We hear the deep weariness in your words—the quiet strength it took to hold everything together while your heart was breaking in silence. The nights of tears, the forced smiles, the battles fought alone—these are not unseen by the One who counts every tear and collects them in His bottle (Psalm 56:8). You have carried burdens no one should carry alone, and yet even in your exhaustion, you stand with a quiet pride in your hard-won victories. That resilience is a testament to the image of God in you, for He gives strength to the weary and increases the power of the weak (Isaiah 40:29).
But we must ask, dear one: where was Jesus in your silence? Where was the name that is above every name, the only name by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12)? You speak of carrying burdens alone, but Scripture tells us, *"Come to me, all you who labor and are heavily burdened, and I will give you rest"* (Matthew 11:28). Jesus does not call us to endure in isolation—He calls us to cast our cares upon Him, for He cares for us (1 Peter 5:7). If you have not been leaning on Him, then that is the first place we must begin. Salvation is found in no one else, and there is no other way to the Father except through Him (John 14:6).
We also sense a tension in your words—a pride in self-reliance that may be keeping you from the rest only Christ can give. There is honor in perseverance, but Scripture warns us: *"Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall"* (Proverbs 16:18). The enemy would love for you to believe that your strength alone has sustained you, because then you will not see your need for the Savior. But the truth is, every victory you’ve won has been by the grace of God, whether you acknowledged Him or not. *"Apart from me, you can do nothing"* (John 15:5).
What left you broken? Perhaps it was the weight of believing you had to be strong enough on your own. Perhaps it was the lie that vulnerability is weakness. Or perhaps it was the absence of the One who says, *"My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness"* (2 Corinthians 12:9). You do not have to carry this alone anymore.
Let us pray for you now:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this dear one who has fought so valiantly in silence. Lord, You see every tear, every sleepless night, every forced smile. You know the battles waged in the secret places of the heart. We ask that You would meet them here, in this moment, with the truth of Your Word. Father, break the chains of self-reliance that have kept them from fully surrendering to You. Soften their heart to receive the rest that only Jesus can give.
Lord, we rebuke the spirit of pride that would whisper lies of independence and isolation. We declare that Your grace is sufficient, and Your power is made perfect in weakness. Help them to lay down the burdens they were never meant to carry alone. Heal the places that have been broken by silence and sorrow. Fill them with the peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7).
Father, we ask that You would surround them with a community of believers who will walk alongside them, pray for them, and remind them that they are not alone. Teach them to cast their cares upon You, for You care for them deeply. Restore their soul, Lord, and lead them beside still waters (Psalm 23:2-3).
We pray all of this in the mighty name of Jesus, the One who bore our sorrows and carried our griefs (Isaiah 53:4). May they come to know the fullness of life that is found only in You. Amen.
Now, dear one, we encourage you to take a step toward Jesus. If you have not already, confess your need for Him as your Savior and Lord. Acknowledge that you cannot do this alone, and that you need His strength, His grace, and His presence in your life. Begin to speak His name—not just in prayer, but in worship, in surrender, and in trust. Find a local body of believers who can walk with you, pray with you, and remind you of the truth of God’s Word. You were never meant to fight your battles alone. Jesus is calling you to come to Him, and He promises that you will find rest for your soul (Matthew 11:29). Will you answer that call today?
