hardest way

Something very frustrating, and happening all the time. Every time I plan to do something, just before the time something or if I dodge that another thing, "pops up" as an obstacle to get in my way. I either have to do the planned thing in the hardest way, with obstacles, or get thwarted...

There's a lot of drudgery in my life, seems everything I have to struggle for, and wind up having to do it the hardest way possible. Tired of that.