What hurt me the most? It hurts because it matters.

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Subject: It hurts because it matters. What hurts me the most is healing from things I never even received an apology for. I carried the weight, did the work, and found my own closure. No explanations, no accountability, just silence. Forgiveness without acknowledgment still leaves scars.
 
We're here with you, friend. We understand that the pain you're feeling is real and it matters. It's okay to hurt, and it's okay to need time to heal. We want you to know that you're not alone in this. We're here to listen, to pray with you, and to remind you that God sees you, He knows your pain, and He loves you deeply.

We want to encourage you to keep seeking healing. It's not a sign of weakness to still feel the pain, but it's important to keep moving forward. Consider talking to a trusted friend, counselor, or pastor about what you're feeling. Sometimes, speaking it out loud can help unburden your heart. And remember, God is always there, ready to listen and to heal.

In Jesus' name, we pray for you. We ask that He would be your Comforter, your Healer, and your Strength. We pray that He would fill the empty spaces in your heart with His love and His presence. We ask that He would give you the courage to keep taking steps towards healing, whatever that may look like for you. And we pray that He would remind you of your worth and your value in His eyes.

You are loved, you are seen, and you are never alone. Keep holding on, one day at a time. We're here for you, every step of the way.
 
Praying for you and your request in Jesus. We don’t have to take thought for things we did but rather always take thought for everything Jesus’ did, does and will do for us. It’s an incredible blessing to stop thinking about my life.

Have we ever really meditated on Matthew 6 where Jesus instructs us to take no thought for our lives? I have looked at this in terms of the rest of the Bible where I have learned to claim His Promises in Jesus and take on His thoughts for my life. Thank You Lord Jesus for Blessing me to learn to stop thinking about my life, learn to take on Your thoughts for my life and so much more for Your Glory and my good in Jesus! Amen! Thank You Jesus! Glory to You Lord Jesus!!!

Do you Believe Jesus died for our sins, is Risen from the dead, is Preparing a place for us and is about to call us to join Him?

Are you watching for Jesus in the Clouds of Glory? Jesus is about to call us to join Him!

We can do everything Jesus did and more! We can speak; sickness leave in Jesus! Be healed by Jesus stripes! I am healed by Jesus stripes! Amen! Thank You Lord Jesus!

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There is nothing that happens for us that is bad except our thoughts about what is happening to us. The Bible says All things work together for our good in Jesus! Look at everything as good!

Sing through out your days Thank You Jesus, Praise You Jesus, Glory to You Lord Jesus or anything that is on your heart to sing to Jesus! It doesn't matter how we sound, Angels will join in with us and Jesus will join in with us as well as fight for us, knock down walls for us, open locks for us, save people for us, evil will flee from us, He heals us and He will over flow His Holy Peace in us.

Praying for others on here and reading your Bible will help you tremendously.

I wanted to commit suicide once, I even came up with a plan. Right before I headed out the door I posted a prayer on here and hoping there might be help from God one last time I opened the Bible and only read take no thought for your life from Matthew 6. I read that before at least 100 times but never really could understand how. This time I took it to heart, all right God I will end my life by not thinking about it. I take no thought, I take no thought, I take no thought over and over and over again I take no thought was my only thought that day. All of a sudden I noticed something, Jesus showed up, all my pains were gone, no neck ache, no back pain, no leg pain from many many accidents I had over the years and no pain in my heart as my wife had left me. I started singing praises and thanks to Jesus and my life has never been the same. My wife returned. It is our obedience to God from His Holy Instructions that makes a difference to His Power of His Promises in our lives.

Be a doer of Jesus friend, it really makes a difference! Thank You Lord Jesus! All things work together for my good in Jesus!

Search the Bible for Jesus' Promises friend, do them and claim them in Jesus! Amen! Thank You Lord Jesus! Glory to You Lord Jesus!!!

Powerful healing promise hidden in Proverbs 3:7-8, I am not wise in my own eyes, I fear You Lord, I depart from evil, especially my own evil thoughts and my flesh is healed and my body is refreshed in Jesus.

Praying for others especially in your situation will help you tremendously in yours friend.

Take no thought for your life dear friend and Jesus will take thought for you. Sing praises and thanks to Jesus and He will overflow His Holy Spirit in you and so much more. He will fight for you and give you the desires of your heart.

Pray this prayer look up the verses and pray it again with your friends and family and let's mount up with wings as eagles and soar. Soar with me.

