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kristie
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I have heard standers referring to their spouses as their 'ex'. HELLO! One of the key weapons of warfare is what you speak!
First of all...you said a bad word in standing. Your spouse is not your ex. They are your husband or wife. There is no ex to it. Remember that the things you speak out will be, and that is scriptural. God says that what comes out of your mouth, He will give to you. Everything you say or do has effect on the spiritual realm. All action has a reaction. If you call something as dead, then it will be dead, it you call it as alive, it will come alive. We speak things that are not as if they are and then so they shall become.
Sometimes it is the very smallest of things that hinder our blessing, things we do not recognize we are doing that causes the blockage to the miracle. I know that it seems like it should not be so complicated. I have plead that case with God often, trust me. The "I am Your child and I should just be covered by the blood no matter what because my heart is right". The fact is, Satan was given his reign here by God Himself. This is his season allowed him here on earth with mankind, and he will be sure to push everything that he can to block you.
We are told that he stands before God day and night and accuses us, and he does. So when you utter the word 'ex', Satan takes full advantage of your doing so. He immediately turns to God and says, "See there, your daughter just called her husband her 'ex-husband'. Ex means past tense, was but is not now...he has been ex'd and is behind her, so You have to honor what comes from her own mouth, Your word says so".
God is a man of His word, He cannot let anyone, especially Satan, show Him out as a liar, so what choice does He have in your situation when Satan points these things out and holds Him to His own word? Never give Satan anything that he can accuse you with and thereby hinder your blessing.
I think one of the hardest things I have getting through to all standers is the law of affirmation. What you think and say can manifest itself, and if it is negative you can be sure it will manifest itself because Satan does not let anything slip by him that he can use against you. He knows that his only avenue of victory in your life is in your mind and your mouth. If he can get you to ponder a negative he places into your mind, instead of instantly rebuking it, then he can make that negative become real.
If he can get you to speak a negative, then he can act on the negative you speak. That is why we take full control of our minds under Christ, taking on the sound mind of Christ, and we bind our lips from speaking anything but affirmations over ourselves and our situations. We call things that are not, as if they are. Then God can make them be. Same with Satan, what you say negatively, he can make be. God says he is your husband...and so he is. He is not your ex husband, so do not say the word 'ex', that may be what is blocking you.
You have probably heard me state that when a restoration is not coming, when you go on and on with nothing changing, it is not God or His word failing, it is the stander failing in something. This is just a prime example of what I am talking about... something as simple as a word spoken that the stander is not realizing they are doing.
You have to examine yourself thoroughly, what you are doing and find the blocker in yourself. You may be doing everything else perfectly, and that one little word is being used against you to block your restoration. Satan is a formidable opponent and you have to become the same, have to be keen and in full check of what you are doing or saying.
I agree that it should not be that complicated, but that is just how evil Satan really is, he also knows the word of God well and he uses it against the brethren. His time is short lived and he is desperate to use anything and everything he can to gain what he can in his short lived time.
That is why we rebuke and bind word curses by others daily, and we keep our circles small and tight. Standers need to keep their situations between only those of like mind with them, other standers.
Do not go out and discuss your spouse, marriage, stand, with others that cannot relate. They may say things in your presence that curse, and worse, they may say many things behind your back that are cursing your blessing. That is why God created restoration ministries.
Standing would be a hard thing to suffer through all alone, never having anyone to talk to. So God created circles where standers can talk to people who are in their same situation and that can relate and bless, not curse. Keep it tight, another key of warfare.
I was astounded to find standers calling their husbands their 'ex'. Where did they miss this key weapon of warfare, how? I think that many come here and just post for prayers and support, and they never really read the teachings and learn how to fight this battle, and that is not good. A hundred peoples prayer and support does not do much good if the stander themself is cursing their own restoration like that.
I know that I probably upset standers sometimes when I state that if no change has come, then they need to look at themselves, that the reason lies there and not with God or His word failing for them. It offends people, but this is what I am talking about right here.
I cannot know what any stander is doing or saying outside of what they post here or say to me directly. I cannot know if they are sharing with others out there that are cursing their restorations with words, I can't know if they are saying something like 'ex' until they happen to say it to me.
If I had all the details of what they are doing and saying at all times, I could probably quickly point out to any stander why nothing is happening for them. All I can do is tell them to evaluate yourself, it lies with you. I am sorry that it offends, but it is so important.
