communication with doctor

I didn't want to think something was the matter with her plus she would go for stretches with no symptoms, but I just can't deny it after today: My best friend has something seriously wrong with her neurologically. Today was the worst I've ever seen her. Her speech was disjointed and rambling...

Lord, I go to the doctor's appointment. I want to provide for my old parents financial benefits for their physical and mental health. And some other questions around senior care. This doctor is not so much helpful and says that he doesn't have much time for me. Please let me ask her what I need...