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We press upon standers so hard that once the spouse comes home, you need to continue to press warfare, even accelerate warfare. Trust me, Satan was not a happy camper that he lost and your spouse came home, and when that happens, he comes in that much harder!
You have to be on your toes and keeping to the battle plan. It gets harder, because with the return of the spouse, life can get chaotic. You do not have the time that you had to warfare when he was gone. You are put in the position of housewife again and Satan will do everything he can to eat away at your time to keep you from praying and doing warfare. The road can get very rough and wearing when they come home, but you cannot stop....you make warfare the top priority.
I know the feeling of being the brunt of their jokes also, being played the fool. I had to stand there several times with just a few feet between me and the adulteress and listen to her yell at me that I was so pathetic, everyone was laughing at me, calling me a big joke, pathetic, because I keep fighting for a husband who wants other women. It took everything and God to keep me from pouncing on her, and one time I failed..I pounced on her and got charges pressed on me.
So I know how you feel, but you have to kick up the battle, just as he has kicked up the battle. You do not stop for one minute declaring her as bitter as wormwood to him, and you as precious as a rare ruby, a treasure. You speak the Proverbs over her and him daily, and you speak the Song of Songs over the two of you daily. While your driving, going to the bathroom, any place you find yourself alone, you spend it declaring Gods word over your marriage, over this adulteress, over your spouse.
It is not over when they come home, by far it is not over, you have just ticked the old buzzard off even more because you defeated him that round. You do not back up a bit, but push forward and take him out completely!
Meanwhile, you turn on the heat with your spouse. You become all and more of what the other person is. You have to fight fire with fire. First understand that your spouse is blinded by Satan and this tool of an adulteress that he is using to lure your spouse. Your spouse is not in control, he is bound in chains and played like a puppet on a string by the dark forces. This adulteress is a beguilement of Satan, and that is why the word says that she is death. She is, she is totally manipulated by Satan, a weapon he is using. He is not a dummy, he hand chooses these women and men that he uses, they are already of immoral character, and he then helps them to be everything that your spouse will be enticed by.
So...you become everything your husband is enticed by as well. You become an enticement yourself, with Gods help. Whatever she does to make him feel like a king, and she is, you do as well equally or better. You will win because you have a great advantage, not only are you enticing him and making him feel like a king, just as she is, you are his comfort zone, his familiarity, his soul tie by God. He has a true love embedded in his heart for you placed there by God. When you move up to her level in enticing him, you move beyond her because you have all the added things as well. She begins to fade in his mind and heart. He does not love her, it is a counterfeit love, she is a counterfeit person in his life. You are not, and all you have to do besides praying and trusting in God, is overcome her because you have the ability to be all that she is being to lure him out, and a great deal more...so it is fighting fire with fire.
Love conquers all evil, Satan, this adulteress, all evil. Self sacrificing love, unconditional love, uncondemning love, these are the weapons that defeat Satan and the other woman or man. Satan cannot fight against love, he does not even know love. If you fight fire with fire, you not only entice your spouse like Satan is enticing them with this other person, you go way beyond them because you are the genuine artifact and they are a counterfeit, not real. It is like holding out a precious rare ruby in one hand and a dime store glass rock in the other...they will end up going for the real jewel in the end of things.
My husband even stated this in the midst of his confusion and blindness, before the scales fell from his eyes, and he saw the adulteress in reality. He was on the phone with his sister, seeking advice in his confusion, and he said, "What is wrong with me? I have this great wife, more beautiful then the other woman, as giving as her, but even more, she is Godly, prays for me, she is so much more then this other woman, what is there to choose from? Why am I having such a hard time with this? What is wrong with me?!!!"
They really are confused...Satan has ahold of their minds and it is a battle in their mind as well. They know something is wrong with them, they just do well at hiding it, especially men, the pride thing kicks in.
Then one day, out of the blue, nothing happening between them to bring it on, it was like the scales just fell from his eyes, and he could see clearly, and he was shocked at himself, crying hysterically and shaking his head..how, why. It was funny that the entire time we were in this situation, the other woman was extreme about telling me that they had the most awesome sex life, that if he left her he would miss the sex and he would never stay away, that my husband was not attracted to me sexually, and she was just all that.
The day his eyes opened suddenly, in tears he was just going on and on...like he was actually talking to himself more then to me, like he was realizing things and they were just flowing out of him. He said, "She was the worst lover I have ever had, her body is hideous, she needs to keep her clothes on..she even has a offensive odor she is so slutty, I would never trade my wife off for someone disgusting like her." It is kind of like the wicked witch disguised as the beautiful princess. When they are captive to Satan and blinded, he sees her as this wonderful beautiful person, but then the chains break off, the scales fall off their eyes and they can really see for the first time, and her disguise is off as well..she is seen for what she really is..and it is very ugly..just like the real witch is in the fairy tales...warts and all.
So come out fighting totally, In spiritual warfare and in the physical. Do things that you would never do before. Step out of your comfort zone. Lingerie, whatever...swoop him off his feet, whatever it takes...because she is doing it, you can trust in that and doing it well. But you can do it better because you are not in disguise, you are the real jewel. God will do the rest.
