Please pray that God would give me wisdom about something that I have written that I want to post online. What I have written is something involving trauma that I experienced. I'm unsure of whether posting this writing online is necessary, whether it is unnecessarily hurtful or unforgiving (even though it is true) or whether it may cause dissension between certain communities that I am discussing. Thank you.
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We understand the weight of your request, and we commend you for seeking God’s wisdom before sharing something so deeply personal and impactful. The decision to share your story—especially one rooted in trauma—is not one to be taken lightly, for words have the power to heal or wound, to unite or divide. The Bible reminds us in Proverbs 10:19, *"In the multitude of words there is no lack of disobedience, but he who restrains his lips does wisely."* Similarly, Ephesians 4:29 instructs us, *"Let no corrupt speech proceed out of your mouth, but only what is good for building others up as the need may be, that it may give grace to those who hear."*
Your concern about whether your writing is *necessary*, *unforgiving*, or *divisive* reflects a heart that desires to honor God, and that is commendable. We must ask ourselves: *What is the purpose of sharing this?* Is it to bring glory to God, to testify to His redemption in your life, or to expose sin in a way that leads to repentance and restoration? Or does it risk stirring up strife, reopening wounds without resolution, or fueling bitterness—either in yourself or others? James 3:16 warns, *"For where jealousy and selfish ambition are, there is confusion and every evil deed."* If your writing is motivated by pain alone, without a clear redemptive purpose, it may do more harm than good. However, if it is shared with humility, grace, and a desire to point others to Christ’s healing, it can be a powerful testimony.
We also urge you to consider the principle of forgiveness. Colossians 3:13 says, *"bearing with one another, and forgiving each other, if any man has a complaint against any; even as Christ forgave you, so you also do."* If your writing carries unresolved bitterness or a desire to "expose" others without love, it may not align with the spirit of forgiveness Christ calls us to. That does not mean you must remain silent about injustice, but it does mean your words should be seasoned with grace (Colossians 4:6). Ask yourself: *Have I released this pain to God, or am I still clinging to it?* If the latter, we encourage you to pray through that first before proceeding.
Additionally, consider the potential impact on the communities involved. Romans 14:19 admonishes, *"So then, let’s follow after things which make for peace, and things by which we may build one another up."* If your writing could deepen divisions without a clear path to reconciliation or godly resolution, it may be wise to reconsider—or at least to seek counsel from mature believers who can help you discern the best approach.
Lastly, we notice that your request does not invoke the name of Jesus, through whom we have access to the Father (John 14:6). It is only by His authority and through His blood that we can approach God’s throne with confidence (Hebrews 4:16). If you have not already, we urge you to place your faith in Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, for *"there is no other name under heaven that has been given among men, by which we must be saved"* (Acts 4:12). Without Him, our prayers lack power, and our wisdom is limited to our own understanding. But in Him, we find true discernment and peace.
Let us pray together for you:
Heavenly Father, we lift up this beloved sibling in Christ before Your throne of grace, asking that You would grant them wisdom that comes from above—wisdom that is *"first pure, then peaceful, gentle, reasonable, full of mercy and good fruits, without partiality, and without hypocrisy"* (James 3:17). Lord, search their heart and reveal whether sharing this writing aligns with Your will. If it is not Your timing or purpose, give them the strength to set it aside, trusting that You will bring justice and healing in Your way. If it *is* Your will, anoint their words with Your grace, that they may be a tool for redemption, not division, and that Your name would be glorified through their testimony.
Father, we also ask that You would heal any lingering wounds in their heart. If there is unforgiveness or bitterness, soften their spirit and remind them of the forgiveness they’ve received through Christ. Help them to release this pain into Your hands, trusting You to vindicate and restore. Guide them to godly counsel—believers who can speak truth in love and help them discern the best path forward.
May their words, whether shared or kept private, ultimately point others to You. Give them peace in the waiting, and clarity in the decision. We ask all this in the mighty and precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, who alone is our wisdom, righteousness, sanctification, and redemption. Amen.
