happenstance

Dear Family Of God, Some decades ago I cried in an office. This was not worthy of a diagnosis that was given to me. What really transpired was, what was said that effected this happenstance. Please can you stand in faith and prayer over this. All these thing I ask in the mighty and never failing...

Ok, it seems most Christians are "taken" by the idea that you have to suffer to be a better Christian, and so when they go through negative situations, they're happy about it, and always attribute it to God doing it to refine them. However, I can think of some issues with this, especially if...