You have to be on your toes and keeping to the battle plan. It gets harder, because with the return of the spouse, life can get chaotic. You do not have the time that you had to warfare when he was gone. You are put in the position of housewife again and Satan will do everything he can to eat away at your time to keep you from praying and doing warfare. The road can get very rough and wearing when they come home, but you cannot stop....you make warfare the top priority.
I know the feeling of being the brunt of their jokes also, being played the fool. I had to stand there several times with just a few feet between me and the adulteress and listen to her yell at me that I was so pathetic, everyone was laughing at me, calling me a big joke, pathetic, because I keep fighting for a husband who wants other women. It took everything and God to keep me from pouncing on her, and one time I failed..I pounced on her and got charges pressed on me.
So I know how you feel, but you have to kick up the battle, just as he has kicked up the battle. You do not stop for one minute declaring her as bitter as wormwood to him, and you as precious as a rare ruby, a treasure. You speak the Proverbs over her and him daily, and you speak the Song of Songs over the two of you daily. While your driving, going to the bathroom, any place you find yourself alone, you spend it declaring Gods word over your marriage, over this adulteress, over your spouse.
It is not over when they come home, by far it is not over, you have just ticked the old buzzard off even more because you defeated him that round. You do not back up a bit, but push forward and take him out completely!
Meanwhile, you turn on the heat with your spouse. You become all and more of what the other person is. You have to fight fire with fire. First understand that your spouse is blinded by Satan and this tool of an adulteress that he is using to lure your spouse. Your spouse is not in control, he is bound in chains and played like a puppet on a string by the dark forces. This adulteress is a beguilement of Satan, and that is why the word says that she is death. She is, she is totally manipulated by Satan, a weapon he is using. He is not a dummy, he hand chooses these women and men that he uses, they are already of immoral character, and he then helps them to be everything that your spouse will be enticed by.
So...you become everything your husband is enticed by as well. You become an enticement yourself, with Gods help. Whatever she does to make him feel like a king, and she is, you do as well equally or better. You will win because you have a great advantage, not only are you enticing him and making him feel like a king, just as she is, you are his comfort zone, his familiarity, his soul tie by God. He has a true love embedded in his heart for you placed there by God. When you move up to her level in enticing him, you move beyond her because you have all the added things as well. She begins to fade in his mind and heart. He does not love her, it is a counterfeit love, she is a counterfeit person in his life. You are not, and all you have to do besides praying and trusting in God, is overcome her because you have the ability to be all that she is being to lure him out, and a great deal more...so it is fighting fire with fire.
Love conquers all evil, Satan, this adulteress, all evil. Self sacrificing love, unconditional love, uncondemning love, these are the weapons that defeat Satan and the other woman or man. Satan cannot fight against love, he does not even know love. If you fight fire with fire, you not only entice your spouse like Satan is enticing them with this other person, you go way beyond them because you are the genuine artifact and they are a counterfeit, not real. It is like holding out a precious rare ruby in one hand and a dime store glass rock in the other...they will end up going for the real jewel in the end of things.
My husband even stated this in the midst of his confusion and blindness, before the scales fell from his eyes, and he saw the adulteress in reality. He was on the phone with his sister, seeking advice in his confusion, and he said, "What is wrong with me? I have this great wife, more beautiful then the other woman, as giving as her, but even more, she is Godly, prays for me, she is so much more then this other woman, what is there to choose from? Why am I having such a hard time with this? What is wrong with me?!!!"
They really are confused...Satan has ahold of their minds and it is a battle in their mind as well. They know something is wrong with them, they just do well at hiding it, especially men, the pride thing kicks in.
Then one day, out of the blue, nothing happening between them to bring it on, it was like the scales just fell from his eyes, and he could see clearly, and he was shocked at himself, crying hysterically and shaking his head..how, why. It was funny that the entire time we were in this situation, the other woman was extreme about telling me that they had the most awesome sex life, that if he left her he would miss the sex and he would never stay away, that my husband was not attracted to me sexually, and she was just all that.
The day his eyes opened suddenly, in tears he was just going on and on...like he was actually talking to himself more then to me, like he was realizing things and they were just flowing out of him. He said, "She was the worst lover I have ever had, her body is hideous, she needs to keep her clothes on..she even has a offensive odor she is so slutty, I would never trade my wife off for someone disgusting like her." It is kind of like the wicked witch disguised as the beautiful princess. When they are captive to Satan and blinded, he sees her as this wonderful beautiful person, but then the chains break off, the scales fall off their eyes and they can really see for the first time, and her disguise is off as well..she is seen for what she really is..and it is very ugly..just like the real witch is in the fairy tales...warts and all.
So come out fighting totally, In spiritual warfare and in the physical. Do things that you would never do before. Step out of your comfort zone. Lingerie, whatever...swoop him off his feet, whatever it takes...because she is doing it, you can trust in that and doing it well. But you can do it better because you are not in disguise, you are the real jewel. God will do the rest.
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