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kristie
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Your marriage is not over, because God says that what He has joined together, let no one separate. You are feeling the way you do because Satan and his demons are oppressing you and telling you lies. The first thing you need to do is open completely up to God, open your arms and cry out to Him with a open heart, "Here I am Father, all of me, take me and make me totally yours body and spirit and soul, change me, rearrange me, make me whole in You, I submit myself totally to You Father, have Your way and will with me."
This is not totally your fault, and it is not totally your spouse's, and most of it is just the attack of Satan on your family, it is his job. He goes to and fro through the earth looking for those he can destroy. God allows Satan to sift us like wheat, and He allows that because He wants to heal and restore.
When we ourselves get off track in our marriages, in our own persons and things that affect our marriage and families, we open a door and let the enemy in. Now God has to close that door and shut him back out. God does this by allowing Satan to sift us, which is what he may be doing right now to you and your spouse, and God then refines us and restores. He must refine us first so that door remains closed to the enemy.
Gods word tells us that He takes what Satan intends for harm and He uses it for the good, turns it to the good. This attack on your marriage was already defeated before it began, in the spiritual realm, Jesus defeated it on the cross for you. Gods word about it is His promise to You about your marriage, "What God has joined together, let no one separate." "God intended marriage for a lifetime, one man for one woman, for life." "I hate divorce saith the Lord."
The keys to this battle you are in, the weapons of warfare to drive the enemy back out of your marriage, are right there in black and white, the word of God. Just as Jesus did on the mount when Satan came at him, you must do, you must speak the word of God back to the enemy, speak the word of God to your situation. Nothing can come against the word of God, and that is why Jesus used it and it only to win against Satan. It is pure truth, yesterday, today and tomorrow, and God states that His word will not return to Him void, but will go forth and perform that for which He spoke it. So you speak it and it will go up into the spiritual realm to Gods throne and He will take it and send it back down to manifest in the physical in your marriage. Speak scripture over your marriage, over your spouse, and it will never fail you, cannot fail you.
Your marriage is not over, and your spouse loves you, God says so. It does not matter what your spouse says, because she is just captive right now to the enemy. You are not dealing with your spouse here, you are not fighting against them, you are fighting against the supernatural, the powers and principalities of the dark world. The spouse does not really mean what the spouse is saying, they are speaking for your spouse, they are putting these ideas in your spouse's head, and they are liars, God says so.
You have to get your eyes and ears and emotions off of anything your spouse says, because it is just lies of the enemy. You have to get your eyes, ears and mind and emotions of what God says, because He is bigger then anyone. He that is in you is greater then he that is in the world. You believe what He says, not what those demons have your spouse saying, who does not even believe them in his/her heart, but they have control of your spouse's mouth and mind right now.
This is not a earthly battle, this is a spiritual battle, and the time has come that God is moving you into a more spiritual relationship with Him, and that is why He has allowed this in your life. You and your spouse opened the door mind you, but God is right there and going to use your mistakes to make things truly right and good.
God already has declared the victory, but you have to go through the fire of refining now and fight with Him so that you can grow to the level He needs you to keep your family safe from this attack ever again. So know that this is just a testing, but the good news is, it is a open book test and you cannot fail. God lets us take it over and over again until we pass, and meantime He keeps His covering over you and your marriage.
I would recommend that you review the teachings on the board here and begin reading. This is where the spiritual weapons to fight this battle are at. Scripture is the most important. Faith is important, but sometimes the hardest thing to get a firm hold of, but God will help you with that as well, pray for faith as well, He will give it to you. Ask questions and we will answer and walk you through this. We are praying with you and for you, and are here for you all the time. You are not going to loose this battle, you have victory and your spouse is coming back to you and your marriage is going to be made brand new in Christ. We love you, all is well with your soul, trust me, it is.
God bless you...
Kristie
This is not totally your fault, and it is not totally your spouse's, and most of it is just the attack of Satan on your family, it is his job. He goes to and fro through the earth looking for those he can destroy. God allows Satan to sift us like wheat, and He allows that because He wants to heal and restore.
When we ourselves get off track in our marriages, in our own persons and things that affect our marriage and families, we open a door and let the enemy in. Now God has to close that door and shut him back out. God does this by allowing Satan to sift us, which is what he may be doing right now to you and your spouse, and God then refines us and restores. He must refine us first so that door remains closed to the enemy.
Gods word tells us that He takes what Satan intends for harm and He uses it for the good, turns it to the good. This attack on your marriage was already defeated before it began, in the spiritual realm, Jesus defeated it on the cross for you. Gods word about it is His promise to You about your marriage, "What God has joined together, let no one separate." "God intended marriage for a lifetime, one man for one woman, for life." "I hate divorce saith the Lord."
The keys to this battle you are in, the weapons of warfare to drive the enemy back out of your marriage, are right there in black and white, the word of God. Just as Jesus did on the mount when Satan came at him, you must do, you must speak the word of God back to the enemy, speak the word of God to your situation. Nothing can come against the word of God, and that is why Jesus used it and it only to win against Satan. It is pure truth, yesterday, today and tomorrow, and God states that His word will not return to Him void, but will go forth and perform that for which He spoke it. So you speak it and it will go up into the spiritual realm to Gods throne and He will take it and send it back down to manifest in the physical in your marriage. Speak scripture over your marriage, over your spouse, and it will never fail you, cannot fail you.
Your marriage is not over, and your spouse loves you, God says so. It does not matter what your spouse says, because she is just captive right now to the enemy. You are not dealing with your spouse here, you are not fighting against them, you are fighting against the supernatural, the powers and principalities of the dark world. The spouse does not really mean what the spouse is saying, they are speaking for your spouse, they are putting these ideas in your spouse's head, and they are liars, God says so.
You have to get your eyes and ears and emotions off of anything your spouse says, because it is just lies of the enemy. You have to get your eyes, ears and mind and emotions of what God says, because He is bigger then anyone. He that is in you is greater then he that is in the world. You believe what He says, not what those demons have your spouse saying, who does not even believe them in his/her heart, but they have control of your spouse's mouth and mind right now.
This is not a earthly battle, this is a spiritual battle, and the time has come that God is moving you into a more spiritual relationship with Him, and that is why He has allowed this in your life. You and your spouse opened the door mind you, but God is right there and going to use your mistakes to make things truly right and good.
God already has declared the victory, but you have to go through the fire of refining now and fight with Him so that you can grow to the level He needs you to keep your family safe from this attack ever again. So know that this is just a testing, but the good news is, it is a open book test and you cannot fail. God lets us take it over and over again until we pass, and meantime He keeps His covering over you and your marriage.
I would recommend that you review the teachings on the board here and begin reading. This is where the spiritual weapons to fight this battle are at. Scripture is the most important. Faith is important, but sometimes the hardest thing to get a firm hold of, but God will help you with that as well, pray for faith as well, He will give it to you. Ask questions and we will answer and walk you through this. We are praying with you and for you, and are here for you all the time. You are not going to loose this battle, you have victory and your spouse is coming back to you and your marriage is going to be made brand new in Christ. We love you, all is well with your soul, trust me, it is.
God bless you...
Kristie
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