Kristie
First of all...you said a bad word in standing. Your spouse is not your ex. They are your husband or wife. There is no ex to it. Remember that the things you speak out will be, and that is scriptural. God says that what comes out of your mouth, He will give to you. Everything you say or do has effect on the spiritual realm. All action has a reaction. If you call something as dead, then it will be dead, it you call it as alive, it will come alive. We speak things that are not as if they are and then so they shall become.
Sometimes it is the very smallest of things that hinder our blessing, things we do not recognize we are doing that causes the blockage to the miracle. I know that it seems like it should not be so complicated. I have plead that case with God often, trust me. The "I am Your child and I should just be covered by the blood no matter what because my heart is right". The fact is, Satan was given his reign here by God Himself. This is his season allowed him here on earth with mankind, and he will be sure to push everything that he can to block you.
We are told that he stands before God day and night and accuses us, and he does. So when you utter the word 'ex', Satan takes full advantage of your doing so. He immediately turns to God and says, "See there, your daughter just called her husband her 'ex-husband'. Ex means past tense, was but is not now...he has been ex'd and is behind her, so You have to honor what comes from her own mouth, Your word says so".
God is a man of His word, He cannot let anyone, especially Satan, show Him out as a liar, so what choice does He have in your situation when Satan points these things out and holds Him to His own word? Never give Satan anything that he can accuse you with and thereby hinder your blessing.
I think one of the hardest things I have getting through to all standers is the law of affirmation. What you think and say can manifest itself, and if it is negative you can be sure it will manifest itself because Satan does not let anything slip by him that he can use against you. He knows that his only avenue of victory in your life is in your mind and your mouth. If he can get you to ponder a negative he places into your mind, instead of instantly rebuking it, then he can make that negative become real.
If he can get you to speak a negative, then he can act on the negative you speak. That is why we take full control of our minds under Christ, taking on the sound mind of Christ, and we bind our lips from speaking anything but affirmations over ourselves and our situations. We call things that are not, as if they are. Then God can make them be. Same with Satan, what you say negatively, he can make be. God says he is your husband...and so he is. He is not your ex husband, so do not say the word 'ex', that may be what is blocking you.
You have probably heard me state that when a restoration is not coming, when you go on and on with nothing changing, it is not God or His word failing, it is the stander failing in something. This is just a prime example of what I am talking about... something as simple as a word spoken that the stander is not realizing they are doing.
You have to examine yourself thoroughly, what you are doing and find the blocker in yourself. You may be doing everything else perfectly, and that one little word is being used against you to block your restoration. Satan is a formidable opponent and you have to become the same, have to be keen and in full check of what you are doing or saying.
I agree that it should not be that complicated, but that is just how evil Satan really is, he also knows the word of God well and he uses it against the brethren. His time is short lived and he is desperate to use anything and everything he can to gain what he can in his short lived time.
And that brings up another side of this issue. Word curses by others. They are real. Anything out of anyone’s mouth concerning your situation can manifest itself.
That is why we rebuke and bind word curses by others daily, and we keep our circles small and tight. Standers need to keep their situations between only those of like mind with them, other standers.
Do not go out and discuss your spouse, marriage, stand, with others that cannot relate. They may say things in your presence that curse, and worse, they may say many things behind your back that are cursing your blessing. That is why God created restoration ministries.
Standing would be a hard thing to suffer through all alone, never having anyone to talk to. So God created circles where standers can talk to people who are in their same situation and that can relate and bless, not curse. Keep it tight, another key of warfare.
I was astounded to find standers calling their husbands their 'ex'. Where did they miss this key weapon of warfare, how? I think that many come here and just post for prayers and support, and they never really read the teachings and learn how to fight this battle, and that is not good. A hundred peoples prayer and support does not do much good if the stander themself is cursing their own restoration like that.
I know that I probably upset standers sometimes when I state that if no change has come, then they need to look at themselves, that the reason lies there and not with God or His word failing for them. It offends people, but this is what I am talking about right here.
I cannot know what any stander is doing or saying outside of what they post here or say to me directly. I cannot know if they are sharing with others out there that are cursing their restorations with words, I can't know if they are saying something like 'ex' until they happen to say it to me.
If I had all the details of what they are doing and saying at all times, I could probably quickly point out to any stander why nothing is happening for them. All I can do is tell them to evaluate yourself, it lies with you. I am sorry that it offends, but it is so important.
Kristie
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