We are deeply concerned by the tone and content of this request, which is filled with anger, bitterness, and a spirit of vengeance that is not aligned with the love, forgiveness, and humility taught in Scripture. The language used here is not only ungodly but also dangerous, as it seeks to curse and command rather than submit to the will of the Lord. The Bible warns us in James 4:7, "Be subject therefore to God. But resist the devil, and he will flee from you." We do not resist evil by raging against it with our own words but by standing firm in the authority of Christ and trusting in His power to overcome darkness.
First and foremost, we must address the absence of the name of Jesus in the original request. It is only through Jesus Christ that we have access to the Father, and there is no other name by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12). Without acknowledging Jesus as Lord and Savior, our prayers cannot be effective, for He is the mediator between God and man (1 Timothy 2:5). If you have not yet surrendered your life to Christ, we urge you to do so now. Confess your sins, repent, and invite Jesus into your heart as your Lord and Savior. Only then can you truly experience the peace, freedom, and victory that He offers.
The language of cursing and demanding in this request is contrary to the spirit of Christ. Jesus taught us to love our enemies and pray for those who persecute us (Matthew 5:44). The anger and hatred directed toward others—regardless of their ethnicity, appearance, or actions—are not pleasing to God. In fact, the Bible tells us in 1 John 4:20, "If a man says, 'I love God,' and hates his brother, he is a liar; for he who doesn’t love his brother whom he has seen, how can he love God whom he has not seen?" We must examine our hearts and ask the Lord to replace bitterness with love, hatred with forgiveness, and vengeance with trust in His justice.
The focus on "soul mates" and relationships in this request also raises concerns. While it is natural to desire companionship, we must remember that our ultimate fulfillment comes from Christ alone. The Bible teaches that marriage is a sacred covenant between one man and one woman, designed to reflect the relationship between Christ and the Church (Ephesians 5:22-33). Any pursuit of relationships outside of God’s design—whether through lust, bitterness, or unforgiveness—will only lead to further pain and bondage. We must seek the Lord’s will in our relationships and trust Him to bring the right person into our lives in His perfect timing.
The mention of demons and spiritual warfare is not to be taken lightly, but it must be approached with wisdom and discernment. The Bible tells us in Ephesians 6:12, "For our wrestling is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world’s rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places." However, we do not engage in spiritual warfare with our own words or strength. Instead, we put on the full armor of God (Ephesians 6:10-18) and stand firm in the authority of Jesus Christ. We do not curse or command demons in our own name but submit to God and resist the devil in the name of Jesus.
We must also address the racial and ethnic animosity in this request. The Bible is clear that God does not show favoritism (Romans 2:11) and that in Christ, there is neither Jew nor Greek, slave nor free, male nor female, for we are all one in Him (Galatians 3:28). To harbor hatred or prejudice against any group of people is a sin and a grievous offense to God. We must repent of any such attitudes and ask the Lord to fill our hearts with His love for all people, regardless of their background.
Lastly, the mention of adultery and infidelity is a serious matter. The Bible condemns adultery as a sin (Exodus 20:14, Matthew 5:28) and calls us to flee from sexual immorality (1 Corinthians 6:18). If there has been unfaithfulness in your life or the life of someone close to you, we must seek repentance, forgiveness, and healing through Christ. God is faithful to restore what has been broken if we turn to Him with humble and contrite hearts (Joel 2:25).
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, recognizing the pain, anger, and confusion in this request. We ask for Your mercy and grace to cover this individual, Lord. We repent on their behalf for the words spoken in anger and bitterness, for the hatred and unforgiveness that have taken root in their heart. Forgive them, Father, and cleanse them from all unrighteousness (1 John 1:9).
Lord Jesus, we acknowledge that without You, we can do nothing (John 15:5). We ask that You would draw this person to Yourself, that they would know You as their Lord and Savior. Break the chains of bitterness and hatred, and replace them with Your love and peace. Help them to forgive those who have wronged them, just as You have forgiven them (Colossians 3:13).
Father, we renounce any spirit of vengeance, racism, or prejudice in this situation. We declare that Your love is greater than any hatred, and Your justice is perfect. We ask that You would heal the wounds in their heart and restore their hope in You. Help them to trust in Your plan for their life, including their relationships, and to seek Your will above all else.
Lord, we stand against the enemy’s schemes and declare that no weapon formed against this individual shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17). We bind every spirit of division, bitterness, and unforgiveness in the name of Jesus and command them to flee. We ask that You would fill this person with Your Holy Spirit, giving them the fruit of love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control (Galatians 5:22-23).
Father, we pray for godly relationships in their life—friendships, mentors, and, if it is Your will, a spouse who loves You and seeks to honor You. Protect them from any relationships that would lead them astray and surround them with people who will encourage them in their walk with You.
We thank You, Lord, for Your faithfulness and Your promise to never leave us nor forsake us (Hebrews 13:5). We trust in Your goodness and Your perfect plan for their life. In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.
