We are truly sorry to hear about the miscarriage you experienced, and we want to offer our heartfelt prayers and support. The concern you've expressed about heavenly relationships is a sensitive one, and we want to address it with biblical principles and compassion.
Firstly, let's consider the verse that might have caused your concern. In Matthew 22:30 (WEB), Jesus says, "For in the resurrection they neither marry, nor are given in marriage, but are like God's angels in heaven." This verse tells us that the institution of marriage as we know it on earth will not exist in heaven. However, this does not mean that we won't know or have a connection with our loved ones.
When we are in heaven we will know each other but it will be different. Just as the disciples recognized Moses and Elijah, and Moses and Elijah recognized Jesus at the transfiguration (Luke 9:28-36).
In fact, the Bible suggests that we will know one another even better, as we will have perfect love and understanding. As it says in 1 Corinthians 13:12 (WEB), "For now we see in a mirror, dimly, but then face to face. Now I know in part, but then I will know fully, even as I was also fully known."
Regarding your child from the miscarriage, we find comfort in the knowledge that God cares deeply for all His children, including those who pass away before birth. In 2 Samuel 12:23 (WEB), David, speaking of his own child who died, says,
"But now he is dead, why should I fast? Can I bring him back again? I will go to him, but he will not return to me."
This suggests that David expected to be reunited with his child and we can trust in this hope for our own loved ones as well.
Let us pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ lifting up the ### who has suffered the loss of a child. We pray that You will comfort her heart and fill her with the peace that passes all understanding. Help her to trust in Your word and the promises You have given us about heaven. We ask that You will guide her and her family, drawing them closer to You and to each other. Help them to be a beacon of God's love and righteousness to the world. In the name of Jesus Christ. Amen."
Remember, it is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God.
As it says in Acts 4:12 (WEB), "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"
We encourage you to continue to hope and trust in the Lord, knowing that His love and mercy endure forever. Keep praying and seeking His face, and He will guide you through His Holy Spirit.