We hear your cry for help, and we stand with you in the authority of Jesus Christ, the Name above all names, the only Name by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12). Your words reveal deep pain, spiritual warfare, and a desperate longing for freedom, peace, and normalcy. We must address several critical issues in your request with truth, love, and the power of Scripture.
First, we must rebuke the language of "speaking, decreeing, declaring, demanding, and commanding" as if you have the authority to create reality by your words. This is not biblical. Only God has the power to create, command, and decree (Genesis 1:1, Isaiah 46:10-11). We are called to pray in faith, submit to His will, and trust in His sovereignty, not to wield words like incantations. Jesus taught us to pray, "Your kingdom come. Your will be done, on earth as it is in heaven" (Matthew 6:10). Our prayers should align with God’s will, not our own desires to control outcomes.
We also must address the mention of "green" and "vapes" in the context of your request. While gardening can be a wholesome and godly activity, the use of mind-altering substances—even those legalized—is not aligned with biblical principles of sobriety and self-control. Scripture warns us, "Do not get drunk with wine, for that is debauchery, but be filled with the Spirit" (Ephesians 5:18). The pursuit of clarity or peace through substances is a counterfeit to the true peace that only Christ can provide. We are called to be sober-minded and alert, especially in spiritual warfare (1 Peter 5:8). If this is a struggle for you, we encourage you to seek godly counsel, accountability, and freedom through the power of the Holy Spirit.
Your mention of feeling cursed, labeled as an "ugly whore," and trapped in cycles of despair is heartbreaking. We rebuke these lies in the Name of Jesus. The enemy is the father of lies (John 8:44), and he seeks to steal, kill, and destroy (John 10:10). But Jesus came to give you life abundantly. You are not defined by the accusations of the enemy or the sins of your past. In Christ, you are a new creation (2 Corinthians 5:17), redeemed, and deeply loved. The blood of Jesus has broken every curse (Galatians 3:13), and no weapon formed against you shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17). The enemy has no authority over you unless you grant it to him through fear, unbelief, or unrepentant sin.
We must also address the sexual references in your request. Scripture is clear that sexual immorality—whether fornication (sex outside of marriage), adultery, or any other form—is sin and separates us from God (1 Corinthians 6:18-20). If you have been involved in relationships that do not honor God, we encourage you to repent and seek His forgiveness. God’s grace is sufficient to cleanse and restore you (1 John 1:9). We pray that you would pursue relationships that honor Him, seeking a godly spouse if that is His will for you, and walking in purity and holiness.
You speak of "secret agents of Satan" and spiritual attacks, and we do not dismiss the reality of spiritual warfare. The Bible tells us, "For our wrestling is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world’s rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places" (Ephesians 6:12). However, we must also examine our own hearts and lives. Are there areas where you have opened doors to the enemy through sin, unforgiveness, or ungodly influences? We encourage you to renounce any involvement in occult practices, false teachings, or anything that does not align with God’s Word. Confess these things to the Lord, and He is faithful to forgive and cleanse you (1 John 1:9).
We also rebuke the idea that curses or spells can be passed on to your offspring, spouses, or others. This is not biblical. Each person is responsible for their own relationship with God (Ezekiel 18:20). However, we do acknowledge that generational sin patterns can exist, and we must break these in the Name of Jesus. Declare with us: "As for me and my house, we will serve the Lord" (Joshua 24:15). Claim the protection of the blood of Jesus over your family, and trust God to guard them.
Now, let us pray for you in the authority of Jesus Christ:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty Name of Jesus, the Name that is above every name, the Name by which we are saved and set free. We lift up this precious child of Yours who is crying out for help, for peace, and for deliverance. Lord, we ask that You would break every chain, shatter every lie, and silence every voice of the enemy that seeks to torment her. We rebuke the spirit of fear, the spirit of despair, and the spirit of accusation in the Name of Jesus. We declare that no weapon formed against her shall prosper, and every tongue that rises against her in judgment, You will condemn (Isaiah 54:17).
Father, we ask that You would reveal to her the truth of who she is in Christ. Remind her that she is fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14), that she is redeemed by the blood of Jesus, and that she is more than a conqueror through Him who loves her (Romans 8:37). Lord, we ask that You would heal her heart from every wound, every lie, and every accusation. Restore her mind, renew her spirit, and fill her with Your peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7).
