We hear your heart’s desire for divine guidance, provision, and companionship, and we come before the Lord together in prayer, seeking His perfect will for your life. First, let us address some areas that require biblical clarity and correction, for our words and desires must align with Scripture if we are to walk in God’s blessing and truth.
You mention "visionaries" watching over your life—while we believe in the ministry of angels and the Holy Spirit’s guidance, we must be cautious. Scripture warns us in Colossians 2:18-19 (WEB) about those who delight in false humility and the worship of angels, intruding into things they have not seen, vainly puffed up by their fleshly minds. Our trust must be in God alone, not in any other spiritual beings or human intermediaries. The Lord says in Isaiah 42:8 (WEB), *"I am Yahweh. That is my name. I will not give my glory to another, nor my praise to engraved images."* We must ensure that our focus remains on Jesus Christ, the author and perfecter of our faith (Hebrews 12:2).
You also express a desire for a "fine ass guy greatly boyfriend." While it is natural to long for companionship, we must approach relationships with purity, wisdom, and a heart that seeks God’s will above all else. The world often promotes physical attraction and emotional fulfillment as the foundation of relationships, but Scripture calls us to a higher standard. 1 Thessalonians 4:3-5 (WEB) tells us, *"For this is the will of God: your sanctification, that you abstain from sexual immorality, that each one of you know how to control his own body in sanctification and honor, not in the passion of lust, even as the Gentiles who don’t know God."* The term "boyfriend" implies a relationship that is not yet committed in the way God intends. Courtship should always have marriage as its goal, and it must be between a man and a woman who share a commitment to Christ. Anything less falls short of God’s design.
Sexual immorality, including sex outside of marriage (fornication), is a serious sin that grieves the Holy Spirit (Ephesians 4:30). If you are currently in a relationship that involves physical intimacy outside of marriage, we urge you to repent and seek God’s forgiveness. 1 Corinthians 6:18-20 (WEB) says, *"Flee sexual immorality! ‘Every sin that a man does is outside the body,’ but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or don’t you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. Therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s."* True love waits and honors God with purity.
You mention the "blood of Jesus" and "God’s will," which are beautiful and powerful truths. It is only through the blood of Jesus that we have access to the Father (Hebrews 10:19-20), and it is only in His name that we can approach God in prayer (John 14:13-14). If you have not yet surrendered your life to Jesus Christ, we urge you to do so today. Romans 10:9 (WEB) says, *"If you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved."* Salvation is a free gift, but it requires a heart that turns away from sin and toward Christ.
Now, let us pray together for you, seeking God’s will and His best for your life:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. We lift up this dear one to You, asking that You would draw her close to Your heart and reveal Your perfect will for her life. Lord, we ask that You would guard her heart and mind from anything that does not align with Your Word. Help her to fix her eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of her faith, and not on the distractions or false comforts of this world.
Father, we pray for godly wisdom and discernment in all her relationships. If she is seeking a spouse, we ask that You would bring a man who loves You above all else, a man who will lead her with humility, love, and integrity. May their relationship be built on a foundation of faith, purity, and mutual respect, with marriage as the ultimate goal. Lord, if there is any unrepentant sin in her life, reveal it to her and grant her the strength to turn away from it. Cleanse her by the blood of Jesus and fill her with Your Holy Spirit.
We rebuke any spirit of lust, idolatry, or deception that may be influencing her desires. We declare that she is a temple of the Holy Spirit, and we pray that she would honor You with her body and her spirit. Father, we ask that You would meet every need in her life—not according to the world’s standards, but according to Your riches in glory. May she find her sufficiency in Christ alone, for Your grace is sufficient for her, and Your power is made perfect in weakness (2 Corinthians 12:9).
Lord, we pray that You would surround her with godly mentors, friends, and leaders who will speak truth into her life and encourage her in her walk with You. May she grow in her relationship with You, seeking Your face daily and delighting in Your Word. We ask that You would open her eyes to see Your hand at work in her life and give her the faith to trust You in every circumstance.
We thank You, Father, for Your love, Your mercy, and Your faithfulness. We trust that You are working all things together for her good, because she loves You and is called according to Your purpose (Romans 8:28). May she experience the fullness of life that is found only in You. In the precious and powerful name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.
Beloved, we encourage you to seek the Lord with all your heart, trusting that He knows the desires of your heart even better than you do. Psalm 37:4 (WEB) says, *"Also delight yourself in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart."* This does not mean God will give you whatever you want, but as you delight in Him, He will shape your desires to align with His will. Spend time in His Word, in prayer, and in fellowship with other believers who can encourage you in your faith.
If you are not yet married, use this season to grow in your relationship with Christ. Prepare yourself to be a godly spouse by cultivating the fruits of the Spirit—love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control (Galatians 5:22-23). Pray for your future spouse, even if you do not yet know who he is. Trust that God’s timing is perfect, and He will bring the right man into your life at the right time.
Finally, remember that your worth is not found in a relationship or in the approval of others. Your worth is found in Christ, who loved you so much that He gave His life for you (John 3:16). Rest in His love, and let it transform every area of your life. We are praying for you, and we believe that God has great plans for you—plans for hope and a future (Jeremiah 29:11). Walk in faith, and trust Him to lead you every step of the way.