Let Us Pray: God I ask in Jesus' name, bless me to grow closer to You. I long for a more intimate relationship with You. God I take You at Your Word, if I will draw closer to You, You will draw closer to me (James 4:8). Show me how to draw closer to You. Bless me daily to cast off and forsake my thoughts and ways for my life, and exchange them for Your thoughts and ways for my life. Let me think Your thoughts and dream Your dreams for my life. God bless me to live and walk in Your love, mercy and forgiveness (Isaiah 55:7). I confess, I will take no thought for my life. I will trust You Father God to take thought for me and take care of me (Mathew 6:25-34). I will not be wise in my own eyes, I will fear You Lord and depart from evil and my flesh will be healed and my body will be refreshed (Proverbs 3:7-8) daily. Thank You Jesus for Your Promises! Lord make me the Child of God You need me to be in Christ for all those around me and for the world to see (Psalms 128:3). Not by my might, nor by my power, but by Your Spirt Christ Jesus (Zechariah 4:6) this shall happen. And it will happen, it is happening now in Your timing, Power, Strength, Might, and Spirit, Christ Jesus. God all that I have asked of you in this prayer please do the same for all those I love, care about, and every faithful prayer warrior on this site. Thank You, Thank You, Thank You Lord Jesus, my Savior and Lord for answering this prayer with a Yes and Amen.

Bless us to sing praises and thanks to You Lord Jesus so You can fill us with the wine of the Spirit in Jesus Name, Amen.
 
We hear the deep ache in your words, dear one, and we grieve with you over the wounds that remain unacknowledged. The silence of those who have wronged you can feel like an added burden, as though their refusal to speak leaves your pain unseen by human eyes. Yet we want you to know—your pain *has* been seen. The Lord Himself collects every tear in His bottle (Psalm 56:8) and records every injustice in His book. He does not turn away from the brokenhearted but draws near to bind up their wounds (Psalm 147:3).

Forgiveness is a commandment, not because the offense was small, but because bitterness will only poison *you*. Jesus taught us to forgive "seventy times seven" (Matthew 18:22), not because the wrongs done to us are trivial, but because our hearts were never meant to carry such weight. Yet we acknowledge the tension you feel: forgiveness does not always require reconciliation, and it does not erase the need for justice. The Lord is your vindicator (Romans 12:19), and He will not leave the guilty unpunished (Nahum 1:3). But we must release the burden of vengeance to Him, trusting that His justice is perfect and His timing is sovereign.

We also want to gently challenge the idea that closure must come from another person. While it is right to desire accountability, true healing begins when we surrender our pain to Christ. He is the One who was "wounded for our transgressions" (Isaiah 53:5) and who now invites us to cast our cares upon Him (1 Peter 5:7). The world may offer silence, but He offers Himself—our Comforter, our Advocate, our Peace.

Let us pray together:

Heavenly Father, we come before You on behalf of this dear soul who has carried wounds in silence. Lord, You see every unspoken hurt, every moment of injustice, and every tear shed in private. We ask that You would meet them in their pain and remind them that they are not forgotten. Jesus, You bore the weight of all sin and shame on the cross—help them to release their burdens to You, knowing that You are their true source of healing.

Father, we pray for the ones who have wronged them. If it is Your will, soften their hearts to repentance. But if they remain hardened, guard this heart from bitterness. Fill them with Your peace, which surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7), and remind them that their worth is not defined by the acknowledgment of others but by the love You have lavished upon them (1 John 3:1).

Lord, we declare that no weapon formed against them shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17) and that You are making all things new (Revelation 21:5). Strengthen them to walk in forgiveness, not as a burden, but as a testimony of Your grace. May they find their closure in You, the God who heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.

We ask all these things in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, the One who was despised and rejected yet chose to forgive even from the cross. Amen.

Friend, your pain matters because *you* matter to God. You were not created to carry the weight of unrepentant sin—whether yours or another’s. Lay it down at the foot of the cross and let Christ be your peace. If you have not yet surrendered your life to Him, we urge you to do so today. There is no other name under heaven by which we must be saved (Acts 4:12). Confess your sins, believe in your heart that God raised Jesus from the dead, and you *will* be saved (Romans 10:9). He is waiting with open arms.
 
We're here with you, feeling the weight of the unacknowledged wounds. It's hard, isn't it? Like carrying a heavy backpack with no one to help lighten the load. But remember, even when it feels like no one sees, God does. He's been carrying your burden with you, every step of the way.

Forgiveness is a journey, and it's okay if it's not linear. It's like climbing a mountain - sometimes you take two steps forward, other times one step back. But keep moving, because staying stuck in bitterness only hurts you more.

We believe in your strength, dear one. You've found your own closure, and that's a powerful step. Now, let's trust God with the rest. He's got this. He's got you.

Let's pray together:

Lord, we lift up this dear soul to You. We ask that You would meet them in their pain, remind them of Your love, and help them release their burdens to You. Help them to trust in Your perfect justice and timing.

Comfort them, Lord. Fill them with Your peace that surpasses understanding. Help them to find their closure in You, the God who heals the brokenhearted.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

You're not alone in this. We're here, and God is right there with you. Keep taking those steps, one at a time. You're stronger than you think.
 

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