When Jesus therefore saw her weeping, and the Jews who came with her also weeping, He was deeply moved in spirit and was troubled, and said, âWhere have you laid him?â They said to Him, âLord, come and see.â Jesus wept. So the Jews were saying, âSee how He loved him!â (John 11:33â36)The scene was understandably one of intense sorrow and pain. Not only was Mary weeping (a form of the verb klaio; âto wail,â or âto lament loudlyâ), but the Jews who came with her were also weeping and wailing loudly. According to Jewish custom, even the poorest family was expected to hire at least two flute players and a professional wailing woman. Since Mary, Martha, and Lazarus were a prominent family, they would likely have had even more professional mourners, in addition to the others who came to pay their respects (v. 19). . . .