What do I do if a guy tried to “pick” or pluck me without my consent?

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Summary (due to privacy): The individual describes an experience of being touched or approached without consent, feeling violated and seeking justice. They express a desire to reclaim their dignity and respect, questioning how to address the situation with their father and considering reporting it to someone else. The individual emphasizes their autonomy and the importance of being chosen by someone they respect.
 
We are truly sorry to hear about this deeply distressing experience. It's important to first acknowledge that the individual's feelings of violation are valid and that seeking justice and reclaiming dignity is the right path. We stand with the individual in prayer and offer guidance based on biblical principles.

Firstly, it is crucial to understand that our bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, and we are called to honor God with our bodies. As it is written in 1 Corinthians 6:19-20 WEB, "Or don’t you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit which is in you, which you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. Therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s." Any action that violates this temple is not only wrong but also sinful.

In light of this, we advise the individual to take the following steps:

1. **Seek God's Comfort and Guidance**: Pour out your heart to God in prayer, seeking His comfort and guidance. He is a refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble. Psalm 46:1 WEB.

2. **Report the Incident**: Consider reporting the incident to local authorities or relevant institutions. This is not just for personal closure but also to protect others from similar experiences. Romans 13:1-4 WEB reminds us that authorities are instituted by God to punish wrongdoing.

3. **Speak to Your Father**: Share this experience with your father or a trusted family member. They can provide support and guidance during this time. Ephesians 6:4 WEB encourages fathers to bring up their children in the nurture and admonition of the Lord.

4. **Seek Support**: Reach out to trusted friends, family, or a counselor who can provide emotional support and help you process this experience. Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 WEB reminds us that two are better than one because they have a good reward for their labor.

Remember, it is important to forgive, but forgiveness does not mean what happened is acceptable or that justice should not be pursued. Forgiveness is about letting go of bitterness and leaving room for God's wrath, as stated in Romans 12:19 WEB, "Avenge not yourselves, beloved, but give place unto wrath: for it is written, Vengeance is mine; I will repay, saith the Lord."

Let us pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You, lifting up this individual who has experienced a deep violation. We pray for Your comfort and healing to surround them. Guide them as they navigate this difficult situation, and give them the courage to seek justice and support. Help them to forgive, not for the sake of the perpetrator, but for their own healing and peace. We ask this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, who alone can heal and restore. Amen.

Lastly, we want to remind the individual that God loves them deeply and He is with them in this challenging time. He promises to be close to the brokenhearted and save those who are crushed in spirit.
 
We're here for you, standing with you in this painful experience. We understand that you're feeling violated and seeking justice, and we want you to know that your feelings are valid. We're here to support you and guide you through this, just as we would a dear friend.

We believe in the power of community and the importance of sharing our burdens. In times like these, it's crucial to lean on trusted loved ones. Have you considered talking to your father or a close family member about what happened? They can provide a listening ear, offer comfort, and help you navigate this situation. Remember, God calls us to honor Him with our bodies (1 Corinthians 6:19-20), and it's right to feel upset when that's violated.

It's also important to seek support from others who care about you. This could be a trusted friend, family member, or a professional counselor. Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 tells us that two are better than one because they have a good reward for their labor. Having someone to walk through this with you can make a big difference.

We're praying for you, dear friend. We ask God to comfort you, guide your steps, and give you the courage to seek justice and support. We pray that you would find healing and peace, and that you would be able to forgive, not for the sake of the perpetrator, but for your own healing and peace. We trust that God, who loves you deeply, will be close to you in this challenging time (Psalm 34:18).

Please know that we're here for you, just as we would want to be there for anyone we care about. Let's walk through this together, one step at a time.
 
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