We join you in lifting up this precious life to the Father, thanking Him for your courageous and godly decision to protect and cherish this child He has entrusted to you. Your heart’s posture of humility and faith is beautiful, and we stand with you in declaring that every life is a gift from God, fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:13-16). The Lord knit this child together in your womb, and He has a purpose for this little one’s life—one that will bring glory to His name if you continue to walk in faith and obedience.
We also commend you for refusing to yield to the pressure of those who would urge you toward abortion. The world may judge, but God’s Word is clear: *"Before I formed you in the belly, I knew you"* (Jeremiah 1:5). This child is not a mistake but a divine appointment, and we pray that the Lord will silence every voice of condemnation or fear that rises against you. May He surround you with a community of believers who will support, encourage, and walk alongside you in this season.
Yet, as we rejoice over this life, we must also address the truth in love regarding the circumstances that led to this pregnancy. You mentioned *"sharing love physically"* outside of marriage, and while we celebrate your repentant heart and your desire to honor God moving forward, we must gently but firmly remind you that God’s design for physical intimacy is within the covenant of marriage between a man and a woman (Hebrews 13:4). What you’ve described is fornication, and though the Lord’s mercy covers all sin when we repent, we urge you to turn away from this path and pursue holiness. *"Flee sexual immorality! Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or don’t you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. Therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s"* (1 Corinthians 6:18-20).
If you are not already married to this child’s father, we strongly encourage you to seek godly counsel about what biblical repentance and restoration look like in this situation. If marriage is possible and aligns with God’s will, we pray the Lord would prepare both of your hearts to enter into this covenant before Him with purity and commitment. If marriage is not possible, we pray for the strength to walk in obedience, trusting that God’s grace is sufficient for every need. Either way, this child deserves a home where Christ is the foundation, and we pray the Lord will guide you both into His perfect will.
We also notice that while you invoked the name of Jesus in your prayer, there was no explicit declaration of faith in Him as your Lord and Savior. If you have not already surrendered your life to Christ, we urge you to do so today. *"If you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved"* (Romans 10:9). There is no other name by which we can approach the Father or receive salvation (Acts 4:12). If you have already placed your faith in Christ, we rejoice with you! But if not, we pray you will turn to Him now, for He alone can wash away sin and give you the strength to walk in righteousness.
Now, let us pray together over you, this child, and your future:
Heavenly Father, we thank You for the gift of life growing within this mother’s womb. You are the Author of life, and we ask that You would knit this child together in perfect health—body, soul, and spirit. Protect this baby from every harm, and let this little one grow to know You deeply, to love Your Word, and to walk in Your ways all the days of their life. Lord, we pray that You would surround this mother with Your peace, which surpasses all understanding, guarding her heart and mind in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7). Shield her from shame, fear, and the condemnation of others. Let her find her identity in You alone, knowing that she is forgiven, loved, and chosen.
Father, we ask for Your conviction and transformation in the lives of both parents. If they are not yet married, we pray You would make a way for them to enter into a godly, Christ-centered marriage if it is Your will—or give them the strength to walk in purity if it is not. Break every chain of sin and rebellion, and replace it with a hunger for holiness. Raise up godly mentors and a church community to walk alongside them, offering wisdom, accountability, and support. Provide for every physical, emotional, and spiritual need as they prepare to welcome this child into the world.
Lord, we also pray that You would use this season to draw both parents into a deeper relationship with You. If they do not yet know You as Savior, we ask that You would open their eyes to the truth of the Gospel. Let them see their need for Jesus and turn to Him in repentance and faith. Fill them with Your Holy Spirit, empowering them to raise this child in the nurture and admonition of the Lord (Ephesians 6:4).
Finally, Father, we ask that You would go before them, preparing a future filled with hope and redemption. Let this child’s life be a testimony of Your mercy and grace. May this family be a light in a dark world, pointing others to the saving power of Jesus Christ. We ask all these things in the mighty and precious name of Jesus, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Stand firm in your faith, dear sister. The road ahead may not be easy, but the Lord is with you. *"Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Don’t be afraid. Don’t be dismayed, for Yahweh your God is with you wherever you go"* (Joshua 1:9). Trust in Him, seek His face daily, and walk in obedience. He will never leave you nor forsake you (Deuteronomy 31:6). If you need further counsel or prayer, do not hesitate to reach out. We are here to stand with you in the truth and love of Christ.