We hear the deep anguish and desperation in your heart, and we join you in lifting this situation before the Lord with urgency and solemnity. Your pain is real, and the betrayal you are experiencing is a grievous violation of the covenant of marriage that God established. We stand with you in prayer, but we also must address this situation with the truth and authority of Scripture, for it is only in God’s Word and through the power of Jesus Christ that true restoration and healing can come.
First, we commend you for invoking the name of Jesus Christ in your decrees, for there is no other name under heaven by which we must be saved, and through which we have access to the Father. As Scripture declares, *"There is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"* (Acts 4:12, WEB). It is only through Christ that we can approach the throne of grace with confidence, and it is in His name that we wage spiritual warfare against the schemes of the enemy.
However, we must also gently remind you that while declarations of faith are powerful, they must be rooted in surrender to God’s will and aligned with His Word. Marriage is a sacred covenant, and infidelity is a sin that grieves the heart of God. The Lord hates divorce (Malachi 2:16), but He also hates unfaithfulness, which is why He calls His people to holiness and repentance. Your husband’s actions are not only a betrayal of you but a sin against God Himself. As it is written, *"Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed is undefiled; but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers."* (Hebrews 13:4, WEB).
We must also address the tone of your request. While your pain is understandable, we are called to pray with humility and trust in God’s sovereignty, not merely demand outcomes as if we control them. Jesus taught us to pray, *"Your kingdom come. Your will be done, on earth as it is in heaven"* (Matthew 6:10, WEB). Our prayers should reflect a heart that seeks God’s will above all else, even as we boldly ask for His intervention. We do not manipulate heaven with repetitive or formulaic words, but we come before the Lord with reverence, brokenness, and faith in His power to restore what is broken.
Now, let us pray together for your marriage, your husband, and your heart.
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**Prayer:**
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our sister who is brokenhearted and wounded by the sin of infidelity in her marriage. Lord, You see her pain, her anger, and her desperation. You know the depth of her sorrow, and You collect every tear in Your bottle (Psalm 56:8). We ask You to be her Comforter, her Strength, and her Shield in this time of betrayal.
Lord, we pray for her husband, who has strayed from the covenant he made before You. Father, convict his heart by the power of the Holy Spirit. Let him see the gravity of his sin—not just against his wife, but against You. Bring him to true repentance, Lord, a repentance that leads to life (Acts 11:18). Break the chains of sin that have bound him, and sever every ungodly soul tie that has formed through this relationship. Let him turn away from this sin completely, with no desire to return to it.
We pray that You would expose every hidden thing. If there are photographs, messages, or any remnants of this sin on his devices or in his heart, we ask that You would cause him to delete them permanently, not out of mere obligation, but out of a genuine desire to honor You and his wife. Let him be so filled with the Holy Spirit that there is no room in his heart for lust, deceit, or unfaithfulness.
Father, we ask that You restore the love, trust, and intimacy in this marriage. Soften both of their hearts toward one another, and help them to forgive as You have forgiven us in Christ (Ephesians 4:32). Let her husband’s eyes be turned wholly toward his wife, that he may see her beauty, her worth, and her value as a daughter of the King. Renew his mind, Lord, that he may desire only her, cherish only her, and be faithful to her alone.
We rebuke the spirit of adultery, lust, and deception that has sought to destroy this marriage. By the authority of Jesus Christ, we bind these spirits and command them to flee. We declare that no weapon formed against this marriage shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17), and we ask You, Lord, to rebuild what has been broken. Let this marriage be a testimony of Your redeeming power, that others may see and know that You are a God who restores and heals.
Father, we also pray for our sister’s heart. Heal her wounds, Lord. Replace her pain with Your peace, her anger with Your love, and her fear with Your faith. Help her to trust You even in this storm, knowing that You are working all things together for her good (Romans 8:28). Give her wisdom to know how to respond, strength to set godly boundaries, and grace to extend forgiveness when the time is right.
We ask all of this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, who has the power to redeem, restore, and make all things new. Amen.
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Now, our sister, we want to encourage you with the truth of God’s Word. The pain you are feeling is valid, and the betrayal you have experienced is real. But take heart: God is not surprised by this, and He is not powerless to intervene. The same God who parted the Red Sea, raised Lazarus from the dead, and conquered the grave is the God who hears your cries today.
We urge you to seek the Lord earnestly in this season. Spend time in His Word, especially passages that speak of His faithfulness and restoration. Here are a few to meditate on:
- *"The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit."* (Psalm 34:18, WEB)
- *"He heals the broken in heart, and binds up their wounds."* (Psalm 147:3, WEB)
- *"For I, the Lord your God, will hold your right hand, saying to you, ‘Don’t be afraid. I will help you.’"* (Isaiah 41:13, WEB)
We also encourage you to seek godly counsel, whether from a pastor, a trusted Christian mentor, or a biblical counselor. You do not have to walk through this alone. The body of Christ is called to bear one another’s burdens (Galatians 6:2), and we are here to stand with you in prayer and support.
If your husband is unwilling to repent, know that God still sees you, and He will sustain you. Your worth is not defined by your husband’s faithfulness but by Christ’s love for you. You are precious in His sight (Isaiah 43:4), and He will never leave you nor forsake you (Deuteronomy 31:6).
Lastly, we must remind you that while we pray for restoration, we also pray for godly sorrow that leads to repentance in your husband’s heart (2 Corinthians 7:10). If he does not turn from this sin, you must seek the Lord’s wisdom on how to proceed, always prioritizing obedience to God above all else. Marriage is a covenant, but it must be built on the foundation of Christ and His holiness.
We will continue to pray for you, our sister. May the Lord grant you peace that surpasses understanding, strength for each day, and hope for the future. Trust in Him, for He is faithful. *"The Lord’s loving kindnesses indeed never cease, for his compassions never fail. They are new every morning. Great is your faithfulness."* (Lamentations 3:22-23, WEB).
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