We pray against any spiritual attacks or curses that have been spoken over her life. We declare that the blood of Jesus has broken every curse, and we command every assignment of the enemy against her to be nullified and rendered powerless. We bind every spirit of witchcraft, sorcery, and divination, and we loose the Holy Spirit to move freely in her life. We declare that she is covered by the blood of Jesus, and no weapon formed against her shall prosper.
Lord, we ask that You would expose any areas in her life where she has opened doors to the enemy. If there is unrepentant sin, unforgiveness, or involvement in anything ungodly, we ask that You would bring it to light and lead her to repentance. We pray that she would walk in holiness, purity, and obedience to Your Word. Help her to flee from sexual immorality and to pursue relationships that honor You.
We pray for her family, her offspring, and her loved ones. We declare that they are protected by the blood of Jesus and that no curse or spell can touch them. We break every generational curse and declare that the cycle of sin and bondage ends with her. We pray that her home would be a place of peace, joy, and worship, where Your presence dwells.
Father, we ask that You would restore her to a place of normalcy and routine. Help her to find joy in the simple things, to experience Your peace in her daily life, and to walk in the freedom that Christ has purchased for her. We pray that she would no longer be tormented by nightmares, spiritual attacks, or feelings of decapitation in the spiritual realm. We declare that she is whole, complete, and protected in Jesus’ Name.
Lord, we ask that You would raise up godly people around her—friends, mentors, and leaders who can speak truth into her life, pray with her, and walk alongside her in her journey. Help her to find a church community where she can grow in her faith, serve You, and be encouraged.
Finally, Lord, we ask that You would fill her with Your Holy Spirit. Empower her to walk in victory, to resist the devil, and to stand firm in her faith. Help her to put on the full armor of God (Ephesians 6:10-18) so that she can stand against the schemes of the enemy. We declare that she is free, she is loved, and she is victorious in Christ Jesus.
We pray all of this in the mighty, matchless, and powerful Name of Jesus. Amen.
Now, dear sister, we encourage you to take these steps:
1. **Renounce and Repent**: If there are areas in your life where you have opened doors to the enemy—whether through sin, unforgiveness, or involvement in ungodly practices—renounce them in the Name of Jesus and repent. Confess your sins to God, and He is faithful to forgive and cleanse you (1 John 1:9).
2. **Fill Your Mind with Truth**: Replace the lies of the enemy with the truth of God’s Word. Meditate on Scriptures that remind you of your identity in Christ (e.g., 2 Corinthians 5:17, Ephesians 2:10, Romans 8:37). Write them down, memorize them, and declare them over your life.
3. **Seek Godly Community**: Find a Bible-believing church where you can grow in your faith, be discipled, and find support. You were not meant to walk this journey alone. Iron sharpens iron (Proverbs 27:17), and godly friends can encourage you and hold you accountable.
4. **Put on the Armor of God**: Daily, put on the full armor of God (Ephesians 6:10-18) to stand against the schemes of the enemy. Pray, read Scripture, and walk in obedience to God’s Word.
5. **Pursue Holiness**: If you are struggling with sexual sin or relationships that do not honor God, seek accountability and make a commitment to purity. God’s design for intimacy is within the covenant of marriage between one man and one woman (Genesis 2:24, Hebrews 13:4). Pray for a godly spouse if that is His will for you, and trust Him to lead you.
6. **Trust in God’s Sovereignty**: Remember that God is in control, and His plans for you are good (Jeremiah 29:11). You do not need to "demand" or "declare" your way into His will. Submit to Him, trust Him, and rest in His promises.
7. **Seek Professional Help if Needed**: If you are struggling with mental health, addiction, or trauma, do not hesitate to seek help from a Christian counselor or medical professional. God can use these resources to bring healing and restoration.
You are not alone in this battle. The same power that raised Christ from the dead lives in you (Romans 8:11), and greater is He who is in you than he who is in the world (1 John 4:4). Walk in the freedom, peace, and victory that Christ has already won for you. We stand with you, pray for you, and believe that God is at work in your life.