20 months later, still continuing :*(

Rulourtha

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Twenty months later, still asking for prayer for my adult child. Went from addition, mental health facilities for 15 mo to getting clean, coming home, no more addiction, no more medication, to having panic attacks, not leaving the house for weeks on end and starting a new medication. He has been on this medication about 2 months now. He is getting better with his sleep schedule but no job, he is full of fear, does not leave the house. It is like he has agoraphobia. He is a Believer in Jesus Christ and is reading the Bible alot but full of negative views of himself, the world and life. I need as many people as I can to lift him up today in fervent prayer. I am ready for this to be over. Meds, start working! Adult Child accept God's got a plan and a purpose for your life, believe! Devil, stay away from my adult child, flee! Generational curses, be gone! Jesus, please reveal yourself him, heal him from the top of his head to the soles of his feet, bring restoration and wholeness! Let this be a week of miracles, get him to voluntarily leave the house. Maybe start going to the gym again, convict his friends to reach out to him and get him out! Convict his Sister to encourage him to go out with her. Please Lord, let this all be over!
 
We come before the throne of grace with heavy hearts, lifting up your precious adult child to the Lord, who is our Healer, Deliverer, and Redeemer. Twenty months of watching a beloved child struggle with addiction, mental health battles, isolation, and fear is a weight no parent should bear alone, but we stand with you in faith, declaring that our God is greater than every chain and every stronghold. We thank you for the victories already won, freedom from addiction, the return home, and the absence of medication that once clouded his mind. These are not small things; they are evidence of God’s faithfulness, even when the road ahead still feels uncertain.

The Word of God declares in Psalm 34:18-19, "Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit. Many are the afflictions of the righteous, but Yahweh delivers him out of them all." Your son is not forgotten. His identity is not defined by panic attacks, fear, or the lies of the enemy that whisper he is worthless or that the world is too much for him. We rebuke those lies in the mighty name of Jesus Christ! The enemy has no authority over a child of God, and we command every spirit of fear, anxiety, and agoraphobia to flee right now. "For God didn’t give us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control" (2 Timothy 1:7). We declare that your son is not a coward; he is a warrior in Christ, and the Lord is strengthening him even now, though he may not yet see it.

We also address the generational curses you mentioned. Scripture is clear: "The son shall not bear the iniquity of the father, neither shall the father bear the iniquity of the son: the righteousness of the righteous shall be upon him, and the wickedness of the wicked shall be upon him" (Ezekiel 18:20). Through the blood of Jesus, every chain of addiction, mental illness, or fear that has passed through generations is broken. We stand on Galatians 3:13, "Christ redeemed us from the curse of the law, having become a curse for us. For it is written, ‘Cursed is everyone who hangs on a tree.’" We declare that curse nullified and powerless over your family line. No weapon formed against your son shall prosper, and every tongue that rises against him in judgment, the Lord will condemn (Isaiah 54:17).

We are encouraged that your son is a believer in Jesus Christ and is reading the Bible. This is not a small thing, it is the foundation of his healing. But we must also speak truth in love: faith without works is dead (James 2:17). While we understand the grip of fear, we must gently but firmly encourage your son to take steps of faith, even when they feel impossible. "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight" (Proverbs 3:5-6). The Lord is not calling him to leap into the unknown alone; He is calling him to take one step at a time, trusting that God will meet him there. Perhaps that step is simply walking to the mailbox, then to the end of the driveway, then to a nearby park. The Lord honors even the smallest acts of obedience.

We also pray for the new medication he is taking. While we recognize that modern medicine can be a tool God uses, we must always hold it in balance with faith. "Is any among you sick? Let him call for the elders of the assembly, and let them pray over him, anointing him with oil in the name of the Lord; and the prayer of faith will heal him who is sick, and the Lord will raise him up. If he has committed sins, he will be forgiven" (James 5:14-15). We pray that this medication would work in harmony with the Holy Spirit’s healing power, not as a replacement for it. We ask the Lord to give wisdom to his doctors and clarity to your son about what his body and mind truly need.

We lift up his social circle as well. Proverbs 13:20 tells us, "He who walks with wise men grows wise, but a companion of fools suffers harm." If his friends are not encouraging him toward wholeness, we pray for conviction in their hearts to reach out and draw him back into community. We also pray for his sister, that the Lord would soften her heart to be a source of encouragement, not frustration. Sibling relationships can be complicated, but God can use her to speak life into her brother’s heart. We declare that isolation is broken in Jesus’ name! Your son was not created to live in hiding; he was created for purpose, for fellowship, and for the plans God has for him.

