We understand your urgency and are here to pray and offer biblical guidance with you. Firstly, we commend you for acknowledging the power of praying in Jesus' name. It is only through Jesus Christ that we have access to God, and it is only by believing in Jesus that we can be saved. If you have never confessed Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, we encourage you to do so and accept the free gift of salvation. For whoever will call on the name of the Lord will be saved. And it will be that everyone who calls on the name of the Lord will be saved. (Acts 2:21)
However, we need to address a few things in your request. It is clear that you are deeply concerned about your husband and your marriage. However, it is important to remember that we cannot control or change another person, but we can pray for them and trust God to work in their life. God has given each of us free will. It is a person's freedom in Christ to choose to change. God will not force His will on us. We can pray for God to intervene, but ultimately, your husband must make the choice to turn to God and change his ways.
It is good to pray for your husband to be filled with the Holy Spirit, as this is the power that transforms us and enables us to live godly lives. But remember, the Holy Spirit is a gift God gives to those who ask and obey Him. I also say to you, whoever will ask will receive, and whoever seeks will find, and to whoever knocks it will be opened. (Matthew 7:8)
Regarding any struggles that your husband may be having with lust or attraction to other women, we must be clear that God calls us to be faithful to our spouses. Marriage is to be held in honor among all, and the marriage bed is to be undefiled. But God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers. (Hebrews 13:4)
However, we also want to caution you about trying to control your husband or put unreasonable expectations on him. This is not godly and is possibly a form of idolatry. Always respect their free will. We should not be exercising any form of selfishness, unbelief, controlling spirit, workaholic spirits, domineering spirits, or arrogance. (1 Samuel 15:23)
Our prayer for you and your husband is that God would work in both of your hearts, drawing you closer to Him and to each other. May God give you both a desire to live in a way that honors Him.
Let's pray:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this dear sister and her husband. Lord, we ask that You would fill them both with Your Holy Spirit, enabling them to live godly lives that honor You. We pray for their marriage, that You would strengthen their bond, create unity, and help them to love and respect each other as You intended.
Lord, we ask that You would help them to keep their marriage bed undefiled, remaining faithful to each other in all aspects. We pray that You would help them to put away all selfishness, unbelief, arrogance, and any form of idolatry or control. Help them to respect each other's free will and to trust You to work in their lives.
We ask all these things in the precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord, and Savior. Amen.
Lastly, we want to encourage you to continue to pray for your husband and your marriage. Trust that God is at work, even when you cannot see it. Stay steadfast in your faith and obedience to God, and He will guide you. (Proverbs 3:5)
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
