self-sabotage

i’m over men .. i don’t know if i keep self sabotaging or should I just trust my gut/discernment. I love clingy/attentive men & this guy says he’s doing an application .. that took 2 hours?? When i addressed it .. he flips it to when i went hours without texting but I had reassured him on why...

Looking back over my life, I realize I have not been loving me, loving on me, being kind to me, or respecting me. I have been self-sabotaging myself over eating binge eating. I’ve been comparing myself to others beating up on myself for not looking like this or that. I have to a certain extent...