We hear your cry for help, and we stand with you in the authority of Jesus Christ, the only name by which we can approach the throne of grace. Your words carry deep frustration, pain, and a longing for restoration, and we want to address this with truth, love, and the power of Scripture.
First, we must rebuke the spirit of confusion, rejection, and control that has been speaking to you. The enemy seeks to steal, kill, and destroy (John 10:10), but Jesus came so that you may have life—and have it abundantly. You are not a victim of circumstance or the whims of others; you are a beloved child of God, created with purpose and dignity. The Bible tells us, "For you are all children of God, through faith in Christ Jesus" (Galatians 3:26). You are not a "Queen of the Universe" in the way the world might define it, but you are a daughter of the Most High God, and that is where your true identity lies.
We notice that your prayer does not explicitly acknowledge Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, and we must address this. There is no other name under heaven by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12). If you have not yet surrendered your life to Jesus, we urge you to do so now. Confess your sins, believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, and you will be saved (Romans 10:9). Salvation is not earned by decrees or demands but received by grace through faith in Jesus Christ. It is only through Him that we have access to the Father and the power to overcome the schemes of the enemy.
Your request for a "cute guy" to love you and stay with you must be examined in light of Scripture. While it is natural to desire companionship, we are called to seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Marriage is a sacred covenant between one man and one woman, designed by God to reflect His love and faithfulness (Genesis 2:24, Ephesians 5:22-33). If you are seeking a spouse, we encourage you to pray for a godly man who loves the Lord and will honor Him in your marriage. Do not focus on superficial qualities or demand a relationship on your terms. Trust God to bring the right person into your life in His perfect timing.
We must also address the language of control and domination in your prayer. You declare yourself as the "QUEEN of my energy" and speak of controlling your life, but Scripture teaches us that our lives are not our own. We are called to surrender to God’s will and trust in His sovereignty. "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight" (Proverbs 3:5-6). True freedom comes from submitting to God, not from asserting our own will.
The rejection and pain you feel are real, but we must not allow bitterness or resentment to take root in our hearts. The Bible warns us, "See to it that no one falls short of the grace of God and that no bitter root grows up to cause trouble and defile many" (Hebrews 12:15). Instead of demanding joy or favor, ask God to fill you with His peace and contentment. Joy is a fruit of the Spirit (Galatians 5:22-23), and it comes from abiding in Christ, not from external circumstances.
We also rebuke the spirit of witchcraft and manipulation in your words. Speaking decrees and demands as if you have the authority to command the universe is not biblical. Our authority comes from Jesus Christ alone, and we must use it in accordance with His Word. "Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you" (James 4:7). We do not bind Satan in our own strength but in the name of Jesus, who has already disarmed the powers and authorities (Colossians 2:15).
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, the only name by which we can be saved and find true freedom. We lift up this dear sister to You, asking for Your mercy, grace, and healing to flood her heart and mind. Lord, we rebuke the spirit of confusion, rejection, and control that has been speaking lies to her. We declare that she is Your beloved child, created with purpose and dignity, and that no weapon formed against her shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17).
Father, we ask that You break the chains of bitterness, resentment, and frustration in her life. Fill her with Your peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7) and replace her pain with the joy of Your presence. Help her to surrender her desires, her plans, and her life to You, trusting that Your ways are higher than her ways (Isaiah 55:8-9).
Lord, if she has not yet surrendered her life to Jesus, we pray that she would do so now. Open her heart to receive Your love and salvation, and fill her with the knowledge of Your will through all spiritual wisdom and understanding (Colossians 1:9). We ask that You would lead her to a godly spouse, if that is Your will for her life, and that she would seek You first above all else.
We bind the enemy and his schemes in the name of Jesus. We declare that Satan has no dominion over her life, her family, or her pets. We ask that You would surround her with Your angels to protect and guard her (Psalm 91:11). Strengthen her faith, Lord, and help her to walk in the authority You have given her as a child of God.
Father, we ask that You restore her joy and fill her with Your Holy Spirit. Help her to abide in You, so that she may bear the fruit of love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control (Galatians 5:22-23). Teach her to pray according to Your will and to trust in Your perfect timing.
We thank You, Lord, for Your faithfulness and for the victory we have in Jesus Christ. We declare that this sister is more than a conqueror through Him who loved her (Romans 8:37). May she walk in the freedom and purpose You have for her, bringing glory to Your name. In Jesus' mighty name, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to spend time in God’s Word, allowing it to renew your mind and transform your heart. Meditate on Scriptures that speak of God’s love, sovereignty, and promises for your life. Surround yourself with a community of believers who can pray with you and encourage you in your walk with Christ. Remember, the battle is not against flesh and blood but against the spiritual forces of evil (Ephesians 6:12). Put on the full armor of God, so that you can stand firm in His truth and resist the enemy’s lies.
Finally, we urge you to seek godly counsel if you are struggling with feelings of rejection, control, or bitterness. A pastor or trusted Christian mentor can help you navigate these emotions and point you back to the truth of God’s Word. You are not alone, and God has not forgotten you. He is faithful, and He will complete the good work He has begun in you (Philippians 1:6).
