We hear your desperate cry for divine intervention, and we join with you in lifting this matter before the throne of God. First, we must address the foundation of our prayers—there is no other name under heaven by which we must be saved except the name of Jesus Christ (Acts 4:12). It is only through Him that we have access to the Father, and it is only by His blood that we are cleansed from sin. We pray that the one you are interceding for would come to know Jesus as Lord and Savior, for salvation is found in no one else.
The scriptures make it clear that idolatry is an abomination to the Lord. The first commandment declares, *"You shall have no other gods before me"* (Exodus 20:3). The false gods and teachings you mention are indeed detestable before the Lord, and we stand with you in renouncing them in the mighty name of Jesus. We rebuke every false belief, every chain of darkness, and every stronghold that has taken root in this person’s life. The Word of God tells us, *"The idols of the nations are silver and gold, the work of men’s hands. They have mouths, but they don’t speak. They have eyes, but they don’t see. They have ears, but they don’t hear; neither is there any breath in their mouths. Those who make them will be like them; yes, everyone who trusts in them"* (Psalm 135:15-18). We pray that the Lord would shatter every idol in this person’s life and fill them with the truth of His Word.
We also address the sexual sin, lust, and perversion mentioned in your request. The Bible is clear that sexual immorality is a sin against one’s own body, which is the temple of the Holy Spirit (1 Corinthians 6:18-20). We rebuke every spirit of lust, pornography, and perversion in the name of Jesus. The Lord desires purity and holiness for His children, and we pray that this person would be set free from every form of sexual sin. *"Flee sexual immorality! ‘Every sin that a man does is outside the body,’ but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body"* (1 Corinthians 6:18). We ask the Lord to cleanse and restore this person’s mind, heart, and body to walk in purity before Him.
Regarding the relationship you are praying for, we must emphasize that marriage is a sacred covenant between one man and one woman, designed by God to reflect Christ’s love for the Church (Ephesians 5:22-33). If this relationship is not founded on biblical principles, we urge you to seek the Lord’s will above your own desires. The Bible warns us, *"Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?"* (2 Corinthians 6:14). If the person you are praying for is not a believer in Jesus Christ, we must pray first and foremost for their salvation, not merely for the fulfillment of relational desires. The Lord’s will must take precedence over our own.
We also notice the language of control and manipulation in your prayer—asking the Lord to make you the "woman of his dreams" and to force his love and desire for you. This is not how godly relationships are formed. Love is a choice, and it must be given freely, not coerced. The Bible tells us, *"Love is patient and is kind; love doesn’t envy. Love doesn’t brag, is not proud, doesn’t behave itself inappropriately, doesn’t seek its own way, is not provoked, takes no account of evil; doesn’t rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things"* (1 Corinthians 13:4-7). We pray that the Lord would align your heart with His will and that any unhealthy desires for control or manipulation would be surrendered to Him.
Now, let us come before the Lord in prayer:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, the only name by which we can be saved. We lift up this person to You, Lord, and ask that You would break every chain of darkness that has bound them. We rebuke every false god, every idol, every lie, and every spirit of lust, perversion, and sexual sin in the name of Jesus. We declare that no weapon formed against them will prosper (Isaiah 54:17), and we ask that You would fill them with Your Holy Spirit, leading them into all truth.
Lord, we pray for their salvation. Open their eyes to see the truth of the Gospel, that Jesus Christ died for their sins and rose again so that they might have eternal life. Soften their heart to receive You as Lord and Savior. We ask that You would appear to them in dreams and visions, revealing Yourself to them in a powerful way. Let them know that You are the way, the truth, and the life (John 14:6).
Father, we also pray for wisdom and discernment in this relationship. If it is Your will for these two individuals to be together, we ask that You would bring them into alignment with Your Word. Let their relationship be built on the foundation of Christ, with mutual respect, love, and submission to one another. If this relationship is not of You, we ask that You would close the door and redirect their paths according to Your perfect plan.
Lord, we surrender our desires to You. Help us to seek Your will above all else. Remove any spirit of control, manipulation, or selfishness from our hearts. Fill us with Your love, peace, and joy, and let us walk in a manner worthy of the calling You have placed on our lives.
We thank You, Father, for Your faithfulness and for hearing our prayers. We trust in Your perfect timing and Your perfect plan. May Your will be done in this situation, and may Your name be glorified. In Jesus’ name, we pray. Amen.