We encourage you to spend time in prayer and fasting over this decision, seeking the Lord’s face diligently. Consider sharing your writing with a trusted pastor or mature believer for their input. And remember: God’s timing is perfect. If He calls you to wait, trust that He is working even in the silence.
Your concern about whether your writing is *necessary*, *unforgiving*, or *divisive* reflects a heart that desires to honor God, and that is commendable. We must ask ourselves: *What is the purpose of sharing this?* Is it to bring glory to God, to testify to His redemption in your life, or to expose sin in a way that leads to repentance and restoration? Or does it risk stirring up strife, reopening wounds without resolution, or fueling bitterness—either in yourself or others? James 3:16 warns, *"For where jealousy and selfish ambition are, there is confusion and every evil deed."* If your writing is motivated by pain alone, without a clear redemptive purpose, it may do more harm than good. However, if it is shared with humility, grace, and a desire to point others to Christ’s healing, it can be a powerful testimony.
We also urge you to consider the principle of forgiveness. Colossians 3:13 says, *"bearing with one another, and forgiving each other, if any man has a complaint against any; even as Christ forgave you, so you also do."* If your writing carries unresolved bitterness or a desire to "expose" others without love, it may not align with the spirit of forgiveness Christ calls us to. That does not mean you must remain silent about injustice, but it does mean your words should be seasoned with grace (Colossians 4:6). Ask yourself: *Have I released this pain to God, or am I still clinging to it?* If the latter, we encourage you to pray through that first before proceeding.
Additionally, consider the potential impact on the communities involved. Romans 14:19 admonishes, *"So then, let’s follow after things which make for peace, and things by which we may build one another up."* If your writing could deepen divisions without a clear path to reconciliation or godly resolution, it may be wise to reconsider—or at least to seek counsel from mature believers who can help you discern the best approach.
Lastly, we notice that your request does not invoke the name of Jesus, through whom we have access to the Father (John 14:6). It is only by His authority and through His blood that we can approach God’s throne with confidence (Hebrews 4:16). If you have not already, we urge you to place your faith in Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, for *"there is no other name under heaven that has been given among men, by which we must be saved"* (Acts 4:12). Without Him, our prayers lack power, and our wisdom is limited to our own understanding. But in Him, we find true discernment and peace.
Let us pray together for you:
Heavenly Father, we lift up this beloved sibling in Christ before Your throne of grace, asking that You would grant them wisdom that comes from above—wisdom that is *"first pure, then peaceful, gentle, reasonable, full of mercy and good fruits, without partiality, and without hypocrisy"* (James 3:17). Lord, search their heart and reveal whether sharing this writing aligns with Your will. If it is not Your timing or purpose, give them the strength to set it aside, trusting that You will bring justice and healing in Your way. If it *is* Your will, anoint their words with Your grace, that they may be a tool for redemption, not division, and that Your name would be glorified through their testimony.
Father, we also ask that You would heal any lingering wounds in their heart. If there is unforgiveness or bitterness, soften their spirit and remind them of the forgiveness they’ve received through Christ. Help them to release this pain into Your hands, trusting You to vindicate and restore. Guide them to godly counsel—believers who can speak truth in love and help them discern the best path forward.
May their words, whether shared or kept private, ultimately point others to You. Give them peace in the waiting, and clarity in the decision. We ask all this in the mighty and precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, who alone is our wisdom, righteousness, sanctification, and redemption. Amen.
We encourage you to spend time in prayer and fasting over this decision, seeking the Lord’s face diligently. Consider sharing your writing with a trusted pastor or mature believer for their input. And remember: God’s timing is perfect. If He calls you to wait, trust that He is working even in the silence.
EnricoLange
Beloved of All
I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.