Most importantly, we pray for his heart. The negative views he holds of himself, the world, and life are not from God. "For I know the thoughts that I think toward you,” says Yahweh, “thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future" (Jeremiah 29:11). We rebuke the spirit of despair and speak life over him. We declare that he is fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14), that he is a new creation in Christ (2 Corinthians 5:17), and that the same power that raised Jesus from the dead lives in him (Romans 8:11). We pray that the eyes of his heart would be enlightened to see the hope of his calling (Ephesians 1:18).

Now, let us pray:

Heavenly Father, we come before You with hearts full of faith and expectation. We thank You for the life of this young man, for his salvation, and for the work You have already done in his life. Lord, we ask that You would break every chain of fear, anxiety, and isolation that has kept him bound. We command the spirit of agoraphobia to leave him now in the name of Jesus Christ. We declare that he is not a prisoner in his own home, he is a son of the Most High God, and You have given him a spirit of power, love, and self-control.

Father, we ask for a supernatural touch of healing from the top of his head to the soles of his feet. Heal his mind, Lord. Replace every lie with Your truth. Let him see himself as You see him, beloved, chosen, and called for a purpose. We pray for restoration in every area of his life: his health, his relationships, his purpose, and his faith. Let this truly be a week of miracles. We ask that You would stir in his heart a desire to leave the house, to take steps of faith, and to trust You in the process. Whether it’s a trip to the gym, a walk in the park, or a visit with a friend, we ask that You would make the way clear and remove every obstacle.

Lord, we also pray for his family. Give them wisdom, patience, and grace as they walk alongside him. Help them to speak life and encouragement, not frustration or fear. We pray for his sister, that You would soften her heart and give her the words to draw him out of isolation. We pray for his friends, that You would convict them to reach out and be a source of support.

We break every generational curse over this family in the name of Jesus. We declare that the blood of Christ has redeemed them from every curse, and we speak life, health, and wholeness over this household. Father, we ask that You would reveal Yourself to this young man in a powerful way. Let him experience Your presence, Your peace, and Your power in a tangible way. Let him know that he is never alone, that You are with him always.

We ask all these things in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, the name above every name, the name by which we are saved and healed. We believe that You are moving even now, and we thank You for the victory that is already won. We declare that this season of struggle is coming to an end, and a new season of hope, purpose, and freedom is beginning. In Jesus’ name, we pray. Amen.
 
We hear how tired you are, and we don't take that lightly. Twenty months of watching your son suffer while you plead with God is a long, lonely road. You've been faithful when no breakthrough seemed to come, and that kind of endurance matters.

The picture you give us, a young man reading his Bible but consumed with fearful, negative thoughts about himself and the world, is one we recognize. Sometimes the mind gets stuck in a loop where truth feels far away even when it's right in front of you. That doesn't mean his faith is broken. It means he's in a battle that affects his whole person, body and mind included. His panic and inability to leave the house aren't signs of spiritual failure; they're symptoms of a real condition that medication and professional help exist to address.

Since he's been on this new medication about two months with only partial improvement, we'd gently encourage him to talk with his prescribing doctor about what he's experiencing. Sometimes adjustments take time or a different approach helps more. That's not a lack of trust in God, it's using the means He provides. We're praying for wisdom for his doctors and for the medication to support the healing you're crying out for.

What we also know is this: knowing others are praying, week after weary week, can be as steadying as the prayers themselves. You've asked for many to lift him up, and we join you in that. Not one of those prayers is wasted, even when the answer tarries.

Lord Jesus, we lift this son to You, a believer who feels trapped by fear and can't see what You see in him. Calm his mind. Break the isolation. Draw friends and his sister near in ways that feel safe to him, and give him one small step this week, however ordinary, toward leaving that house. And for this weary parent, we ask for fresh strength and a tangible glimpse of hope. Sustain them until this season is over. In Your name we pray.
 
Twenty months is a long season of heaviness, yet it is not a moment longer than the wise and loving purpose of your Heavenly Father has appointed. Remember, the deliverance of Israel came only when the lamb was slain, and Pharaoh’s grip reached its ordained limit. The Lord knows the precise hour when the prison doors must swing wide. In your son’s case, the Lord has already done great things: the chains of addiction and the constant need for medication were broken. He has been brought out of a far Egypt, and that same mighty hand is still at work.

You plead for the medication to succeed and for his fears to be banished. God works through means, and He may use this medicine, but the deeper healing must come from the throne of grace. His present fear, this inability to step outside, these panicked thoughts that imprison him in the house, is a darkness that makes even a strong man tremble. Yet it is precisely in this darkness that the Lord often proves His deliverance. When a soul is shut up in its own terror, it learns that there is no place to look but upward. He is reading the Scriptures; that is the very voice of the Shepherd calling the trembling sheep. Though he brims with negative thoughts about himself, remember the promise: “I have found a ransom.” The Lord’s eye is upon him, and that look of Jesus, full of grief and love, has power to shatter the most jagged self-hatred. Peter’s restoration came in a moment under that glance, and it swept away his foolhardiness and fear alike.

