if he hardens his heart, Lord, remove his ability to harm our sister any longer. Shut his mouth, confuse his plans, and let his own schemes be his downfall (**Psalm 7:15-16**).
We also pray for healing for our sister. Restore her mind, her emotions, and her spirit from the trauma she has endured. Fill her with Your peace and remind her daily that she is fearfully and wonderfully made (**Psalm 139:14**), that she is Your beloved daughter, and that You will never leave her nor forsake her (**Deuteronomy 31:6**). Give her wisdom to take the practical steps needed for her protection, and surround her with godly people who will stand with her in this battle.
Lord, we declare that this oppression ends now in the name of Jesus Christ. No longer shall this man have any power or influence over our sister’s life. You, Lord, are her Defender, her Shield, and her Strong Tower (**Proverbs 18:10**). We thank You for hearing our prayer and for the victory that is already hers through Christ Jesus.
In the mighty and holy name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
