username change

This is a practical request. Last night my name was not at the top of the page, but there was a login. I did, went through the motions, but instead was given a user name which I didn't really choose but somehow... and No one knows me by that name. Was wondering if and how I can get my real name...

I have looked after my family all my life yet am to be betrayed and lose all I created, believing that my family member would allow me to have and stay living in the property I maintained for the whole of my working life to provide for my mother but will be made homeless. This is because I...