You cry for the devil to flee and generational curses to be gone. This is right, but take deeper comfort: the curse has already been borne by Christ. The Father has delivered us from the power of darkness and translated us into the kingdom of His dear Son. That is an accomplished fact. The enemy may bark like a chained dog, but his teeth cannot reach the child of God. Your son’s safety is not in his own bravery but in the ransom already found. When a man cannot lift a hand to help himself, then sovereign grace shines all the brighter. He feels it as a bitter herb, but it is the very medicine to cure his self-reliance and teach him that deliverance is of the Lord alone.

You are weary, and that weariness speaks not of a lack of faith but of a prolonged fight. Yet consider the Psalmist’s view of his affliction: “The Lord has chastened me sorely.” The Father does not give what the law demands as punishment, but what He sees will cure the wrong-doing. This long confinement, this painful fear, is the severe mercy of a Father who has not erased your son’s name from His heart. He has not given him over to his enemy, but is teaching him to say, “I am in myself weaker, more distrustful, more conscious of sin, more hopeless of self-assistance than ever.” When he learns that, he will be dug out of the pit of self-trust and set upon the Rock that owes nothing to human strength.

Expect then that this week, this very season, can be one of miracles. But the miracle may not look as you have mapped it. The greater wonder is a heart subdued, a will softened, a child of God brought from the panic of self-preservation to the quiet liberty of casting all upon Christ. A man who fears the archers no more because he sits by the well’s brink and is refreshed, that is true freedom, whether he ever goes to the gym again or not. That liberty is his birthright. Lay hold of it for him in prayer, not as one commanding God, but as one pleading the blood of the covenant. The Lord loves the mercy-seat better than you do, and if you are driven there, you will find Him already present. Do not let the length of the trial provoke you to think He has forgotten. The joy of a mother finding her lost child is but a shadow of His joy in restoring His own. He will perfect that which concerns your son. Soon, very soon, you shall both declare the works of the Lord, and twenty months will seem but a brief prelude to an eternal Hallelujah.
 
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, so that I can trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

Heal Me Lord Jesus Spirit, Soul, And Body

 
Twenty months is a long season to watch one you love struggle within the walls of his own fear. You cry out for it to be over, and that cry is heard. But be careful not to command the Physician how quickly He must perform the surgery. You ask the medicine to work, and it is right to use the means God provides. But do not place your trust in a pill, as if the healing of the soul lay dissolved in powder. The true medicine is not in the pharmacy, but in the quiet, hidden work of grace that teaches a man to bear his own company with patience.

You say your son reads the Bible but is full of negative views. This is not contradiction but the field being plowed. The Word is a fire, and before it comforts, it often scorches the earth of a man’s pride, leaving ashes where self-reliance once stood. Do not be too quick to snatch him from the terror of the fourth watch. The Lord came to the disciples walking on the sea in the darkest hour, only after they had rowed long against the wind. He instructs us not to hastily seek deliverance from pressing dangers, but to bear all occurrences manfully. Your son’s inability to leave the house is a storm, yes, but the Master walks upon it. What feels like a prison to you may be the workshop where God finally bores out the rotten timbers of his old self.

I hear you command the Devil to flee and generational curses to break. This is well-meant, but take heed. The greater foe is not some ancestral ghost but the “care of this world” and the deceitfulness of self-loathing, which choke the word. Your son’s fear is the thorn Christ spoke of. You demand a week of miracles, that friends be convicted to call and a sister to encourage. God may do this, or He may not. What if, instead, God is building a strength in your son that requires the absence of every crutch, even the kind hands of friends? Timothy was told to be without fear, not because all threats were removed, but because he served a faithful Master. Your son, like Paul, is a chosen vessel. And what did the Lord show Paul immediately? Not a life of ease, but “how great things he must suffer for My Name’s sake.” The very burden you wish lifted may be the burden of his election.

You are weary, and this is understandable. I would not chide a parent’s love, but I would strengthen it with truth. If your son were a king’s child entrusted to you, you would cast away all worldly goods to care for him. How much more, then, now that you handle not an earthly prince but a child of God, born of the Spirit? Do not lose heart because the cure is slow. The child sleeps and is not dead. He is at rest and has not perished. Cease measuring his progress by the opening of a door. Measure it by the quiet fortitude of a soul that, even when terrified, does not curse God but continues to read, continues to believe in the dark. This is not cowardice; it is the struggle of a man learning to stand, taking heed lest he fall. Your task is not to command the wind to cease, but to stand with the Apostle and say, “I was with you in weakness, and in fear, and in much trembling,” and to know that there, in the trembling, is God’s power made perfect.
 

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