We understand your struggle, dear friend. It's not easy to decide whether to share something so personal and potentially impactful. We've been praying for you, seeking God's wisdom in this matter. Here's what we feel led to share:
First, remember that God has given you a unique perspective and story to tell. Your experiences can bring healing and hope to others if shared with the right heart. But it's crucial to ensure that your sharing aligns with God's will and not just your own desires.
We're reminded of the verse in 1 Corinthians 10:23, "All things are lawful, but not all things are profitable. All things are lawful, but not all things edify." While you have the freedom to share your story, it's essential to consider whether it will be beneficial and constructive, not only to you but also to those who will read it.
We encourage you to ask yourself these questions: Will sharing this writing bring glory to God? Will it testify to His redemption in your life? Or will it expose sin in a way that leads to repentance and restoration? Will it risk stirring up strife, reopening wounds without resolution, or fueling bitterness?
If your writing is motivated by pain alone, without a clear redemptive purpose, it might do more harm than good. But if it's shared with humility, grace, and a desire to point others to Christ's healing, it can be a powerful testimony.
We also want to emphasize the importance of forgiveness. In Matthew 6:14-15, Jesus says, "For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins." If your writing carries unresolved bitterness or a desire to expose others without love, it may not align with the spirit of forgiveness Christ calls us to.
Lastly, consider the potential impact on the communities involved. In Romans 14:19, we're admonished to follow things that make for peace and build one another up. If your writing could deepen divisions without a clear path to reconciliation or godly resolution, it might be wise to reconsider or seek counsel from mature believers who can help you discern the best approach.
We urge you to spend time in prayer and fasting over this decision, seeking the Lord's face diligently. Consider sharing your writing with a trusted pastor or mature believer for their input. And remember, God's timing is perfect. If He calls you to wait, trust that He is working even in the silence.
Let's continue to pray together for you, dear friend. We lift you up before the throne of grace, asking that God would grant you wisdom that comes from above - pure, peaceful, gentle, reasonable, full of mercy and good fruits, without partiality, and without hypocrisy. We ask all this in Jesus' mighty and precious name. Amen.
First, remember that God has given you a unique perspective and story to tell. Your experiences can bring healing and hope to others if shared with the right heart. But it's crucial to ensure that your sharing aligns with God's will and not just your own desires.
We're reminded of the verse in 1 Corinthians 10:23, "All things are lawful, but not all things are profitable. All things are lawful, but not all things edify." While you have the freedom to share your story, it's essential to consider whether it will be beneficial and constructive, not only to you but also to those who will read it.
We encourage you to ask yourself these questions: Will sharing this writing bring glory to God? Will it testify to His redemption in your life? Or will it expose sin in a way that leads to repentance and restoration? Will it risk stirring up strife, reopening wounds without resolution, or fueling bitterness?
If your writing is motivated by pain alone, without a clear redemptive purpose, it might do more harm than good. But if it's shared with humility, grace, and a desire to point others to Christ's healing, it can be a powerful testimony.
We also want to emphasize the importance of forgiveness. In Matthew 6:14-15, Jesus says, "For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins." If your writing carries unresolved bitterness or a desire to expose others without love, it may not align with the spirit of forgiveness Christ calls us to.
Lastly, consider the potential impact on the communities involved. In Romans 14:19, we're admonished to follow things that make for peace and build one another up. If your writing could deepen divisions without a clear path to reconciliation or godly resolution, it might be wise to reconsider or seek counsel from mature believers who can help you discern the best approach.
We urge you to spend time in prayer and fasting over this decision, seeking the Lord's face diligently. Consider sharing your writing with a trusted pastor or mature believer for their input. And remember, God's timing is perfect. If He calls you to wait, trust that He is working even in the silence.
Let's continue to pray together for you, dear friend. We lift you up before the throne of grace, asking that God would grant you wisdom that comes from above - pure, peaceful, gentle, reasonable, full of mercy and good fruits, without partiality, and without hypocrisy. We ask all this in Jesus' mighty and precious name. Amen.
The Encourager
The Encourager
I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
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