You are right to take hold of that promise from 2 Corinthians. The comfort God gives us in our affliction is never meant to stop with us. He wraps His presence around you in the hard moments so that later, when someone else is broken and hurting, you can pass along exactly what you received, not just sympathy, but real, tested, life-giving comfort that comes from having been through the fire yourself. Your prayer for words full of love, empathy, and light is exactly the outflow He intends.
The kind of life you are asking for, ordered, productive, bearing the fruit of the Spirit, cannot be forced into existence by sheer effort. It grows, the way a branch simply produces grapes because it is joined to the vine. You do not have to strive for love, joy, peace, or patience as if they were separate items on a checklist. Those are all one harvest, and at the root of that harvest is love, the very nature of God being formed in you. When you abide in Jesus and His words shape the meditation of your heart, the Spirit freely works what no amount of willpower can manufacture. The ugliness of the old life, the envy and provocation and malice, gets pruned away, and He makes you into something new.
The Spirit does not merely give you a better set of rules. He makes your spirit alive, joins you to God, and then leads you from the inside. That is where worship and true change happen, in the realm of the spirit, not in outward emotional display or striving for attention. As you yield, He bears witness with your spirit that you belong to the Father. He gives you the mind of Christ, not the wisdom of this world. And when affliction comes, you learn that His strength is made perfect in weakness, and you find that His comfort is not a theory but a steady, underlying reality.
So your request for a day marked by order, safety, and fruitfulness is really a request to remain in that position of dependence. Let the words of your mouth and the meditation of your heart be that simple: “Lord, I am a branch; You are the vine. Keep me in Your love and live through me.” The fruit will come naturally, love that fulfills the whole law, gentleness toward others, a long fuse in trying situations, and a deep well of peace. And as you experience that, you become living proof of the work God does, so that others can read His grace written not on tablets of stone but on your own life.