Marriage

A lot of times, we get questions from people that are painful questions. This particular question is one we hear a lot: why do people cheat? I can’t answer that all the way because there are many reasons why people cheat. Of course, there are psychological reasons that come into that.

Most people are good. They’re not bad people, but unfortunately, good people do bad things. Now, if you pause...

 

Dear Lord,

Thank You for Your love. Thank You for loving us so much You made a way for us to be with You. Thank You for sending Your Son, Jesus Christ, and allowing Him to endure what He did so that we could be set free from sin. We worship You! We pray we would love like You love. We pray our love would be full of mercy and grace. We pray our love is unconditional. We pray we would love each other well and that our marriage would be a light in this world reflecting Your great love in...

 

Normally, I describe my brain as a monkey circus with the trainer on strike. I have many thoughts competing for attention, difficulty sorting them out, and too many ideas to put into practice in real life.

But, as anyone who’s been following this blog knows, I’ve recently had some health challenges. When one doctor asked what my worst symptom was, I answered that...

 

Dear Lord,

Thank You for all of the different tasks You have given us to accomplish. Thank You for the plans You have placed in our hearts and the ministry You have given us to fulfill. We pray that if there is anything in our lives that we are chasing after, spending resources on, or concerning ourselves with that is not of You, we pray You would open our eyes to see clearly. Please help us to prioritize the many tasks we are trying to complete. We pray we would work together and use our...

 

Dear Lord,

Thank You for today. We pray we would use our time today to build one another up. We pray we would be intentional to use our words and our actions to share affirmation with each other. Please inspire our hearts to express our encouragement for one another in creative ways. We pray we build each other up as individuals, but also affirm our love for each other. We pray this would make our marriage stronger. May You be glorified as we seek to honor each other, support each other...

 

Way back in 2021, One Flesh Marriage ran a series asking marriage bloggers their best advice about marriage. Specifically, the question was:

If there was only one thing from the story of your marriage that you could share, what would it be? What lesson learned, revelation, heart change or profound moment is a testament to God’s plan for marriage?

I...

 

Dear Lord,

Thank You for the dance that is marriage. Every day that we are given to spend together is a gift. We appreciate the friendship and camaraderie, the love and intimacy that is experienced in our relationship. Thank You for Your Word, which directs our hearts in our roles in marriage and how we can love each other well. We pray we never lose sight of marriage being a dance that we get the privilege of sharing with each other. Please help us to dance gracefully in a way that honors...

 

Dear Lord,

Thank You for the millions of moments You have gifted to us in our marriage. We have experienced great moments and more challenging ones. We have experienced joy, sadness, frustration, and peace. We have had some highs and some lows, and everything in-between. We know that it is all of the millions of moments we spend together that make up a picture of our marriage, a mosaic that is forming into a masterpiece. Please help us to remember this in good times and in more difficult...

 

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A question was sent to us that said, “I caught my spouse cheating. What do I do?”

First of all, I can’t imagine what you’re going through right now—the thoughts, emotions, all the things that are circling in your mind.

I am confident that they could be overwhelming to the point where you don’t know what to do. You can’t see straight, and it feels like your whole...

 

Dear Lord,

Thank You for the gift of friendship. Thank You for the friendship we get to experience in our marriage. We are grateful for each other. We love having each other as a companion to experience life with. We pray we would continue to cultivate our friendship by being transparent with each other. We pray we would tell each other the truth on all occasions. We pray we would not hold back sharing our hearts with one another. We pray our transparency would cultivate love and intimacy...